Posted in Vancouver Section
First of all I would like to say I am very aware of the fact that many of you will remain angry despite anything I say so please don't pick this apart pretending I believe differently. I am like the rest of you, sharing my opinion. Im not under some ignorant illusion from my supposed lack of education, that my offering will make the images of past hate for some of you go away. My offer does not change the institutional bias' and subtle racism that many of you endure each day. I cannot even begin to imagine how difficult that is and I am so sorry that a company associate has mistakenly contributed to that in anyway.
As an individual person I am so sad that my company has been labled racist especially in this day, time and country. I am also sickened by all the hate that been generated by this toward VE, the VE Girls, Myself and even Cristol. I do understand the initial outrage but to turn this into a witch hunt is truly sad. I have been called names, accused of dishonesty, been labled a bad person and stereotyped on this board by those who feel the same has been done to them! One person's lapse in good judgement has caused alot of people to retalliate with the same unthought out hate. If you have thought this out and still hate me then I am sorry and must say that's so sad. Ignorance is truly contagious.
I remember a day when I was about 20 years old when I was sitting for coffee with a good friend of mine. During our converstation, the subject of the racial tension he had endured in the past came up. He being of South American decent and myself white, I figured it would be appropriate for me to show him how an intelligent non racist like myself was aware of all this by saying, "Well we sure are lucky to live in Victoria where we don't have to deal with stuff like racism eh?" Well I will never forget the look on his face, the awkward silence or the feeling of shame I felt. I could not believe that I could be so ignorant and hurtful to someone so close to me yet in the same breath state that I was not a racist. Now I didnt say I hated South Americans did I? So what did I do wrong? Well I'm sure everyone out there who has been stereotyped or victim to such stupid comments as this can testify that ending racism is more than just ending racial crimes. It is about learning similarities, embracing differences and understanding the pain cause from subtle as well as blatant acts. Not everyone has had the benefit of a moment like mine years ago to become aware of their own ignorance. I hope that the future holds no more such moments for me but Im human and prone to mistakes. Is this such a moment for Cristol? I sure hope it is.
For the time that I have known and worked with Cristol she has been one of the best phone staff ever because of her honesty and equal treatment of all ladies and clients alike. I have for some time now considered her a freind and have never seen any such racism out of her lips nor any hated directed at anyone out of ignorance. So you can understand my shock of this situation. As much as I would like to justify the words of a freind I cannot. Is Cristol a racist? My heart tells me no. That is my opinion and yours may differ. If Im wrong and she is a rascist, then I truly pity her along with all those who choose to hate others for any reason. "Do not heat the stove for those you choose to hate so hot that you end up scalding yourself or those you love!" Hate is a poison.
As a business my personal feelings stand. I have met Lexi enough times to know that the physical description in the review is false. I do know she was so visibly shaken after this appointment that Cristol felt the need, for the first time in 3 years in the biz, to unprofessionally lash out at a client. Do SP's talk about their time with clients? When alot of you gentlemen see our ladies (I will note that some of the sweetest and most sexually satisfying clients ARE Asian) and knock thier socks off, how can they help but brag about your treatment of them. On the otherhand if an SP experiences a bad date, things will be mentioned. There is no excuse for lack of respect both ways. Does this belong on a public board? For the record, VE and Luscious say NO NO NO and I repeat NO. That move was a mistake; an irrepairable mistake. For this reason and discretion, I will not share further details of all the contact between this client and Cristol/Lexi nor will I comment any further on the details of the booking. Enough damage has been done. With that said and despite how I feel about the situation I will apologize to Hamster for all that was said publicly about him and for all the trouble this may have caused him.
Will I stop using Cristol's help in bringing over VE Girls to see you fellas? Probably not. I don't think you Mainland Gents nor the VE Girls deserve to suffer anymore from this incident. I can assure you after this there will be NO MORE such posts from Cristol. My apologies are sincere and what VE has offered is just a small token to those who were offended but still find enough forgiveness in their hearts to continue using VE's services. It was not intended to make everything ok nor do I expect it will. I am asking (perhaps undeserving) for forgiveness and peace.
Will you use VE again? I do hope so. If not now then maybe in time as you see our positive past and future actions cannot be denied by one single mistake. I'm truly sorry for all of this guys and gals.
