#Throwback Thursday - Remember your first time?

[MlleVennes]

There's such a taboo around paying for companionship. If I'm being honest, part of that taboo is what drew me to this world. There's a bit of a turn on in meeting someone in a discrete setting for the first time. Yet, somehow, sometimes, needs aren't quite met. Wants aren't spoken, discussed or satisfied.
So, today, if I may be so bold to ask....
Would you tell me the story of your first time?
When did you first step into the universe of compensated companionship?
Did you feel like you were taking care of someone? Finally indulging in the experience you wanted to have, on your own terms? Did those terms include your partner's pleasure, and seeing her completely lose herself in your arms?
Or was it different than you had expected in some strange way?

I'm curious....

 

[jgg]

This has been recycled many times. But yes, I do remember. I was barely legal. A brothel in the Reeperbahn district in Hamburg, at that time West Germany. Scared shitless, just horny as hell and taking care of me, hoping not to get knifed or rolled...and definitely not companionship...and yes, she was completely lost...not in a good way.

Fortunately things have progressed. Or at least I matured and developed taste.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

1968 - Neighbour girl (I was 7, I think she was 8) showed me her panties for a nickle.

Cheers
J

 

[jgg]

1968 - Neighbour girl (I was 7, I think she was 8) showed me her panties for a nickle.

Cheers
J

Damn inflation!

 

[ddcanz]

1968 - Neighbour girl (I was 7, I think she was 8) showed me her panties for a nickle.

Cheers
J

Similar for me, same era, but with my younger sister's older friend.
And I had to share my bag of OD Chicken Chips.

 

[take8easy]

My first ever encounter was when I was about 10 or 11. It was with a daughter of my dad's friend. We just grinded our thingies against each other. I showed her mine but for some reason I don't remember seeing hers. But I do remember having an erection.

Regarding f**s involving finances, I am a very late bloomer (started it in my mid/late forties). For first time in my life time, someone took me to a strip club in Toronto and then to a massage parlour. The girls there were all busy so we came back without anything. But that helped me get over the hesitation that was holding me back.

I came back to Vancouver and started to do research on local strip clubs. One search led to another and somehow I landed on PERB. After about two weeks of nerves, I emailed Cherise. It was on a bright sunny Thu Jul 10, 2014 I think it was 11 am or 12 pm. I was nervous as hell and even circled her block two three times. But it was memorable. Her den had A/C running full blast and a big screen playing gangbang. Cherise is a lovely lady and she took care of me very well. I liked it so much I saw her again a week later. After that I saw her about three or four times more.

That was three and a half years ago. Over 120 sessions later, I still remember it vividly!!!! Sometimes I wish I could relive that day.. over and over .. with different women each time.

T8E

 

[jgg]

someone took me to a strip club in Toronto

The Zanzibar?

 

[take8easy]

The Zanzibar?

Actually we went to three of them over the period of two nights but I kinda wanted to tell the gist of the story. First one was in Niagara Falls on Lundy Rd or Lundy Ln and there is a massage parlour just about a block from there. (Just googled it, it was Sundowner and the massage parlor was Deja Vu only two three doors down.) I think they are both owned by same people.

Second one was very close to Pearson Airport. I think it was called some strip or something. It was a Tuesday and the place looked deserted. There was one stripper who looked hammered or high on something she offered one session for 300!! We refused and drove to another place.

The third one was about 45 minutes away in another suburb. That's where I had most fun.

 

[Chef99]

A late bloomer similar to take8easy. Mid 2000s and my fiance had dumped me after 8 tumultuous years of dating on and off along with 2 years of living together (so thankful I dodged that bullet). I was lonely, horny and decided I was going to do something out of my comfort zone. Did some web research, darned if I remember what the web site was or how I searched but after months of cold feet I finally took the plunge - Ashley Vancouver. OMG that first hour was so much fun once I got over the jitters - I remember my arms shaking at one point. I saw her many many times in the following couple of years...

 

[islander1-1]

For me. It was the mid 80s. Driving to work for a very very early 5am shift I passed a lady on a street corner in the downtown east side. She waved and smiled at me. I waved back. About an hour later feeling rather horney and I had a cpl hours free so I got back in my van and went back to see.. to my surprise she was still there and she waved again at me as I passed. I nodded and pulled around the corner and pulled over. She approached the passenger side, opened the door asked if she could get in. Sure. She checked out the interior with a bunk in the back. "Want to spend some time with me back there?" She asked. I flushed. Sure but I might guess this is gonna cost me. Well yes. Is this your first time. If so 20 bucks for a BJ if your up for it. I pulled out my wallet. And we climbed in the back. Damn she was good, but never found her again. I did find another lady just as much to my liking and I continue to see her twice a month for about a year until we moved out of Vancouver.

 

[Abbott_]

When did you first step into the universe of compensated companionship?

I'm curious....

In late 70's, during the West End's Golden Age, I lived at the bottom of Haro, and on fair nights I'd would stroll-the-strolls.
The 'traffic diverter' @ Bidwell & Pendrell was a popular spot for local talent.
There ~ I met a sweet young women who invited me to her nearby 'pad'.
Thus began my journey.

Sometimes I wish I could relive that day.. over and over ...

T8E

Thank you ' MlleVennes ' for starting this interesting thread
Your ad here on PERB has made me " Curious " ...

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I've always been a late bloomer: I started as Ms Erica in March of 2013*, just a few short months before I joined here. I was a long time square peg in a round hole in the education system, but I know I made a difference in some lives of kids like me, so I don't look back on teaching with too many regrets about my choices, other than wishing I had not trusted that the union was in any way looking out for me.

Initially I was strictly Mistress Erica; spankings & happy endings was all I did. Then I started doing more body worship type sensual dominance, & eventually I was getting emails along the lines of "I'm not into any of that domme stuff: do you ever offer GFE?" A brief stop at Urban Dictionary helped me decide that I did, and I have never looked back!

*That makes next month 5 years I have been in the industry...time flies!

 

[here4fun]

My first experience as with a friends sister when I was 15, seems like that makes me a late starter..lol
The first time with an SP was about 10 years ago,in my Mid 40s
The first time with a Mistress almost 5 years ago

Now just need to up the frequency

Funny how things progress

 

[jgg]

Thank you ' MlleVennes ' for starting this interesting thread
Your ad here on PERB has made me " Curious " ...

https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...rence-Vennes&p=1851275&highlight=#post1851275

 

[Jethro Bodine]

1968 - Neighbour girl (I was 7, I think she was 8) showed me her panties for a nickle.

Cheers
J

Seriously, here is a response to a similiar question I wrote back in 2015.


"It would be ~ 12 years ago.
I was a year separated form my ex-wife and a single dad to a 5 year old daughter. Busy with my career and being a Dad. No time for anyone or anything else.
One day my Mom and sister came to me and told me I needed a night off and I should go out and blow off some steam.
The came over and basically kicked me out of my own home. LOL!
I tried calling a couple of buddies but they couldn't get away on short notice.
Not knowing what to do or where to go I dropped in to a local bar/lounge. After a couple of drinks and watching whatever sporting event was on the TV, I decided to play some VLT's. I never gamble so this shows you how bored and a "fish out of water" I was.
I struck up a conversation with this pretty woman sitting 2 seats over. Maybe I cried in my beer too much that night but when she went to leave later on, she leaned in gave me a hug and kiss on the cheek and passed me her number with her name. She mentioned that next time I felt like some company to give her a call. I can't exactly recall the conversation but it was implied this would be a "pay for play" get together.
I didn't call her for almost 2 months. I will admit to being hung up about seeing a prostitute. Hookers were for losers and ugly guys who have to pay for it.
I don't know why but one day I did call her. She remembered me and was so sweet on the phone.
She turned out to be one of my ATF's (top 3 of all time) and I saw her regularly for many years until she moved/retired about 6 years ago.
I will always remember her fondly."

Cheers
J

 

[mistermetro]

My first truly memorable experience of compensated companionship was with you, Mlle Vennes. You are my gold standard. I've erased the pale memories of the others that preceded you. I can't wait to see you again! (and again)

xo

 

[Abbott_]

Mlle Vennes.

Mademoiselle
.......

 

[georgej]

I'll tell you in person soon, Mlle.

 

[nmjoff]

TIJUANA

I was 17 downtown TJ got pulled in by a smooth talking bars Barker promising naked women, cold beer etc. two minutes later my buddy and I are sitting in a booth with a herd of Mamacita's sitting on our laps grabbing our dicks talking dirty Spanglish to the two new pasty white Canadian gringos, telling us what they could do for us if agree to go "Upstairs" So the nice 40 year old Mexican lady who wouldn't let go of my dick leads me up two flights of stairs about 2.5' wide, me figuring some big Mexican is going to clobber me and take the $700 USD stashed in my pants (Stupid Kid) when I get to the top of the stairs but instead there is a little both with a dutch door and a little old man who looked just like Benny Hills bald buddy looks at my buddy he hands him a rubber and says Tres'
Looks at my and my dick clamped Puta, winks and says "Cinco"...

That woman created a monster, she taught me more about a woman's anatomy and my what my pecker was capable of than I ever could have imagined. (Never read any of that shit in Playboy magazine in the 70's)
It was like a Friday night at a Mexican circus in that little room lips, tits, ass and my "Rigido Polla" getting taught new tricks, it all seemed like some sort of dream...

$40 bucks later we are both done and back drinking beer in a booth wondering what the fuck just happened, sitting in the bar with about 10 Putas having fun, chatting buying them lots of overpriced drinks of course LOL.
Neither of us suffered any ill effects from our visit, the ladies were fun and I have been pooning ever since...
Back on the bus to San Diego, the best educational road trip a young man could ever have!

 

[Ctian]

back in the 80's, drunkin stoned me (back in the 80's) was late at night after the bar, maybe it was in the morning but there was a place on Pender and Richards called "The Admirals Upper Deck" got two girls for a duo don't remember much about it (back in the 80's) lol this was my first experience