I regularly hang out in an area near to an SP I have visited and there is a good chance I may run in to her on the street some day. What is the proper etiquette when this happens? Are you supposed to just ignore each other? Obviously if you are with our wife or girlfriend then there is no acknowledgment but what if you are either by yourself or with a male friend?
Street Etiquette
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If you do a search you will find a thread or two on this subject.
Generally speaking if she doesn't clearly let you know she is alone and OK with you approaching her, don't even let on that you know her!
If you do a search you will find a thread or two on this subject.
Generally speaking if she doesn't clearly let you know she is alone and OK with you approaching her, don't even let on that you know her!
Too lazy and also looking for attention
But seriously, my first instinct would be to pretend I don't know her since to me it's a professional relationship that ends when you walk out the door. But I wanted to make sure.
Yup. Trust your instinct. Just walk on by.
Next time you see her in session, you can ask her what she would prefer, but unless she specifically says otherwise, go with your instinct.
Easist thing you can do is hit on her, if she lets u continue then do so but if not then .... thats your answer.
Do not under any conditions hit on her, as this will probably result in you being black listed with some providers.
Some girls, everybody knows what they do for a living, so its not as big a deal. Others nobody knows. Some girls have husbands that don't know they work. I have worked at a few massage parlors where boyfriends/husbands find out and come in and make a scene. Embarrassing for everybody witnessing and devastating for them. Some girls are always hookers 24/7, others don't even want a reminder of it in their private lives.
The best thing to do is walk right on by, like you have no idea who she is, and then like someone else said, next time in session, ask her, what she prefers.
WTF???
Is the profession a choice or something that is forced on these women?
Nah... the best thing to do is give em a good smack on the ass as you walk by!
This is true, but I have known a lot of paranoid girls with a lot to lose. If he smiles at the girl, she might experience a bit of panic, thinking omg, I really hope he doesn't say hi. I think act like you never met her, not interested, is the best, and safest option in most situations..I don't find anything wrong at all with a warm smile.
There is no reason to think it is anything but a nice gesture among strangers admiring each other
xoxo
Nina
Most people know what I do, plus I am quite quick with my reactions.
I used to hang out with a girl that no matter what, she could never remember my real name, lol. We'd be out in public and every 2 seconds, she would be like hey Harmony I'd say, I don't know who that Harmony is, but she better be hot, cause you keep calling me her name.
I have nothing to lose, though. I have no jealous boyfriend, square job, or child, so I am cool. A few relatives don't know what I do, but I do not live in the same city as those guys. I'm ok with even a quick respectful chat, but I would say lots of girls are not. There is also the times where I am just running to the grocery store and really don't feel like being nice, or on, and would really just rather go about my business, without even going through the effort to turn my cheeks into a smile. This is especially true after I have done a few massages and I'm hungry and tired
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I don't understand the 'no smile' thing. I smile at strangers all the time. I talk to strangers in line at the store or when we're both looking at the products near each other on the shelf, etc... I don't understand why people wouldn't be cordial to each other. I know this job requires more discretion than others, but I've wave to my accountant, or mechanic, or masseuse.
Ha! In Vancouver if someone initiates a conversation with you they are usually looking for a handout! No lie.
Thanks for all of the advice from the women. It was them I was hoping to hear from. Other than one close friend, nobody knows about my activity and I want to keep it that way. Sometimes even a innocent smile could lead to questions. I usually don't get pretty, young women smiling at me so if it happened it would be out of the ordinary
I think I'll just bring it up with my SP the next time I see her and find out how she handles it.
Yah but that pretty young girl could be your favorite barista at Starbucks, be the receptionist at your lawyers office, your daughters girlfriend. There are many options. None of my friends would think it was weird, but then again I talk to random people when out and about!Ha! In Vancouver if someone initiates a conversation with you they are usually looking for a handout! No lie.
Thanks for all of the advice from the women. It was them I was hoping to hear from. Other than one close friend, nobody knows about my activity and I want to keep it that way. Sometimes even a innocent smile could lead to questions. I usually don't get pretty, young women smiling at me so if it happened it would be out of the ordinary
I think I'll just bring it up with my SP the next time I see her and find out how she handles it.
I think as long as you don't say their work name, then a quick hi, lil smile won't do any harm.
I did have one client whom I had only met once, see me at timmy's, he came back in, and was trying to kill time, then was standing beside my car when I came out. Not cool at all. We all have our own lives, and that was way invasive.
