The Tao of sex

[strider65]

Gotcha with the title eh?

So to me there is sex snd sensuality, and they don't always connect.

I take sex to be an activity, snd sensuality to be an orientation. Sensuality relates to touch, timing, pace. The older I get the more sensuslity is a path to sex, but it has come closer to being the main event. These two relate to pleasure in different ways.

it seems like that is less easily understood by younger women, or maybe it's that for the young sensuality is secondary. Or maybe for some it's just that built in orientation or conditioning that makes it hard to get there.

 

[PuntMeister]

Gotcha with the title eh?

So to me there is sex snd sensuality, and they don't always connect.

I take sex to be an activity, snd sensuality to be an orientation. Sensuality relates to touch, timing, pace. The older I get the more sensuslity is a path to sex, but it has come closer to being the main event. These two relate to pleasure in different ways.

it seems like that is less easily understood by younger women, or maybe it's that for the young sensuality is secondary. Or maybe for some it's just that built in orientation or conditioning that makes it hard to get there.

You sound like my yoga instructor who gives way too many maybe variations on a pose instead of just telling me what the fuck I should do. Lol. 😂

 

[GentlemanJack69]

Gotcha with the title eh?

So to me there is sex snd sensuality, and they don't always connect.

I take sex to be an activity, snd sensuality to be an orientation. Sensuality relates to touch, timing, pace. The older I get the more sensuslity is a path to sex, but it has come closer to being the main event. These two relate to pleasure in different ways.

it seems like that is less easily understood by younger women, or maybe it's that for the young sensuality is secondary. Or maybe for some it's just that built in orientation or conditioning that makes it hard to get there.

Interesting perspective.. not sure that the verbiage you are using effectively conveys what you're trying to say. passion and connection are certainly a more compelling pathway to sex, if that's what you mean by "sensuality"... although not a literal definition.

 

[strider65]

You sound like my yoga instructor who gives way too many maybe variations on a pose instead of just telling me what the fuck I should do. Lol. 😂

Lol I hear you! But I'm still trying to make sense of my experience, snd it requires some words. Once I get there, I don't need them anymore.