Virginity
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I disagree with those telling you to date first. If you are 22 without having kissed a girl, you are clearly in need of a confidence boost, and you need to reduce the anxiety you are feeling around the opposite sex.
Do NOT get yourself in an endless loop of anxiety about women and dating and your inexperience. It will just get worse as time goes by.
Go to an SP, but you have to heed the warnings that people are are giving you. This hobby can be addictive, and expensive. You need to view this as an isolated experience, or short series of experiences before you move on with the rest of you life.
Here's an idea: join an online dating service AND go see an SP, at the same time. Get out there and DO SOMETHING!
P.S. - In dating, you will get rejected. Period. It gets easier... another period.
Do NOT get yourself in an endless loop of anxiety about women and dating and your inexperience. It will just get worse as time goes by.
Go to an SP, but you have to heed the warnings that people are are giving you. This hobby can be addictive, and expensive. You need to view this as an isolated experience, or short series of experiences before you move on with the rest of you life.
Here's an idea: join an online dating service AND go see an SP, at the same time. Get out there and DO SOMETHING!
P.S. - In dating, you will get rejected. Period. It gets easier... another period.
Dude if you have'nt already taken the plunge! get it on with an escort as quickly as you can ! Once you get rid of the big V you'll feel more confident with regular women, keep seeing escorts and this confidence will only increase. There will be less pressure to score with girls out there in the real world. If you do finally manage to have sex with a non-paid lady you'll actually know some tricks and be a more impressive.
Getting over the fear to see an escort is also similar to the fear of talking to regular girls. If your confident enough to do the taboo and call up a hooker and pay for sex (yes it is a major taboo by most peoples standards) you should gain a little bit of confidence in the real world. Escorts actually are a big part of the real world!
The biggest 2 differences with asking "out" an sp and asking out a regular girl are:
1. The sp will say yes.
2. The sp will have sex with you.
I don't really think there is anything else you need to think about.
Make the calls, stop emailing, stop messaging, use your common sense and talk to them voice to voice.
Great Advice!!!! But still once you have nothing to lose!!!! it will make dealings in the real world easier.
Just do it! You will feel great and open up a world of new fun!
But don't you guy think it's a waste to give your first time to an SP?
What if 10 years down the road your wife ask you to tell her about your first time? It's kinda embrarassed, don;t you think?
I'm now 23 years old, I've managed to kiss a girl, but am still a virgin (I chickened out on getting a SP). Sorry for the anti-climatic update, but thought I'd drop in and complete this thread. I still think about getting together with an SP, but that thought diminishes when I watch some porn (lol).
It can be daunting the first time you see an sp, more so I would imagine if you have never been with a woman before. Just know that it can be addicting as mentioned and costly, if done on a semi regular basis (still less expensive than a full time gf imo).
Alot of mps sit you down and introduce the women to you so you can decide which you would like or if you want to stay. I have walked out a few times if the women didn't appeal to me. Maybe getting in there and seeing how hot they are would persuade you into it!
Alot of mps sit you down and introduce the women to you so you can decide which you would like or if you want to stay. I have walked out a few times if the women didn't appeal to me. Maybe getting in there and seeing how hot they are would persuade you into it!
mwanna, if you do decide to take the plunge, follow The Gentleman's advice. I , however, would suggest that you don't see an SP to lose your virginity. No matter what anyone tells you, sex with an SP is never mutually passionate. An SP is working; it is all about the money. If I see an escort, it is my last resort. I have had many gfs that didn't "cost" more than an SP. If you don't want to put time and energy into a relationship, maybe you should see an SP. Although, it sounds as if you haven't "put yourself out there" first. You may have to ask out a few women before you get a yes. When you, and I hope you do, lose your virginity to a non-working girl, the sex will be much more rewarding than it would be with an SP.
There's a lot of advice her but you guys forgot something VERY important!
* Don't forget to clean the pipes about 4-6 hours before you go see a lady or go on a date... it will take the "edge" off and help you last longer when things do eventually happen.
Paige______________
* Don't forget to clean the pipes about 4-6 hours before you go see a lady or go on a date... it will take the "edge" off and help you last longer when things do eventually happen.
Paige______________
just go see an sp just for a cbj. You don't need a bbbj, since you never had a bj before, a cbj will be enough for you.
Afterwards, you will know if an sp is right for you for losing your viriginity. You might go for it right away, or decide this is not for you. Only you will know for yourself, and that is why I suggest going half way for the first time.
BTW, the first time I lost my viriginity, it was with a girl I picked up at a bar. Not the best experience and she wasn't as hot as the sps. Thinking back now, I wish I lost my viriginity with a hot sp.
Afterwards, you will know if an sp is right for you for losing your viriginity. You might go for it right away, or decide this is not for you. Only you will know for yourself, and that is why I suggest going half way for the first time.
BTW, the first time I lost my viriginity, it was with a girl I picked up at a bar. Not the best experience and she wasn't as hot as the sps. Thinking back now, I wish I lost my viriginity with a hot sp.
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mwanna, I'm 32, and the one time I've had sex was when I was 20, with an escort from an agency I drunkenly called one night. When it comes to "normal" girls, at this point I think the biggest fear of mine, is that if I do get anywhere I'm going to have no clue what I'm doing and the girl is going to peace out once she realizes it. This holds me back from "putting myself out there." Don't end up in my shoes. At this point I have decided that I will partake in this hobby, and at this time it's just a matter of setting aside the funds.
As a beginner I'll give you 2-3 MINUTES LOL. SAVE your money and start with multiple short sessions until you are able to get some real mileage haha
