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Thank you perb!

johnny4cross

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In the month of july 2006 I decided to research out local sp's and find one that I felt comfortable with enough to see, never having seen an sp before I really did not want to just go for the first nice picture of an sp that I saw.

This proved to be difficult untill I found the perb site. Going through all the reviews of girls I gathered a list of about six. Then I proceeded to read the girls posts and threads in the hopes of getting to know them a little better before I would contact them. And of course I read all the reviews on the girls by perberts. Took me about two weeks to finally e-mail my first sp.

The girl I contacted was very nice in her responses to me, and she was very patient with me considering it took about a month and a half for our scheduals to finally work out. The girl was so easy going, easy to talk to and very accomodating, so I never had the need to contact any other sp's. My first experience was something that I wanted to remember so I knew that I wanted to book an overnight.

Well the overnight was a great success, this woman made me feel like a whole new person. She made me feel at ease from the first moment she walked through the door. We had a great time together. This is not a review so excuse my lack of description on the actual overnight itself.

We had a great chat in the morning and she was on her way. As soon as she was no longer in site I started to miss her. I of course wanted to contact her right after our session to tell her again how much of a good time I had but opted to just leave things where they left off.

A few days later I got an e-mail from her thanking me for a nice time. I told her that I wanted to see her again as soon as my wallet would allow. The woman is 4:20 friendly so I suggested she run a tab with me untill her tab is up to the amount of an overnight. She agreed so we set a time and place to meet so that I could drop off a little something for her.

Well fellow perb members and staff...I am engaged to be married to this wonderful woman in the new year. I found the girl of my dreams, this is ironic considering one of the dominant factors in me getting an sp was because I had givin' up on girlfriends and relashionships...figured that a roll in the hay every few months with an sp was better than all the crap that sorrounds being attached.

So to finish off this long winded thread I would like to thank the creators of PERB for having a well created site that helped me find what I was looking for and a whole lot of what I thought I was not looking for. If it was not for this PERB site I would have probably never found my soulmate. And don't worry I won't be back here whinning if things don't work out, I'm a big boy and went into this with boths eyes open.

sincerely thankful Johnny4cross


P.S. Sorry for not reveilling the Identity of my fiance but I think it should be her decision to reveil herself!
 

athaire

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Aug 18, 2006
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Well that is something I never really thought I would see on this site.......congrats and good luck.
 

kalel

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Sep 16, 2006
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wow, and i thought cinderella had a good life.

congrats, and hope you can handle what most men can't - her past.
 

anonanon

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Aug 29, 2006
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So PERB is a marriage site now? :D

Thats good to hear. Most people will never get past the client stage with a women of this profession and that is sometimes a shame. There are alot of very special people on this site, and the ones that post their minds I think are the best. When we know more about a person, we can make choices to see them or not.

For us, we pay by the hour for a lady by our side. You get that privilege for the rest of your life!
 

johnny4cross

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May 22, 2006
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I think I can handle her past, considering that is how we met, and as long as it remains her past. I have never loved anyone as much as i love this woman.
 

aznboi9

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May 3, 2005
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Congratulations johnny4cross; I'm happy to hear that you found someone. Best wishes to you two in the future.
 

sunnysideup

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I’m a romantic at heart. I’ve often thought that such a relationship would work. Remember though that there is conflict in all relationships. You’ve met each other in an unconventional way and because of that I think you have to treat any forthcoming conflict in a respectful manner. If she once throws it in your face that you paid her for sex, or if you once throw it in her face that she was paid for sex, the trust between you will be stressed, perhaps to the breaking point. Set a rule for yourselves - regardless of whatever strife happens between you, that part of your relationship is off limits - never to be used as ammunition by either of you in a disagreement.

Or am I stating the obvious?
 

JustAGuy

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What a cool story, johnny4cross. As I read your post, I kept waiting for a punchline of some sort and then I realized ... hey, it actually happened!! I hope it works out for the both of you. Good for you for being able to see the real person there when most guys choose to see anything but a real person.
 

Vroomfondel

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Oct 27, 2006
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Dear Johnny,

Let me also add my congratulations! I must admit I used to be skeptical and cynical, strongly doubting that SP-client relationships could endure the challenges of a real long-term committment. I've since softened that position, and like sunnysideup I too am a romantic at heart. I wish you and "Mrs.Cross" a wonderful and fulfilling life together. May the home you both create be blessed with love, laughter and peace.

In a previous thread several months ago about marrying/dating SPs, I and other contributors cautioned that there are unique and added complexities in relationships like these. In the interests of ensuring that your upcoming marriage is successful, I will reiterate that caution. As sunnysideup said, disparaging comments about trading sex for money are unconditionally verboten. The same conditions apply to feelings of jealousy, envy or curiosity about her past sexual encounters. Your slates are now clean, both sexually and spiritually. Keep it that way and your relationship will continue to thrive.

Good luck, johnny! All the best to you both.

VF
 

visiting

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Oct 23, 2005
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Nice story to hear Johnny,

Congrats and good luck....


Now Johnny, you have everyone trying to figure out who your talking about, lets see who it could be.... LOL


Seriously Good luck to both of you.:)
 

slowjazz

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Congratulations are in order. Many of Vancouver's SP's are bright, gifted, intelligent women who could add love, style, and grace to a good man's life.

I'm glad to hear you found the girl of your dreams on PERB. Wishing you both the best! :D
 

muffdiver

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It will never work, i don't want to be a party pooper but the fact that they met as hooker- john will always be there in the relationship. What are you going to tell your families how you met? It will always be lies , you will always be wondering if each other is fucking around ,i give it 6 month's to a year at the most.

My suggestion is to move in together , give that a couple years atleast and then if everything is still all lovey dovey then get hitched.
 

PeterLongwood

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One thing you haven't told us Jonny: will she keep working? If so, I bet she'll be pretty busy. A post like yours makes us think she must be quite a provider.

If she's going to give up the trade, have you discussed how she'll deal with the substantial decrease in income?
 

littlejimbigher

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johnny4cross said:
A few days later I got an e-mail from her thanking me for a nice time. I told her that I wanted to see her again as soon as my wallet would allow. The woman is 4:20 friendly so I suggested she run a tab with me untill her tab is up to the amount of an overnight.
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Maybe I missed something here but how would she run a tab?
 

hitrack

I'LL KILL YA ALL!!
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Having had 3 GF's from this industry I give it a piss pot poor chance of being long term.

All I can say is more power to ya if it works. If you crash and burn most here will just sa I told ya so.
 
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