The way SP's should make their ads.

[take8easy]

The link finally worked.. thanks. ( I am still not up to speed after about two months ).

One more thing, we are talking about service industry. If an SP can't handle questions from her perspective clients, regarding services being offered , how do you expect her to tolerate giving her body in intimate situations to him.

If someone seems to barking orders in her ad then I am staying away from her. I think an ad should be inviting and if a client still has a question, the SP should be able to handle them calmly.

I can understand what SP's feel because i m sure they think like "oh no, not the same dumb question again!!". But I am sure sometimes, they have to be on the other end as a client too.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I understand the frustration that SP's have when they take the time to write ads, keep their website up to date, etc and then men call and know nothing about them... seriously I have had men call me and ask if I am Asian... seriously I am a strawberry blonde with fair skin and green eyes.... obviously you just write a bunch of numbers down and randomly call without knowing anything about who you are calling. Yes that is frustrating, but it is just a part of the business.

i mean the following with great respect, but...

you should seriously start taking notes when you get a caller. note down WHAT they ask, and in WHAT ORDER they ask it. this is a clue to the way pooners think (or maybe don't think )

if you want an ad or a website to really work for you, make sure the answers to the most commonly asked questions are highlighted right on the home page that comes up first, not buried on page 10 somewhere in fine print

these questions are clues to the way a man's mind works... think like a man, advertise like a man, if it's men you want to attract

take the question about being an asian for example. i look at pictures, i LOVE looking at pictures, then i look at the rates, then i read around to see if bbbj is included. if all that is a go, then i will go. so i would know right off the bat that you WEREN'T asian. but obviously, not all readers are that way if people are calling up to ask if you are asian. so get inside those person's heads: 1) they have the phone number, so they obviously read that part, 2) put the pertinent information as close to the phone number as possible

defining what is pertinent is the key thing here - that's why you have done your 'market research' and copied down all those questions, to find out WHAT is pertinent

see what i mean? it's not an easy thing, it takes work. it takes genius even to become an expert at print marketing, but that's what you have to do

going on about what poor readers guys are won't win you ONE CUSTOMER! and i can assure you right here and now, that you ARE NOT going to change the way they respond to ads - and you can call your bookie on THAT one!

like i say, get inside their heads, and make your ads irresistible, but most of all, make the pertinet information obvious in a concise and understandable way

 

[take8easy]

i mean the following with great respect, but...



if you want an ad or a website to really work for you, make sure the answers to the most commonly asked questions are highlighted right on the home page that comes up first, not buried on page 10 somewhere in fine print


defining what is pertinent is the key thing here - that's why you have done your 'market research' and copied down all those questions, to find out WHAT is pertinent

I second that.
Frankly, I don't want the website to be an elaborate verbose description of the SP. The words used should be simple. Just browse some websites and you will see there is more self promotion than the relevant information.

We want sex with a woman who looks nice to us, who provides what we are looking for, at a price that fits our budget and at a location that we can reach easily.

If ad and/or website has too much info, frankly i just start to skim thru it to see where the phone number and prices are.

 

[Slapshot1]

For being one that actually reads the ads, I have a question. Why is it that many SPs state that they'll leave me "wanting more"?? I can understand that it's a sexy cliche and I'm supposed to understand this comment from the opposite point of view, but if I'm going to shell out that kind of dough, I don't want to leave wanting more. I want to be spent, hell, I want to be a half a minute shy of needing CPR! I get the wanting more treatment at home and it already costs me an arm, leg and a left nut. Remember, I am ranting with a smirk on my face as people here tend to take comments too literally, and so I figured, adding my emotional state may assist in not offending anyone. Now I'm giggling

 

[take8easy]

LOL, good point!!

Exactly.

For being one that actually reads the ads, I have a question. Why is it that many SPs state that they'll leave me "wanting more"?? I can understand that it's a sexy cliche and I'm supposed to understand this comment from the opposite point of view, but if I'm going to shell out that kind of dough, I don't want to leave wanting more. I want to be spent, hell, I want to be a half a minute shy of needing CPR! I get the wanting more treatment at home and it already costs me an arm, leg and a left nut. Remember, I am ranting with a smirk on my face as people here tend to take comments too literally, and so I figured, adding my emotional state may assist in not offending anyone. Now I'm giggling

I thought you wrote that with smirk on your face.

I guess some of the (more experienced) SP's have always done something or said something towards the end of the session that has planted the seed of "repeat her" in my head. One of them said, "next time, may be we will ***** and winked." Another one said, "Next time, you have got to try ****with me, dont worry, I will give you a discount."

If nothing else (at the end of the session) a long sexy sensual kiss with a warm hug and whispering words like, "I had a great time", can make you "want more."

Good (and usually experienced ones) value the repeat customers more than younger ones. IMO anyways.

 

[westwoody]

Experienced/mature ladies have a sense of perspective that younger ladies cannot.

Mature ladies know the value of a long term relationship that can last years or decades. The younger girls only care about buying a new purse or phone.

It cracks me up when I see an ad by a young girl who claims to be mature but obviously is not.

 

[morementum]

Will say again, put a picture of a newspaper in the ad with a clear date and a handwritten name being used by the escort. Gets rid of two issues - fake pictures and pictures taken in 1990 being when someone WAS 28.

 

[westwoody]

It is so hilarious comparing this thread with one about the same topic on the other erb.

Like the two totally opposite points of view!

 

[take8easy]

I started this thread about 17 days ago .53 replies and over 1200 views... . still no insults, no condescending remarks ... a simple, friendly, peaceful exchange of views.

Life is beautiful.

 

[wilde]

I started this thread about 17 days ago .53 replies and over 1200 views... . still no insults, no condescending remarks ... a simple, friendly, peaceful exchange of views.

Life is beautiful.

I guess this one hasn't been "done to death":eyebrows:, lol.

For me personally, I look for an SP's ad to stand out from the rest. For example, (no offense to the ladies who do the "bump" posts) in the advertising section in Perb, you have SPs who change it up frequently and those who use the same thread for a long time but refreshed with a "bump" post. I find the ones who change it up (e.g. throwing in a selfie once in a blue moon) frequently a lot more interesting. The more creativity you show the more interested I am. Never had the pleasure to see Ercia Obsession but I have always enjoyed her style.

 

[morementum]

I guess this one hasn't been "done to death":eyebrows:, lol.

That and it has been avoided by certain people. A sound combination apparently. lol.

 

[Slapshot1]

LOL, good point!!

Nice to see you back