VOTE! The Allure of Deep Throat

To gag or not to gag?

  • Gagging is good

    Votes: 26 38.2%
  • NO gagging is good

    Votes: 39 57.4%
  • Roman Shower all the way

    Votes: 3 4.4%

  • Total voters
    68

take8easy

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Jul 27, 2014
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I don't care for gagging or deep throating.

I am not big at all and I chuckle to myself when I am being pleasured orally and the SP's are going "khhhh khhhh khhHHHHHH ugggghhhh grr kkhkhkhhhkh". But I know that tip of my tool is barely touching tip of their tongue. I am not questioning that many SP's can deep throat it but I know my boy is not big enough to cause gagging. :) I am more into sensual pleasuring, teasing, touching, gentle stroking etc.

But I am sure for many guys gagging represents dominance. Hey, sure, ladies, whoever cocks your throat and guys, whatever rocks your boat.

T8E

PS:

Certain things have become spectacles rather than sex itself. Watching women shove ping pong balls, carrots, hands, fists, baseballs bats up their ... various orifices is not sexy, not to me anyways. I have seen porn where the girl is taking a hugely long ding dong so deep down her throat that you can see her throat swelling up. I used to be amazed at it and I still salute their talent, but it doesn't do a thing for me.

As much as I don't care for gagging and DT, I used to have this online woman friend, who was sexy as hell. We often roleplayed or had phone sex. She used to love the idea of being throat f***ed. Later she got married and told me that she did try to deep throat her husband but it caused a gag reflex and it ended up in a..... "roman shower" (new phrase in my vocabulary). Needless to say, DT never came up in our phone sex again.
 

Elmore

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Sep 30, 2011
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Gonna have to go with this one. And maybe a little bit of "I saw it in porn so it must be good / I should try it / I must have it / whatever".

As for the dominance thing, I have to say that's actually creepy. If it is only the man deriving any satisfaction from the sexual act, then it's like a weird "I can abuse this woman" fantasy. For me to actually want to do it, I would need to know the woman actually wants it done with her. Same with doggy style and anal, I'm finding. IMO of course, YMMV.
Sounds like you ask in advance but in case you think all women find pleasure in DATY you are misinformed but they tolerate it with obligatory ooohs and aaahs. Most would opt for just a few minutes of doggie that some last instead of 30 minutes of DATY.

Are BJs okay except if a woman is on her knees in what could be construed as a prostrating position...in which case it is demeaning?

It's just sex. We're not making love and we're not in love. The escort customer relationship is about expressing and respecting boundaries while living out a fantasy.
 

apl16

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Jul 26, 2011
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Look left. Way left.
I'm kind of like Linda Lovelace in the eponymous movie I think....While I am fairly sure I don't ACTUALLY have a clit in my throat, I do know that giving good head is better when it's wetter...and I don't like the way artificial lubricant tastes. I wouldn't say I have no gag reflex, I would say I have a very well trained, & highly efficient, gag reflex. To those gents who've assisted in my training, many thanks! However, I have no desire to push it to the point where I begin to vomit! Once I start, I won't stop until there's nothing left to bring up but bile, & nobody finds full body dry heaving attractive.
But I'm sure you will do it with style and grace.
 

zigzag6984

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My theory is that some guys saw it in a porno and thought that was what was supposed to happen during sex and so they request it. Deep throating is all fun and games until you go to far, make her gag and her teeth go down on your pecker.
 

dickotoole

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gagging is good and no gagging is good, Roman Shower is completely out of sorts with anything sexual or erotic to me. Each to his or her own.

Taylor Made (and the various other names she went by) could deepthroat anything and she could also stop your/my cock and gag on it for a few strokes and then is slide balls deep repeatedly and then do the cock block at the back of her throat again. For me it was amazing. Her eyes watered up and she gasped for air sometimes but she was totally in control and fucked my cock with her mouth/throat. I have had deep throat before and after her but no one has come close to her ability to block or allow cock down her throat.
 

jtanks

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Sep 7, 2017
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I've had two different girls puke when they tried to deep throat me. That's the only time bj's are not very enjoyable.
 
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