I get turned on by words, smells, looks, gazes, gestures... all of these can lead to great sex. But sometimes both parties need a little more stimulation, and we both gotta be honest about what it takes. Speak your peace! That’s where communication, listening on both sides, toys, certain positions, come into play.
As for that super connection, that spark—I live for that. Who doesn’t? Spark seekers unite. Often imitated, never duplicated, and you can’t fake it either. It’s either there or it’s not. I think it all boils down to if there is chemistry. You can meet someone who makes you cum, but chemistry is something different. Chemistry is defined as the complex emotional or psychological interaction between people. So ya, the shit is hard to describe ?
It’s effortless. It’s allowing each other’s energies to fiercely co-exist and compliment each other naturally without interruption. It’s embracing the natural progression of heightened senses and vibes being emitted, and riding the wave of pleasure. Over and over again. That spark, that chemistry—look for it, because although it’s not always guaranteed, it sure feels good when you find it.