Weirdest Outcome to an otherwise good session.

[Miss Hunter]

Is this the new millennial math?

Paid for 90 and got 50 min. Ten min to shower and leave. Seems to me I was the one shorted.

I don’t need to sit there freshly showered listening to someone go on about nutrition for 40 minutes on a subject i didn’t initialize nor participate in. I can always watch Chopped for free at home.

But yah, it’s totally acceptable to waste a client’s time and expect a tip for doing so.

I don't think expecting sex for the entire 90 mins is acceptable either. Why didn't you just speak up? Be a man and take the lead? Maybe she thought you were enjoying the chat. Many guys book longer dates for the companionship aspect. SPs aren't mind readers.

 

[Miss Hunter]

I don't think we're going to agree on this here, but I'll say my piece and we can agree to disagree from here. With this very logic it should be seen as a woman being held responsible for being raped because she was out of her house after dark in a revealing dress. Not doing DATY out of fear that I may cause a girl to squirt and then being charged for it is absurd, that's like not doing doggy style out of fear that an SP who offers Greek will guide me into her ass so that she can upcharge me for Greek at the end without my consent.
I don't fully disagree though on leaving a final tip, though not everyone generally carries the extra cash. In that particular case I was going to tip $40 anyway and it was coincidence that she expected it for involuntary squirting.

And you...your logic makes no sense to me either. It sounds to me you got hustled, did you post a review back in 2009 or 2010 when this happened? You could have just reported your experience at the time and moved along.

And comparing this to rape, oh please

 

[ElsiDawson]

And you...your logic makes no sense to me either. Its sounds to me you got hustled, did you post a review back in 2009 or 2010 when this happened? You could have just reported your experience at the time and moved along.

And comparing this to rape, oh please

!! "I would have given her the $40 dollars anyway for her service but when she told me to give her the forty dollars for her service, I knew I'd be sulking about it ten years later."

And comparing it to rape, charming.

 

[badbadboy]

For the record, I was not expecting sex for the entire 90 minutes. My point was 40 minutes was wasted and after a quick shower, a tip was requested because I was leaving 10 minutes late. I did point out that 40 minutes is way too long for a one way conversation prior to sex.

If it’s someone I’ve seen before and have a multi hour date booked, I’m a lot more flexible on the timing. First date is always 90 min and prefer 70 - 75 min of playtime. I don’t think this is an unreasonable expectation.

 

[ElsiDawson]

For the record, I was not expecting sex for the entire 90 minutes. My point was 40 minutes was wasted and after a quick shower, a tip was requested because I was leaving 10 minutes late. I did point out that 40 minutes is way too long for a one way conversation prior to sex.

If it’s someone I’ve seen before and have a multi hour date booked, I’m a lot more flexible on the timing. First date is always 90 min and prefer 70 - 75 min of playtime. I don’t think this is an unreasonable expectation.

90 minutes as a stranger in someone's incall for the first time alone with them
Less 10 mins to shower and leave (your numbers)
Less 70 - 75 mins of playtime

Lemme pull out my millennial calculator and...

carry the one

You hope that your charm alone can take you from Stranger Danger to Horizontal Dance Partner in

5-10 minutes?

I do hope you're flexing for your friends right now and not serious. Even Subway demands you stay longer before you get into their bathroom alone and they're the one putting out the inches.

 

[badbadboy]

90 minutes as a stranger in someone's incall for the first time alone with them
Less 10 mins to shower and leave (your numbers)
Less 70 - 75 mins of playtime

Lemme pull out my millennial calculator and...

carry the one

You hope that your charm alone can take you from Stranger Danger to Horizontal Dance Partner in

5-10 minutes?

I do hope you're flexing for your friends right now and not serious. Even Subway demands you stay longer before you get into their bathroom alone and they're the one putting out the inches.

.... and I do often leave unshowered because of time and my own quirk of having the scent stay on me.

I take it that you are supportive of the wasting of 40 minutes of a 90 minute date and it’s totally acceptable. I’d imagine there would be a fair amount of pushback from clients / reviewers.

 

[ElsiDawson]

.... and I do often leave unshowered because of time and my own quirk of having the scent stay on me.

I take it that you are supportive of the wasting of 40 minutes of a 90 minute date and it’s totally acceptable. I’d imagine there would be a fair amount of pushback from clients / reviewers.

"Highest recommendation."

"Physicality aside, Elsi s one of the wittiest, funniest, smartest people I have ever met. Anywhere. In any context. She is someone i could gladly while away the day with, just bullshitting and drinking beer. No - make that multiple days. She is an exceptional extraordinary person."

"A few ladies that I have visited and would like to repeat with are Elsi. She is a fun firecracker! Great sense of humor and very sexy."

"Anyhows I booked for a couple of hours and the only regret is that time ran out and that I live on the wrong continent. Otherwise I would quite happily see her as regularly as I could to know her far better and be working out a way to keep her to myself"

"We had much great conversation. Elsi is whip smart and funny as hell. Don't get into a snark wrestling match with her, as she'll pin your ass with her rapier wit."


Right. Sorry, I need to get going, I have a guest lecture at UBC this week that I have to go prep for. Some people especially like me for my words, hey?


kthxbyeeeeee

 

[felixthecat]

I feel like these sorts of things are going to likely get normalized with some of the newer Millennial type SP's making their way

I doubt it has anything to do with their generation. It might be related to the way they enter the industry. First lessons stay in memory for a long time. Charging for anything extra is common for strippers-turned-escorts. With downfall of strip clubs, that source of "a la carte" mentality was reduced.

However, web cams today are often a starting ground for new SPs. It might cultivate the same logic, anything optional becomes extra.

Other than training, I don't believe anything makes women more fond of discussing money in the middle of the session than you or me are. There are some hustlers, of course. There are also those who are not comfortable with optional charges, so they rely on YMMV.

 

[Sub-Slut]

.... and I do often leave unshowered because of time and my own quirk of having the scent stay on me.

I take it that you are supportive of the wasting of 40 minutes of a 90 minute date and it’s totally acceptable. I’d imagine there would be a fair amount of pushback from clients / reviewers.

Maybe pushback from "clients" such as yourself.

Remember when Miss Hunter told you to "man up" and move the conversation along? I do like how you didn't respond to that part. Kind of seems you trying to validate your complaining and not trying to move on from something 10 years ago, bud. If only you gave yer' balls a tug and tried to move the conversation along, instead of sighing and watching your stopwatch, you could'a had a way better time!

You have multiple prestigious providers saying "give your head a shake" and you are arguing your position off a cliff, hoping your Bros will save you.

Gah.

 

[Sub-Slut]

I don't think we're going to agree on this here, but I'll say my piece and we can agree to disagree from here. With this very logic it should be seen as a woman being held responsible for being raped because she was out of her house after dark in a revealing dress. Not doing DATY out of fear that I may cause a girl to squirt and then being charged for it is absurd, that's like not doing doggy style out of fear that an SP who offers Greek will guide me into her ass so that she can upcharge me for Greek at the end without my consent.
I don't fully disagree though on leaving a final tip, though not everyone generally carries the extra cash. In that particular case I was going to tip $40 anyway and it was coincidence that she expected it for involuntary squirting.

Now this is a the result of a dumpster fire taking a train wreck on a night out. Wow.

I don't often get to think that I am better than someone, but after this? Thank you I guess?

 

[wintersurfer]

Maybe pushback from "clients" such as yourself.

Remember when Miss Hunter told you to "man up" and move the conversation along? I do like how you didn't respond to that part. Kind of seems you trying to validate your complaining and not trying to move on from something 10 years ago, bud. If only you gave yer' balls a tug and tried to move the conversation along, instead of sighing and watching your stopwatch, you could'a had a way better time!

You have multiple prestigious providers saying "give your head a shake" and you are arguing your position off a cliff, hoping your Bros will save you.

Gah.

I think you have mixed up “BBB” and the original poster...