SoOo... you've decided to try out a brand spankin new SP! (Or at least brand new to you... SO EXCITING!) maybe you've done your due diligence and read all her reviews, perused her website for ads for hours... And maybe you haven't. No fault of your own, sometimes life gets busy. I used YELP but I don't read reviews for every single new restaurant I try... Just the super exciting ones. Doesn't matter either way.
So you set up the date and anxiously await it's arrival time in anticipation of a brand new super sexy fling. I've always been jealous that you guys get to have that experience... There's probably nothing more exciting and they do say that anticipation is the purest form of pleasure...
So you finally arrive at her building, press the buzzer, walk through the liby and endure the torturously long elevator ride that must feel 100 years long! As you approach her suite the door opens and you step inside...
And it's not her. Not the girl from the photos at all. Maybe she's entirely unattractive.... Maybe she's not unattractive, but not your type and not what you were expecting by any means... Maybe she has an entirely different body type than advertised... Maybe she was trying to be deceptive and trick you... Maybe she wasn't. For whatever reason, it's not what you expected and you're not into it.
So what happens now?
I'm so curious because I have heard from clients that a lot of ladies use photos that aren't their own (known fact, right?) and I have always wondered how that works out for them, and what happens when the clients realize it's not them. I think about it as if you went to a restaurant that said Gotham on the outside but when you got in the door it was actually McDonnalds. You wouldn't stay and eat, you would leave right? After all, false advertising is unfair to consumers.
But then I have a lot of clients that have told me they stayed anyways, paid the lady, and had a bad time... As expected. I've never wanted to take the time during a date to fully analyze this topic but I am totally curious. And you guys know I totally abuse my privilege of picking your brains. So now I want to know...
If you arrived at a ladies door and she wasn't what you expected, do you stay or go? Or does it depend on the situation? And if you stay... Why? Aren't you angry that she tried to scam you? You can't be worried about it possibly being impolite after that? Do you just figure you're already there (but there are so many SP's!!) and can't be bothered to make another appointment? And if you turn around and leave, like I would, what's the thought process behind that? Is it ever hard? And if you experienced something like this would you share with other consumers right away? Customer protection, better business bureau etc lol?
I would also love to hear from anyone has been in this situation in reality, not just in theory...
As always, thanks in advance my fascinating friends!
So you set up the date and anxiously await it's arrival time in anticipation of a brand new super sexy fling. I've always been jealous that you guys get to have that experience... There's probably nothing more exciting and they do say that anticipation is the purest form of pleasure...
So you finally arrive at her building, press the buzzer, walk through the liby and endure the torturously long elevator ride that must feel 100 years long! As you approach her suite the door opens and you step inside...
And it's not her. Not the girl from the photos at all. Maybe she's entirely unattractive.... Maybe she's not unattractive, but not your type and not what you were expecting by any means... Maybe she has an entirely different body type than advertised... Maybe she was trying to be deceptive and trick you... Maybe she wasn't. For whatever reason, it's not what you expected and you're not into it.
So what happens now?
I'm so curious because I have heard from clients that a lot of ladies use photos that aren't their own (known fact, right?) and I have always wondered how that works out for them, and what happens when the clients realize it's not them. I think about it as if you went to a restaurant that said Gotham on the outside but when you got in the door it was actually McDonnalds. You wouldn't stay and eat, you would leave right? After all, false advertising is unfair to consumers.
But then I have a lot of clients that have told me they stayed anyways, paid the lady, and had a bad time... As expected. I've never wanted to take the time during a date to fully analyze this topic but I am totally curious. And you guys know I totally abuse my privilege of picking your brains. So now I want to know...
If you arrived at a ladies door and she wasn't what you expected, do you stay or go? Or does it depend on the situation? And if you stay... Why? Aren't you angry that she tried to scam you? You can't be worried about it possibly being impolite after that? Do you just figure you're already there (but there are so many SP's!!) and can't be bothered to make another appointment? And if you turn around and leave, like I would, what's the thought process behind that? Is it ever hard? And if you experienced something like this would you share with other consumers right away? Customer protection, better business bureau etc lol?
I would also love to hear from anyone has been in this situation in reality, not just in theory...
As always, thanks in advance my fascinating friends!






