I'm guessin you will be stayin with the Pros as your willy & your charm won't get you much
Willy and charm would probably get me me ITB & LAG, but I'll be damned if I'll settle for your sloppy seconds.
I know it's close to home for you, but if you're thinking about dropping by to see if she's behaving, remember I'm in Edmonton in August.
When you met her, did you realize she'd be gone for long periods of time? If she's a serious SO and you knew this beforehand, you accepted that as the reality. It's like a woman marrying a truck driver and then saying "honey you're not home enough". Sorry you married a truck driver so accept the reality.
There's always the option to move to Alberta. I'm guessing your in BC..Edmonton isn't the worlds best town but it does have opportunities. In the end dude, a good chick is hard to find.
She wasn't in the military when we met, it was a late in life choice she made, one that I encouraged so I did know where it could lead. Just like when I encouraged her to go to Afghanistan.
Moving to Alberta isn't an option. I've got two businesses on the go here, one of which I could turn over to a manager, but the other is one that requires my being here.
Hi Uncleg:
Thought I give you from a womans' point fo few..not just the men. I was in a relationship for 10 years a military man. He was gone all the time, it was lonely, however if I am in a relationship it is all about that one man, I am devoted and stick to him myself I would never thinking of seeking elsewhere (that is what toys are for) But yes the intamacy as in sharing, cuddling, having someone there..it does get lonely. I have been single now for sometime.
So my question is...how serious is this relationship? How much does she mean to you? Are you willing to risk or if she were to find out would she forgive? Look at yourself your morals values. Would you feel guilty...myself I would.. But I don't know you. I would if I were her and in a serious relationship and I was deployed..would hope that man is faithful while I am gone.
In closing here to my opinion...do see alot of married men from all ages they are missing the "action" in their relationship..some wives know some don't I see when I talk to them they truly do love there families and wives but that one important thing that does make a relationship complete is no longer there, so that is why they seek out. Make sence and sorry for rambling on here. Hope this helps
Look from inside you and your gut. I wish you the best and hope you make the right chopice for you and your SO.
Appreciate your view and it makes sense, It's always said that men and women are wired differently as far as relationships are concerned. For me this isn't a moral issue as much as a matter of loyalty to an individual. I'd hate to think she was messing around, but under some circumstance I could/would understand if she did. Her on the other hand, couldn't, wouldn't it would totally
devastate her. Not that I'm anything special, but I am to her. You'd have to know her to really understand. By the way, have you been in touch with LAG, he also keeps making references to my gut. I'm working on it, so soon you'll be able to stop, I've already had to resign from the dicky do club.
If I'm reading correctly the decision to play or not to play has already been made. If that's the case then all that's left is do you sleep with pros or non-pros.
Personally I would recommend pros because if your SO is important to you in any way you would likely prefer to avoid anything that may come with feelings. Stick with the pros because they don't want you for more than the hour or so that you book with them. Stay away from the emotional baggage of a non-pro.
No decision has been made, and it not like my life revolves around sex. Though, I do agree you want to avoid emotional baggage.
If you are going to stray or not, why does it matter whether your SO is in danger or not? Sounds like an excuse to me.
It would sound like an excuse to you wouldn't it. Maybe when you grow up a bit and get into a relationship you'll be able to understand the difference.
I encouraged her to go to Afghanistan, to put her life in danger. Having the padre come to the door to tell you your SO got killed when you're humping somebody else is not something I'd want to deal with.
