Oh god! No, just someone trying to wash your back to be romantic and thinking “hey I want her pussy to smell fresh let me soap it up” but soap doesn’t go in there. It burns and then it will disrupt your pH. Forget about sex for a few days
That's where my mind went also. Like why is it something to be scared of having done to a person otherwise. I don't want to make this a loaded subject as consent is also a subjective topic decided upon by each individuals own personal boundaries.