...the harder it is to leave
Agree or disagree??
Agree or disagree??
The longer you're in this lifestyle...
- Thread starter Miss Hunter
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I agree. This hobbyist lifestyle of mine is now 10+ years strong but I'm still enjoying it too. So, that's the positive aspect.
This should be an interesting thread from both sides of the coin. The SP perspective vs the consumer perspective should be very different.
I have been doing it as a regular for 9 years now. Prior to that I was doing it for about 4 years and mostly on road trips.
From my perspective, if you have the wherewithal to partake why would one end this? If there is a specific reason for me to discontinue, like failed health or lack of money then it won't be difficult to quit.
If its because of a police crackdown on johns or some other unforeseen circumstance like a morality clause in some juicy job I have and getting caught would ruin my life, then again it won't be a difficult decision but the only choice I have.
Anywhich way I guess what I am saying is I will continue to do this as long as I can. I will definitely miss it when I can't do it any longer but there will be no decision I make that will be difficult. Being forced to quit is much different from wanting to quit.
I have been doing it as a regular for 9 years now. Prior to that I was doing it for about 4 years and mostly on road trips.
From my perspective, if you have the wherewithal to partake why would one end this? If there is a specific reason for me to discontinue, like failed health or lack of money then it won't be difficult to quit.
If its because of a police crackdown on johns or some other unforeseen circumstance like a morality clause in some juicy job I have and getting caught would ruin my life, then again it won't be a difficult decision but the only choice I have.
Anywhich way I guess what I am saying is I will continue to do this as long as I can. I will definitely miss it when I can't do it any longer but there will be no decision I make that will be difficult. Being forced to quit is much different from wanting to quit.
Been doing this for 25 years except for 7 years when I was living with someone. Will it end. Yes. When, I am not sure. Probably my health will finally give out. Or maybe, another relationship.
I’ll do it as long as I can afford it and attractive young women are willing to see me. When that is no longer possible I will revert to being a teenager and masturbate.
I guess I am the odd one out here, I think I find it easier to leave as time goes on, may be I am getting older and dont care as much, may be that prices are getting to what I and that is just I consider unreasonable. Actually I guess my answer is B because when I travel to South America I still go 2 times a day or get a girl for the night, at what I consider bargain prices and what she considers having to work for 9 hours a day for 15 days
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it’s far cheaper to rent than to marry
i lost 6 figures in a divorce, no thanks
also know friends who are financially wrecked for decades on spousal support because the wife was a stay at home mom and now gets 7k/mo for doing nothing
had to talk a buddy out of suicide lol, he is scarred from being abused and manipulated by women unfortunately. Everything he worked decades in the zone for, taken in one decision.
the younger generation of men seem to be either getting married much later or not get married at all. Times are indeed changing. Marriage rates continue to lower and delay at the same time while birth rates are at historic lows.
really good for pooning business. There is no supply of endless new young girls every year to be honest, its definitely hard to “quit”
personally i will never sign another contractual agreement like marriage again, girlfriends or pooning only
i lost 6 figures in a divorce, no thanks
also know friends who are financially wrecked for decades on spousal support because the wife was a stay at home mom and now gets 7k/mo for doing nothing
had to talk a buddy out of suicide lol, he is scarred from being abused and manipulated by women unfortunately. Everything he worked decades in the zone for, taken in one decision.
the younger generation of men seem to be either getting married much later or not get married at all. Times are indeed changing. Marriage rates continue to lower and delay at the same time while birth rates are at historic lows.
really good for pooning business. There is no supply of endless new young girls every year to be honest, its definitely hard to “quit”
personally i will never sign another contractual agreement like marriage again, girlfriends or pooning only
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It's hard to leave the attention you get from some very beautiful women. I lost 10 yrs of spousal support (which i don't begrudge in the least) at 3k a month and half my pension ....but I'll do it as long as they'll have me as a customer. It's a bargain for the good times
For clients it's a recreational activity. For a provider, it's her financial independence.
Well maybe a bit more than just financial independence. Kink can be very addictive...
... the better your style of life is. I'll keep doing it till I can't, no doubt.
I have been in this hobby since my early 20's (I lost my virginity to SW in Austria on a post uni 6 week trip in Europe) and I am now in my 60's. For many years I tried my hardest to quit but never could. Spent lots of $$$ on counselling to try to stop. Now I have just come to accept I will only quit when I'm dead.
I did not try to quit because I disliked the hobby. Far from it. The hobby just made it impossible to have a "normal" relationship as well. Now I no longer hope/try for a "normal" relationship. Some people reading this might feel sad for me, but you shouldn't. I have made my choice and I am content with it.
JD
I did not try to quit because I disliked the hobby. Far from it. The hobby just made it impossible to have a "normal" relationship as well. Now I no longer hope/try for a "normal" relationship. Some people reading this might feel sad for me, but you shouldn't. I have made my choice and I am content with it.
JD
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Tell me about it. That's true from both the client's and the Dominatrix's side of the equation. I find that sex workers who choose Femdom as their line of work stay in the business much longer than the average sex worker. I know several Dominatrixes who are still working well into their 60's.
As for myself, I've been a client of Dominatrixes for about 35 years, so yes, it's addictive.
This video is relevant to why many men decide to poon in the end
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My "addiction" is just starting, even though I'm coming into the hobby late in my game.
I consider myself a seasonal part-timer, which amounts to 'micro-dosing' compared to others from the client side of PERB.
I've been with a few SPs, and got a few stories.... but for me it's all about "the rules" I keep to manage discretion and not get in way over my head to the point it interferes with my real life.
I consider myself a seasonal part-timer, which amounts to 'micro-dosing' compared to others from the client side of PERB.
I've been with a few SPs, and got a few stories.... but for me it's all about "the rules" I keep to manage discretion and not get in way over my head to the point it interferes with my real life.
No one really quits, no mater which side of the fence you're on. It's just a matter of when your next time is.
So that is what that song is about. Huh. That explains why it is my favorite song by the Eagles.
JD
What if your participation in this lifestyle became too much for someone who cares for you to comfortably tolerate?
Then what would you do?
Then what would you do?
