How to address BO during a session.

[lukom]

Just curious, have you ever been in a session where an SP was not clean smelling and just told her up front to take another shower?
SP's: what's an ideal way for a client to address this?

I've personally just just avoiding going down on girls or kissing them in such scenarios, but from an SP perspective would you want to be told by a client to consider brushing again or taking another shower? Albeit it would cut into their session time.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Just curious, have you ever been in a session where an SP was not clean smelling and just told her up front to take another shower?
SP's: what's an ideal way for a client to address this?

I've personally just just avoiding going down on girls or kissing them in such scenarios, but from an SP perspective would you want to be told by a client to consider brushing again or taking another shower? Albeit it would cut into their session time.

I ask all clients shower. I'll insist friendly, but politely and firmly. I won't insist if they tell me they showered right before they left home and they look and smell clean. I do not get paid enough to spend an hour smelling anything bad. Telling a provider to go shower is trickier I think. I don't understand why someobody would work without making sure certain areas are clean. So if she does, I think she might be a bit unstable, on drugs, or just young.

 

[lukom]

I ask all clients shower. I'll insist friendly, but politely and firmly. I won't insist if they tell me they showered right before they left home and they look and smell clean. I do not get paid enough to spend an hour smelling anything bad. Telling a provider to go shower is trickier I think. I don't understand why someobody would work without making sure certain areas are clean. So if she does, I think she might be a bit unstable, on drugs, or just young.

Sometimes people have an off day or one of those days, a lapse in judgement. Maybe they had garlic the day prior, theyre dehydrated a bit, or it's a hot day, and theyre showering in hot water....etc maybe they've been eating Birria tacos on one day and butter chicken the day other, where the smells permeate into the skin and can produce BO.

Im 42 and I don't think I've seen anyone younger than 10 years my age. This is assuming that SP's are advertising 5 years younger than their actual age. I don't know if I'd be okay with seeing someone younger than their late twenties either.
Would you be offended if you were asked to go shower once more? During Greek personally an SP had an accident, and I was like "oops, looks like we had an accident. Let's do a quick rinse and come back?" And the lady and I went and took a shower. We didn't go back to doing Greek, but we were able to get back to making out daty, and fs...etc
She seemed embarrassed that it happened and I told her not to be. But I'm trying to see just in general how an SP in general would want a client to address an oversite in her hygiene.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Sometimes people have an off day or one of those days, a lapse in judgement. Maybe they had garlic the day prior, theyre dehydrated a bit, or it's a hot day, and theyre showering in hot water....etc maybe they've been eating Birria tacos on one day and butter chicken the day other, where the smells permeate into the skin and can produce BO.

Im 42 and I don't think I've seen anyone younger than 10 years my age. This is assuming that SP's are advertising 5 years younger than their actual age. I don't know if I'd be okay with seeing someone younger than their late twenties either.
Would you be offended if you were asked to go shower once more? During Greek personally an SP had an accident, and I was like "oops, looks like we had an accident. Let's do a quick rinse and come back?" And the lady and I went and took a shower. We didn't go back to doing Greek, but we were able to get back to making out daty, and fs...etc
She seemed embarrassed that it happened and I told her not to be. But I'm trying to see just in general how an SP in general would want a client to address an oversite in her hygiene.

I don't think I'd be comfortable leaving somebody I don't know unattended for long in my place. But if we showered together, no problem. I have thick skin so I wouldn't mind being told politely. We are all human with human bodies. I'm super lucky and privileged that I rarely ever even sweat. I personally check myself all the time to make sure I'm not going into a session with any kind of strong smell. No perfume and no bo. I think politely and gently is ok. I have been on the other side of this situation way too many times. I'm not fond of trying to hold my breath for an hour. So we can just jump in the shower together at the beginning lol

 

[rubylabellexo]

I agree that politely asking if we could shower together is the best way.

 

[Iwandaboobis]

Just curious, have you ever been in a session where an SP was not clean smelling and just told her up front to take another shower?
SP's: what's an ideal way for a client to address this?

I've personally just just avoiding going down on girls or kissing them in such scenarios, but from an SP perspective would you want to be told by a client to consider brushing again or taking another shower? Albeit it would cut into their session time.

After a couple encounters with smelly SPs, I pretty much won't see a provider that doesn't offer to shower together anymore.

 

[lukom]

After a couple encounters with smelly SPs, I pretty much won't see a provider that doesn't offer to shower together anymore.

I don't generally like showering together. I like the level of privacy. Don't need someone to see me using the toilet before entering the shower, the getting between my nooks and crannies of my junk, between my toes, or doing a dip and sniff to be sure I'm clean (mind you I'll be thoroughly washing between by hands, fingers and nails thereafter).

 

[VanCityNewb]

...or doing a dip and sniff to be sure I'm clean

...I'm scared to ask

 

[white Ninja]

Just curious, have you ever been in a session where an SP was not clean smelling and just told her up front to take another shower?
SP's: what's an ideal way for a client to address this?

I've personally just just avoiding going down on girls or kissing them in such scenarios, but from an SP perspective would you want to be told by a client to consider brushing again or taking another shower? Albeit it would cut into their session time.

I tend to think this probably happens in reverse way more often .
Guys in serious denial about their BO , or just think they are paying so it should make it ok .
Then the SP has to pretend he doesn’t wreak .
Afterwards, said guy w BO writes negative review .

This will likely be an unpopular opinion . But we all know it has likely happened more than once .

 

[white Ninja]

I don't generally like showering together. I like the level of privacy. Don't need someone to see me using the toilet before entering the shower, the getting between my nooks and crannies of my junk, between my toes, or doing a dip and sniff to be sure I'm clean (mind you I'll be thoroughly washing between by hands, fingers and nails thereafter).

100% Agreed , although it’s easy to see why some wish to witness the cleaning itself .

 

[LC18]

I like shower with clients but I’m always scared they’re going to try and put soap on my kitty and mess up my pH

 

[lukom]

I tend to think this probably happens in reverse way more often .
Guys in serious denial about their BO , or just think they are paying so it should make it ok .
Then the SP has to pretend he doesn’t wreak .
Afterwards, said guy w BO writes negative review .

This will likely be an unpopular opinion . But we all know it has likely happened more than once .

The smelliest people are always men, and aside from ignorance or the deluded belief that their unwashed self is how their "pheromones" may stand out more. They get mad that they're paying and not getting service and don't want to admit that they may need to lather rinse repeat multiple times, lay off the asparagus and dairy for the day, stay hydrate, drink some herbal tea, be sure to floss and brush, and use mouthwash!

 

[angry anderson]

I like shower with clients but I’m always scared they’re going to try and put soap on my kitty and mess up my pH

Soap is the least of your worries.

 

[lukom]

I like shower with clients but I’m always scared they’re going to try and put soap on my kitty and mess up my pH

That would constitute assault I'm sure. Whatever the case I feel the shower takes away the privacy component needed in order for someone to be fully clean.

 

[aoi.toori]

That would constitute assault I'm sure. Whatever the case I feel the shower takes away the privacy component needed in order for someone to be fully clean.

Assault??

 

[LC18]

All the men I’ve showered with were very respectful and didn’t expect sex in the shower. I have a few times offered a handjob or a blowjob but that was because I felt like it.

Soap in kitty isn’t an assault I think but definitely a case of men don’t know how sensitive kitties are :/

they’re just trying to help I think

 

[lukom]

Assault??

Forcing soap on someone's privates sounds a bit aggressive, I don't know.

 

[lukom]

All the men I’ve showered with were very respectful and didn’t expect sex in the shower. I have a few times offered a handjob or a blowjob but that was because I felt like it.

Soap in kitty isn’t an assault I think but definitely a case of men don’t know how sensitive kitties are :/

they’re just trying to help I think

That's fair, I just pictured someone just going in and putting soap without consent and just forcefully scrubbing there. Sorry, I've heard of some ladies having nightmare stories.

 

[aoi.toori]

Forcing soap on someone's privates sounds a bit aggressive, I don't know.

Like someone putting soap on your deck?

Where did you read it was by force?

 

[LC18]

Forcing soap on someone's privates sounds a bit aggressive, I don't know.

Oh god! No, just someone trying to wash your back to be romantic and thinking “hey I want her pussy to smell fresh let me soap it up” but soap doesn’t go in there. It burns and then it will disrupt your pH. Forget about sex for a few days