This SP interested in me?

[Iori]

SP asked my contact at the end of the session (1st visit too). Caught me off guard, and I gave it lol..... and she started messaging

I don't mind being friends, but probably not a relationship (probably the worst idea ever). Have you guys experienced this? What did you do?

 

[take8easy]

SP asked my contact at the end of the session (1st visit too). Caught me off guard, and I gave it lol..... and she started messaging

I don't mind being friends, but probably not a relationship (probably the worst idea ever). Have you guys experienced this? What did you do?

Why don't you tell her that? I would.

This is paid sex, and the relationship should last only as long as the paid time. It is foolish to think that things can go beyond that.

As far as this girl is concerned, either she is naive or she is a gold-digga!

Don't do that, never do that.... stay away from this s**t!

T8E

 

[sybian]

There are a handful of ladies here that I consider my friends....And know an awful lot about me, and my personal life.Some can even relate too my remote location,or lifestyle.
They know when too draw the line, and when we are crossing into dangerous territory...I sometimes don't realize it, but they are experienced and very careful not too step into that space too far....Which of course makes me respect them even more.
They know when it becomes a very slippery slope we are toying with..Which is something you may want to consider.

 

[westwoody]

You can be friends without sex.
SPs make great friends, they are someone you can actually talk to about pooning.

 

[nigelplays]

I wish I had Sp friends. Must be a rock star feeling?

 

[VancityDivas]

In this industry it's always great to come across someone you get along with well. There's many girls who make friendships some sp and clients get into relationships. . It's not the worst thing to be honest with people for a change!

But definitely should figure this situation out. Maybe she liked your conversation or just wants a new friend out of you

Chances are she's already got enough guys giving her money and that's not what's got her interested in you

 

[Ed69]

Never experienced that. I'd assume she just wanted more business from me. If were able to fuck cute girls without paying, why would I be using sp's in the first place?

 

[hornygandalf]

... If were able to fuck cute girls without paying, why would I be using sp's in the first place?

To keep it nice and easy with no emotional strings attached. The business transaction is clean and clear with no expectations of anything beyond it.
With civvies, it can be a lot more complicated and a lot less transparent. Could simply be a very pragmatic decision on your part.

 

[Iori]

This happens on occasion. What you do depends largely on the context.
First date? It means that she liked you as a customer and hopes for repeat business.

I've had several recently at micros. But they use WeChat, not texting.

One enterprising young cutie would use the scanning feature of the app to locate her customer connections nearby. Then invite them up. Basically, she was cheating the owners by seeing customers under the radar and then pocketing both splits of the fee.

Thanks!! This is interesting and may explain why she wants connection. Any idea what is the % the owner getting? I am alwasy curious to know, but never have the guts to ask an sp

 

[Iori]

Never experienced that. I'd assume she just wanted more business from me. If were able to fuck cute girls without paying, why would I be using sp's in the first place?

Hee... but think about that... getting a cutie on the bed will at least cost me a dinner, some gift, etc... probably more than $200 for a session. Plus, there will be strings attached... nah...

 

[Iori]

Uhmmm many of us know very cute ladies 20-30 years old

Not interested in a LONG term relationship. Many of us know civilians and have many female friends in their late 30's 40's that would love to have either an open relationship or any relationship.

As I said I was married for 20+ years. I don't want to go back to that. Thanks but no thanks. That's why I see SP's. The Variety etc

/nod. Gotta agree with what you said

 

[felixthecat]

Any idea what is the % the owner getting? I am alwasy curious to know, but never have the guts to ask an sp

Depends. 30-50% to the owner is pretty normal. For lower-end places the conditions may be closer to trafficking with way more than 50% going to the owner.
The percentage does not say everything, the deal may involve a fee for this, fee for that, sexual services.

 

[Iori]

Depends. 30-50% to the owner is pretty normal. For lower-end places the conditions may be closer to trafficking with way more than 50% going to the owner.
The percentage does not say everything, the deal may involve a fee for this, fee for that, sexual services.

geez... that is a lot... even 30%

 

[Iori]

She's likely more interested in your wallet

As another person has said, she probably get tons of money from other guys. I think any sp actually makes more money than I do

 

[clu]

Uhmmm many of us know very cute ladies 20-30 years old

Not interested in a LONG term relationship. ...

Thing is, it's not possible to have a really long term relationship with someone in their 20s... Not one longer than 10 years anyway.

 

[shake]

This has happened to me a couple times. One very reputable girl on here even texted me the very next morning asking if I could meet her for coffee.

I had to just end up ignoring the text because of my personal circumstances at the time.

 

[Larry Storch]

Iori: I suggest you read this thread if you haven't already. ---> http://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?221223-Crush-with-SP

 

[Iori]

Iori: I suggest you read this thread if you haven't already. ---> http://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?221223-Crush-with-SP

Hmm... I don't have a crush on an sp at the moment... I know things will most likely go south in a relationship with an sp. But thanks.

 

[Larry Storch]

I wasn't suggesting you had a crush on her. I was pointing you to some of the experiences others have had. Many guys who have gotten involved with an SP have usually gotten burned pretty bad financially and emotionally. I'm not saying all the ladies are like that, but when you have someone wanting to keep in touch with you from the first time you meet its usually red flag. Be careful.

 

[rick hunter]

As another person has said, she probably get tons of money from other guys. I think any sp actually makes more money than I do

And what makes you think you're special and not just another guy she wants to use as a walking atm machine? Just go in with both eyes open.