Virginity
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Lots of good advice in this thread, but
- girl refuses service (most ladies will refuse to see an intoxicated client)
- your performance suffers due to the effects of the booze
- your personality suffers due to the effects of the booze
- if you're a real lightweight, you get sick or pass out
- the experience is not really satisfying to you because you're not at your best (and your recollection of it is hazy)
that (above) is bad advice. If you're nervous, have ONE or TWO drinks to break the ice and loosen you up, but that's it. Any more than that and you risk any or all of the following:
- girl refuses service (most ladies will refuse to see an intoxicated client)
- your performance suffers due to the effects of the booze
- your personality suffers due to the effects of the booze
- if you're a real lightweight, you get sick or pass out
- the experience is not really satisfying to you because you're not at your best (and your recollection of it is hazy)
Hey Mwanna;
It's been a while. Did ya do it bro? how about posting a review? It would be great to get a review on an SP from your point of view! (Plus. we all want to celebrate with ya!)
It's been a while. Did ya do it bro? how about posting a review? It would be great to get a review on an SP from your point of view! (Plus. we all want to celebrate with ya!)
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research only takes you so far, and you never really know a lady until you actually meet her in person.
and chemistry kicks in or not
take some viagra to ensure you can go multiple rounds & it will help your courage having an extra rock hard soldier.
curiosity is good but loneliness is bad you will fall in love with who ever you see
i looked for 3 weeks when i started and it is very addicting. i remeber the first time i called i lost my voice.for me the first time i was very nervous and just told the SP it was my first time. she was very nice and slow and now i have seen her 8 times and each time it gets better. i dont know what other SPs do but we still talk and PM each other and i even got to spend some time with her outside are "dates"
The truth is that "searching" for that first special lady can be very overwhelming. And the longer you build it up in your mind, the more intimidating it will seem and the more nervous you'll become. If you're serious, my suggestion is to pick one or two that already intrigue you and send a private message or email or two to say hello and see if you establish a rapport. I personally always enjoyed engaging with ladies in chat to gauge what they were like and if I felt we would get along but I find that, unfortunately, it's becoming increasingly rare for the lovely ladies of perb to join.
Anyway, best of luck to you as you continue your search.
I disagree with everyone on here,dont be using a SP.
Spend your money else where.Get out and try dating and meet people that have common interests like you said youve gone 20 some odd years what the hell is the rush.
Using an SP will probably lead you to always using SP's..you dont need to get laid ,you need to build relationships with like minded people,get some confidence and life skills.
Last but not least look up a few of the people who gave you advice and you will find they dont even use SP,s themself or are anal retentive shits worried more about spelling mistakes or fitting in here.
Half the people on this site have no lives themselves (so why would you take any advice from them), your not as alone as you may think.
Spend your money else where.Get out and try dating and meet people that have common interests like you said youve gone 20 some odd years what the hell is the rush.
Using an SP will probably lead you to always using SP's..you dont need to get laid ,you need to build relationships with like minded people,get some confidence and life skills.
Last but not least look up a few of the people who gave you advice and you will find they dont even use SP,s themself or are anal retentive shits worried more about spelling mistakes or fitting in here.
Half the people on this site have no lives themselves (so why would you take any advice from them), your not as alone as you may think.
i think he is right you will find it to easy to just go see a SP to get laid and not get a proper relationship if you read some posts you will see it is easy to fall for an SP, but they are just there to provide a service which you pay for. it also gets very addicting too
I also had a sp's first time as a sp, a fox no less and now she's my fave sp! pretty special!
Ingrid gives some great advice and you should take all that she said and put it to good use.
Don't wait too long to make your decision, you will end up postponing it and it may not happen. You need to narrow it down to like your top 3 girls, send each one a PM or an email and converse with them a bit. You will get to know their personalities and chances are one will click with you and stand out beyond the others. That my friend is the girl that you want.
Be polite, and friendly and be clean....you will get to have a great first time if you make your choice with a girl that you "click" with. Main thing is don't wait too long, get out there and get it done.
dave
Don't wait too long to make your decision, you will end up postponing it and it may not happen. You need to narrow it down to like your top 3 girls, send each one a PM or an email and converse with them a bit. You will get to know their personalities and chances are one will click with you and stand out beyond the others. That my friend is the girl that you want.
Be polite, and friendly and be clean....you will get to have a great first time if you make your choice with a girl that you "click" with. Main thing is don't wait too long, get out there and get it done.
dave
No Hubba, you were right. You are truly one of a kind.WOW....you mean half the people on this site are just like me?
I thought I was the only one
I'm with itooam1 on this. Ur ONLY 22!!! If u were 42 maybe thatd be different. And, to me, hiring an sp to lose ur virginity without even trying the dating/relationship scene is like entering the cheat code for GOD MODE in wolfenstein. Where's the reward in that??? U'll probably bust in 2 minutes anyway - so there goes ur $300+! Put a little effort into it, get urself out there and go kiss a girl. Then get ur heart broken. But u'll be like a 100x better person for it. And WORSE CASE SCENARIO, u can always fall back on the sp route.
