Using old pics and false ages??Is it fair?

just-a-averagejoe

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just-a-averagejoe

You did not offend, my exboyfriend is harassing me on a daily basis.
He thinks the pics I have been posting are a few years old.
When in actuality I had my friend take them at his house, 2-3 months before us going to court to remove him from my home.
This was in december, that is why I thought your post to be suspious ( he was banned for 1month around this time)
Part of his harassment is my pics being old and my age.
He is activly try to out me as a part time sp and getting fired for being a part time sp from my other job.
As well as still trying to get me kicked out of my home and having my child taken away.
I was maybe a little paranoid, but under the circumstances I would hope you understand why.

You came across with the same topics.
As for you question about sp's changing their names
there are many reasons
some do it because of ex' and clients stalking and harrassing the sp
some do it because of bad reveiws
The ones that do it because of bad reveiws, willl be found out and have have it traced back to their original name
Jill you might want to edit this
 

sonoman

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Originally Posted by Jethro Bodine
I agree that pics should be current and I might add, should give a good idea of a ladies true shape. I've been dissapointed in the past and even walked away when I've booked based on a deceiving photo or a pose that hides the truth.
Ditto. Well said.
 

Lonelygoer

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I don't lie about my age.

I'm 30 & will turn 31 in June :).
Wow you look so young in your pic, you could post as 19 or 20 and I would say 75% of the pooners will believe you. Comparing you pic to other sp i've seen, I'd guess that half of those women are 40+
 

sidara

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Your looking for SP opinion's, but it's our job.. Honest opinion's may not be flooding in because we need our job.lol. I rarely comment cuz my slant on this whole thing is very different.
Im 39 and brag about my age. If I were overweight, I might lie too. Woman lie about age and weight, dudes lie about they're height

This is a buisness where you don't want to linger long. We share our bodies on very intimate levels, with more people in a month than most in a lifetime. I would never personally choose to get laid this much in a month lol. I think in the long run, a person becomes disinterested in exploring and It becomes just a job. You don't want to share as much as you might have. Ive only been doing this for one and a half yr's. Im single and love getting laid. After 5 or more yrs', I can understand how it "changes" a person.

My point Is that after sometime, I would imagine woman have to disassociate somewhat.
I dont understand why someone would post old pic's or pic's, not even of themselves. Unless a dude is blind, deaf and dumb, he'll figure it out. Id be pissed too.
 

InTheBum

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Just walk, if you arent happy with what you see at the door...and come back to Perb and let others know!
 

just-a-averagejoe

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I dont understand why someone would post old pic's or pic's, not even of themselves. Unless a dude is blind, deaf and dumb, he'll figure it out. Id be pissed too.
Very well said Sidara thank you. I started this post to get some honest opinions and answers. The point is that posting ages way younger than truth and old pics that don't really show you as you are now is not right or fair. It paints the industry in a bad light and ruins it for you honest Sp's and for this I would like to thank willow, carly, april, kittie, mistress freyja, angie, audrey and sidara for your truthfullness and honesty. To say you lie about ages and post old pics to protect your identity is wrong. This is a public business to a big degree when you post on CL. It is not fair and a waste of time if a client has to walk cause of misleading pics and ages. This hurts us all especially you women who do work hard for your money just as we clients who work hard to earn it to come see you all. I want honesty from my sp. I am not saying tell me your life story and real name or whatever. But be honest with your ads about your pics and age. If your 44 put down 44 and be proud don't put down 38 or whatever. If you gained a few pounds then show that in your pic and not one from 2 years ago when you were 15 pounds lighter. OK I have gone on enough at this point...lol. Thanks for letting me. Again ty to you honest sp's your all beautifull. If I had the money I would visit you all...lol.
 

jill

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I never said I put up old pics, I take new pics about every 5 months.
And as for my age it is within 5 years.(lol again I am not say how many)
And I have a right to protect my identity, just as every pooner dose.
I am sorry you feel my safety is not important.
It dose strike me as funny, how you single my age that I post out as a example.
 

just-a-averagejoe

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I never said I put up old pics, I take new pics about every 5 months.
And as for my age it is within 5 years.(lol again I am not say how many)
And I have a right to protect my identity, just as every pooner dose.
I am sorry you feel my safety is not important.
It dose strike me as funny, how you single my age that I post out as a example.
Slow down there Jill I never singled you out. You singled yourself out by responding to this post for one. Doesn't matter what reason you do mislead the public about your age. Every woman that replied to this post, except you, stated their real age. Yes you do and should protect your identity. We pooners don't lie about our age or have to disclose it as we don't have to. We are the consumer and choose who we want to see based on our personal likes and dislikes. My personal likes are an honest woman with her age and recent pics that truly reflect my tastes which I am basing them on the picture posted. Sorry you seem to be upset with me but I have done nothing wrong here. This post has been popular and a good topic. If you are not happy with it or me then maybe you should start your own or not reply. Wishing everyone the best including you too Jill.
 

jill

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I was not upset, it just striked me as funny
I only mislead on my age
which may mean only a year or two
or 3 to 4 years
My pics are accurate
I never said I was unhappy about this post
 

luvbigtits

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of course it ain't fair.

one major red flag when looking at ads for chicks too.. is when, instead of posting a full body shot, they post bits and pieces of their body, as in a collage or something; obviously hiding something
 
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