Turning Your Back on a Session

[John Aston]

I recently read a post by AMG-GTR https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/abby-k604-dont-understand-the-price.337098/post-2448681, recalling a regretful session to a SP. We’ve all had a few. That’s why we frequently use Perb.cc.

I like the poster’s concept that failure to walk away reinforces unjust high prices. Unfortunately, for me, I feel committed (and a bit too horny) once I step through and the door closes behind me.

Amid all the fake photos and scammers, is walking away a reasonable reaction to a misrepresented SP?

If you’ve walked, have there been other repercussions from the agency or SP?

I also wonder, how long do walkers ruminate, before heading back to the elevator? I feel a little uncomfortable kicking the tires before buying in.

 

[Billiam]

I think it's totally reasonable to walk when you feel deceived. And one way to help you take that step is to have a backup plan available.

 

[luvsdaty]

Nothing wrong with walking away, mentioning unjust high prices on the other hand????? Could earn you a time out😅

 

[AMG-GTR]

Thanks for the shout out @John Aston 😉

We are all wired differently. I’ve never in my life been horned out where I wasn’t able to make rational choices. This is true even if I’m drunk or high AF.

I think a lot of places that false advertise are banking on the client being horny the same way as a shit restaurant would bank on a patron being hungry. Once you’ve walked in the door, they’re hoping that:

1. You balls are making the decision making
2. You will feel embarrassed or awkward to say no and leave (a lot of people have a hard time saying no)
3. The worry of the shop banning or black-listing you and you’ll miss out on a real gem in the future.
4. Unlike a restaurant, it’s not a 5 minute walk to another trusted and true alternative so saying no might mean you go without until the next day or much later.

Don’t get me wrong, there are times I still go to McDonald’s to eat some bullshit. Sometimes that’s what we are in the mood for.

I’ve never walked into Elisa and had them serve me nuggets for $100. That won’t fly no matter how hungry I am.

Would a provider or a shop accept fake bills?

Then why accept a misrepresentation of service?

It can feel uncomfortable but both parties have a right to reject or accept an encounter. I think a provider has every right to tell a client to leave and a client has every right to say sorry this is not what I signed up for.
The times where I should have walked and haven’t, I’ll just ask for water, relax and respond to messages/emails. While throwing out $400 is annoying, the bigger issue for me is that my time is already wasted to drive and see someone.

Many times I leave without nutting and I just carry on with my day. I’m not saying I’m happy about it but I’ll wait until the next time

I’ve posted reviews after the fact and got a lot of hate for it. I’m not mad at the provider BTW. She doesn’t know me anymore than I know her. She’s got a difficult job. The shop is doing the marketing so it’s on them. I also tell the shop what I’m looking for and if it’s not good I also tell them. The shops know I’ll walk so I tell them what I’m looking for and they’ll sometimes say “try back tomorrow”

Anyway. If you don’t want it, don’t buy it.

 

[zaphod42]

I don't see this thread staying up long...

 

[grusse]

This thread might get shuttered simply because it's been discussed previously a few times?
I've said it before...if we don't walk when it's obviously a fake,or B&S,or Grosse misrepresentation we are ENABLING the bulls..t.
I feel zero guilt walking away when the 22yr old D cup devolves into a 40plus A cup.
Like a previous post said I make clear I'll leave if the pics are fake(I get it..a bit of photoshop will be done)
Sometimes that is not enough..handler will continue the b s and I will walk.
I have to say my "walks" have been from indies.
The agencies have been pretty good..photoshop but fairly accurate.

 

[Forum mod]

Don't see any rules being broken, if it stays that way, it will stay up.

 

[Langleydude]

I've only had to walk on one occasion. The lady I booked with is reasonably well reviewed here on perb(before and since my booking) but when I arrived and was buzzed up to her suite she was so drunk she could hardly stand. At that point I let her know that I was leaving and why after I got back to my car I got a text saying that I should come back and she could still deliver what she promised and I declined again.

The next day I reached out to her hoping she was sober and explained again that due to my being in recovery I was uncomfortable proceeding with the booking because I had concerns about her ability to consent but I would like to see her at a later time if she was sober. Her response was to call me a piece of shit and a few other choice names and then told me to never contact her again. I just moved on with things and haven't looked back.

 

[SolidSnake]

Trust your gut. Don't lose more time and money than you already have.
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/swan-lake-wot-fake-appointment.336433/

 

[Bogy]

I would feel bad for walking away... damn I'm getting soft.

 

[annievilleneuve26]

I think that some guys don't want to walk away because they feel it might be interpreted as rude by the lady, which I can understand. But if you feel off about it maybe just pretend you forgot your wallet in the car, therefore there's no awkward discussion like "Am I not pretty enough?"... Plus I highly doubt any provider will insist on you to stay if you say you forgot the money in the car, loll...

About being deceived by an agency, I know it can happen but I feel like it's way less likely to happen than with "independent" girls since those are there to stay and probably don't want a stain on their name for being misrepresenting... Touring ladies and aunties that use several ads don't care about a bad name since the name change all the time, but I feel like agencies wouldn't win playing that... Never happened to me anyway...

And to be honest, if you walk in and you don't feel you're getting what you were expecting just walk out using an excuse like the wallet and don't make a scene... There's like so much choice in greater Vancouver area that I doubt it would be difficult to quickly rebook with another provider... To me it feel like a really little hassle to avoid disappointment

Hope that helps,
Cheers

 

[Mrmotorscooter]

It’s the old for better or worse once committed you follow through, I’ve had some horrible sessions but managed to hone in on what made her tick and I started praising her for that. To my surprise the session turned around and she went all out, didn't want me to leave after it was over but I was happy to get out of there. The pics and the reality were off the charts in the wrong direction, it’s a gamble but for some reason I most always played it out to see what would happen. I have walked numerous times when the negative attitude was so obvious it was useless to stay, I’d lay a 20 on the counter and say thank you for your time but not today. If you feel it’s a bad gig, it’s fine to bail but it’s not fair if she tries to treat you well, it’s part of the chance we take.

 

[Mr. J]

I'm one of those that have not walked, even though I should have in a few select situations. These days, I would be more inclined to bite the bullet and bail if something isn't right, one way or another.

 

[Banged_Up]

If I’m doing a TOFTT or an adventure where the reviews are old I load the picture from the ad on the phone. Then I load google translate to ask “is this you?” and show them the ad. When they say “no”, I walk. Simple.

 

[grusse]

I sometimes take a photo of the ad and say "This is who I booked.where is she?"

 

[masterpoonhunter]

I sometimes take a photo of the ad and say "This is who I booked.where is she?"

I used to do that regularly, almost always got the comment back, "she's not working today", then it was up to me to make the call, do I continue on with what is in front of me or not. Now since its standard issue to see fake pix, it really becomes a buyer beware issue and for me at any rate, the expectation is that the picture is a semblance. The service/rates though, that is a hard stop if that is not what I was expecting.

Good comments in this thread on a continually important issue and in my opinion one that perpetuates a lot of the bullshit regular pooners can go through in the overall pooning journey. If more walked, it might ease the fake shit ... maybe.

I for one got over any issue of me insulting anyone, being rude, being taken as an asshole, etc etc. It's my money, my time and my experience and if it is obviously not what my understanding/expectation is, I say, thanks but no thank you, turn around and leave. Make it quick and to the point, no waffling or lingering just go. It isn't me trying to pull a scam.

 

[westwoody]

I sometimes take a photo of the ad and say "This is who I booked.where is she?"

If anyone other than the person in the ad answers the door WALK. You never know what could happen.

I had a session with a very nice top rated Winnipeg lady.

I called her and arranged another. I called the day of the session again to confirm. Got to her house, knock on the door, a different lady answers.
I asked if Tiffany was there.
She said “No she’s not here, she said you should see me instead.” I asked if she was sure and she insisted Tiffany was not there.
Ok pretty sketchy so go back to my car and phone Tiffany. She says where the fuck are you I’m upstairs waiting. I told her about the other girl who answered the door and she goes WHAT!?!?!
Then there’s a bunch of yelling.
Nobody needs that drama so I left, never saw her again. She was a beautiful and well loved lady but needed better friends.

 

[masterblaster]

 

[lukom]

It's why you don't book someone with no reviews or history. If you're going to go in and walk away, don't book with your regular number have a secondary Sim card or burner, or even an app. This way you can change your number. Also, have an escape plan and a back up plan. Most people don't pre-book cause who plans on being super horny on a specific day and time? So choose a central location where you may look up others sps if needed.

 

[badbadboy]

It’s a topic that’s of real interest to me.

No need to rehash the stolen pics problem. I’d guess that’s the major reason why many guys walk. I’ve done that twice.

I don’t Toftt often but do a lot of research before booking a new SP date especially from out of town.

I had a really bad attitude date that totally surprised me. She was a visiting SP whom I’ve never met and she had a somewhat limited but good rep back east. With not much online info available; I booked a two hour date. There was confirmation from another visiting SP I’d seen that advised she was good to go. I was excited to see her.

The late one was non communicative up until it was date time. At 10 min late point she texted saying she needed another half hour to which I replied nah doesn’t work for me. I said 40 min late can easily stretch to 60 or more min late and that won’t work for me. She relented and said ok come on up we can have a shower together and I agreed.

Once inside the door it got uncomfortable really quickly. She up front admitted it was a problem from back east and not me. I tried to say let’s get past all this stuff and continue our date??

Initially she said yes, let’s continue with our date and within 60 seconds she was full on rant again.

I didn’t say a word

I still had my coat on and waved bye bye with the envelope and put it back my coat and walked.

She did leave town early so I can only guess it was a Toronto problem.