Tipping Providers

[Ghghggb]

Apologies if this already exists somewhere, I tried to search and couldn't find anything.

I've been to see a number of providers now, and have had some amazing experiences, but I've not tipped before. Not because I'm cheap, but because I dont want to appear cheap; i have no idea what I'm supposed to be tipping!

Is there a set %, like dining, that you should use? Is it more like $40 is sufficient on say a $400 session? Or is that insultingly low?

Sorry for what may seem like an obvious thing to some, but I really want to show my appreciation, and not do more harm than good.

 

[westwoody]

Tip whatever you feel like.

 

[SmikeSmith]

I feel the same way as you, mostly I’m new to it all, so not sure exactly how it all works.

I always bring an extra $100 just in case, and then pay or add what I think is fair. I assume that the workers are generally undercharging because we’re all cheap 😅, so if it’s a good session, then I’ll pay what I think it was actually worth.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Apologies if this already exists somewhere, I tried to search and couldn't find anything.

I've been to see a number of providers now, and have had some amazing experiences, but I've not tipped before. Not because I'm cheap, but because I dont want to appear cheap; i have no idea what I'm supposed to be tipping!

Is there a set %, like dining, that you should use? Is it more like $40 is sufficient on say a $400 session? Or is that insultingly low?

Sorry for what may seem like an obvious thing to some, but I really want to show my appreciation, and not do more harm than good.

There is no set amount.

Lots of people don’t tip at all
$40 or $50 on $400 is just fine.
The most I’ve ever been tipped was triple my rate. But I don’t think that was really a tip. It was more of a gift.
The least I’ve ever been tipped was $5.
Lots just tip by not having the exact amount.

 

[Dick Ford]

Whatever you're comfortable with, she'll be happy with. It's more the thought that counts than the amount. I have always tipped, even when I couldn't tip much, and it was always appreciated (but never expected).

 

[Marie_lynxx]

Apologies if this already exists somewhere, I tried to search and couldn't find anything.

I've been to see a number of providers now, and have had some amazing experiences, but I've not tipped before. Not because I'm cheap, but because I dont want to appear cheap; i have no idea what I'm supposed to be tipping!

Is there a set %, like dining, that you should use? Is it more like $40 is sufficient on say a $400 session? Or is that insultingly low?

Sorry for what may seem like an obvious thing to some, but I really want to show my appreciation, and not do more harm than good.

I agree with everyone and will echo that tipping is not expected but is also very much appreciated when it happens I don’t think anything above 20 would be seen as cheap or anything .. actually if you bring the sp’s favourite drink or maybe if they like flowers it’s also a really kind gesture and always appreciated 🩷

 

[Fiona]

You can definitely guarantee you’ll go high on her list & quicker to “ drop everything “ to make it work for you if you do , even an extra $20 says , hey you’re awesome ! I appreciate you 😎💋 but paying whatever she asks is perfectly acceptable. 👍🏻

 

[rinamood]

Relevant threads:
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/is-there-a-tipping-culture-and-how-does-it-work.376662/
https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/donations-etiquette.364743/

You won't look cheap paying the rate without a tip, unless you say some weird things like "I wanted to tip but...."

 

[VRhound]

There is no set amount.

Lots of people don’t tip at all
$40 or $50 on $400 is just fine.
The most I’ve ever been tipped was triple my rate. But I don’t think that was really a tip. It was more of a gift.
The least I’ve ever been tipped was $5.
Lots just tip by not having the exact amount.

Opinion question as o am sure it varies between ladies
In lieu of a tip is a gift of flowers or say a bottle of wine a favourable way to show appreciation? I know cash is cash, so in some cases I would expect ladies to just want that.
with an ongoing regular I would think that a token can help establish more of a sense of appreciation, especially when it’s something they like or maybe even suggest.
I want to believe that the rates are fair in their eyes and of course a tip is always nice, but less personal? After all we are rolling around naked together 😂 like to think of as 2 people and not “tipping my server” - if that sounds right. Idk.
😘

 

[Harmony-bc]

Opinion question as o am sure it varies between ladies
In lieu of a tip is a gift of flowers or say a bottle of wine a favourable way to show appreciation? I know cash is cash, so in some cases I would expect ladies to just want that.
with an ongoing regular I would think that a token can help establish more of a sense of appreciation, especially when it’s something they like or maybe even suggest.
I want to believe that the rates are fair in their eyes and of course a tip is always nice, but less personal? After all we are rolling around naked together 😂 like to think of as 2 people and not “tipping my server” - if that sounds right. Idk.
😘

I don’t drink and some ladies might have allergies. I’m blessed to never have had any allergies and I love a pretty bouquet of flowers. I also have a sweet tooth. I also love money and gift certificates. But if somebody shows up with nothing, I’m also just happy to meet you

 

[Forum mod]

Read the links provided, this topic has been covered more than adequately.