As the title states what are your thoughts about going on Tinder to hook up vs just booking sp’s/going to mp’s?
Tinder vs SP’s
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Seems that some guys have a ton of success (or at least they make you believe they do!), while others are ‘meh’.
For me, I’d never match with the woman I am attracted to anyways , so SP is the way to go
For me, I’d never match with the woman I am attracted to anyways , so SP is the way to go
From what I have heard, Tinder is yesterday, Bumble is the one be used more often. I do not use either.
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Take the 80/20 rule, and apply it to Tinder except it might be closer to 90/10.
If you're young and broke, sure. But if you can afford it financially and don't like wasting time on the app, it's a no-brainer for SPs. Also probably 9 out of 10 times the sex is better with a SP too.
If you're young and broke, sure. But if you can afford it financially and don't like wasting time on the app, it's a no-brainer for SPs. Also probably 9 out of 10 times the sex is better with a SP too.
I used to try different apps out from time to time with little gratification. Got a few dates and one offs here and there but I find I’m never genuine on apps. Funny exception is when abroad, in developing countries to be more specific, I swipe and message without concern of how it will be received. Not going to get into my theories of the socioeconomic disparities involved, but for whatever reasons I’ve done a lot better in Latin America and Asia than anywhere in Canada or the states I’ve been—more matches and replies by miles. I’d say about half the action I end up getting is from part time working ladies, but some civies and a fellow traveler too. Offer the local SP going rate for “cab” fare at the end just in case there’s any ambiguity to be safe.
If I were a bit better looking and more well off maybe I’d try more for the odd “free” romp here, but would probably still prefer the straightforwardness and convenience of SPs. I just fee like an idiot BSing someone I’m maybe not even attracted to and is likelly to stop returning messages soon when I could be myself and enjoy the company and services of an SP.
If I were a bit better looking and more well off maybe I’d try more for the odd “free” romp here, but would probably still prefer the straightforwardness and convenience of SPs. I just fee like an idiot BSing someone I’m maybe not even attracted to and is likelly to stop returning messages soon when I could be myself and enjoy the company and services of an SP.
Can't get passed the word association ... hinge and winge and bumble and stumble!!
Before discovering this hobby I was using 2 different sites, neither Tinder, for the better part of 5 years. I was searching for a long term FWB situation. The monies I spend over that time was waisted.
I’m not going back. SP’s for me!
I’m not going back. SP’s for me!
If you're single then Tinder may not be the worst option to try out if you are just looking for some NSA fun. The only thing with Tinder is the competition level is high so you need to be somewhat adept at playing the game otherwise you just fall in with all of the other white noise. If you're particularly attractive then that might help out a bit more, but ultimately you have a short period of time/conversation to make yourself attractive to the person you match with.
If you're not into the idea of having to compete with other people to get laid then SP's are the way to go. Also if you are attached/married then SP's are definitely the way to go.
If you're not into the idea of having to compete with other people to get laid then SP's are the way to go. Also if you are attached/married then SP's are definitely the way to go.
A guy I was working with got divorced a few months ago. He’s early 40’s, not the greatest looking guy in a traditional sense(rocking the dad bod).
Guy told me he was having great success on Tinder, hooking up with 20 somethings and 30 somethings quite often.
I haven’t tried as I feel I’m too busy myself to bother plus I have a regular thing going that works well for me but do see sp’s/massage girls once a month or so when I can’t get any from my “special friend” during that week once a month!
Guy told me he was having great success on Tinder, hooking up with 20 somethings and 30 somethings quite often.
I haven’t tried as I feel I’m too busy myself to bother plus I have a regular thing going that works well for me but do see sp’s/massage girls once a month or so when I can’t get any from my “special friend” during that week once a month!
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I've never had a hookup on Tinder. I've met a lot of wonderful people who come over to give me a massage, go out for drinks, do something fun, or help me put Ikea together. But never a hookup.
If you want a sure thing, a companion is definitely a better route. I'm sure there are women looking to just hook up, but we get a LOT more interest than men do. As in thousands of likes, and a couple hundred blue stars a day. Anybody I swipe right on will be an automatic match. So you will definitely have some competition.
Not impossible. But likely not as easy as you were hoping.
If you want a sure thing, a companion is definitely a better route. I'm sure there are women looking to just hook up, but we get a LOT more interest than men do. As in thousands of likes, and a couple hundred blue stars a day. Anybody I swipe right on will be an automatic match. So you will definitely have some competition.
Not impossible. But likely not as easy as you were hoping.
