SPs visiting clients who are they?
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Oh ok got it. I found its really hard to date in Vancouver nearly impossible. Everyone is so busy with their own life it's like crazy.Dating a regular non sp girl... ie: a regular civilian
Yeah it’s too expensive here to have time to date. That’s why I charge people to date me ?
I have seen SP’s for about 15 years. Was the excitement, then the things wifey, who was very straight wouln’t Want to do like BJ. I have seen 100’ish women and found ten great ones and four long term gems. The gems all found a life so just a kiss good by. There are a ton of reasons and even more perspectives on why. Important thing is to be respectful, kind, caring, and appreciative on what makes you so happy that you do it again. They are real people too.
Lol I find either/or, it costs me about the same.
Actually, scratch that... civvie relationships generally cost me more. Waaah!! ?
^ I’d like to think that go goes without saying...
glad u said it anyway!
I have never hidden the fact that im married, (yes he knows im a provider) as a provider, I have never taken my ring off, most of my clients are married, they tell me, i guess they feel comfortabe knowing that I am, and it turns on the young clients
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I'm married, happily in fact, with lots of sex with my wife. I'm in my mid-30s. Have two kids. Work full time at a career where you might see me everyday. By all accounts, I'm a completely normal person. You'd never suspect.
The first sp I was with asked if I "had a girlfriend, or..." And trailed off. So I told her. Sometimes I forget to take off my ring.
The first sp I was with asked if I "had a girlfriend, or..." And trailed off. So I told her. Sometimes I forget to take off my ring.
Fun fact: we don’t care about your ring. Or at least none of the ladies I play with do 😆
One time a guy left his ring in my bathroom. I noticed it immediately and texted him so luckily he was able to grab it. He was a tad embarrassed but I thought it was hilarious. A friendly reminder to keep those precious metals safe, gentlemen! 💍
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I usually hook it around my key ring. It's never been an issue for anyone I've seen, at least I don't think... I can just imagine maybe some being a little 'colder' to someone they know it's married, maybe? Kind of hot when one of them sucked on that finger while I was wearing it.
Yeah, not this girl. I’ve had wedding rings inside of me 😏
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fitey7777777
Early 20's single, just moved to Vancouver in November. Covid reallly hit hard in the casual hookups or dating scene especially when you don't have any contacts in your new surroundings. Figured I'd give this a shot and had some fun! Definitely had a couple funny reactions when I've met an SP with how I look but I think it makes it all the more fun haha.
(I never did this in my hometown so I'm still quite new, so if any more experienced guys in the Vancouver area wanna shoot me a message for a recommendation in my messages I'm all ears. I check out reviews a lot but hard to comb through everything.)
(I never did this in my hometown so I'm still quite new, so if any more experienced guys in the Vancouver area wanna shoot me a message for a recommendation in my messages I'm all ears. I check out reviews a lot but hard to comb through everything.)
I’m single, I don’t know how to date or develop romantic relationships, and I just got tired of getting my hopes up and my heart broken, so that’s why I saw someone.
Do married men still wear a wedding band on their finger? If so, that would be one way an sp would know if you are married or not. I suspect most guys would not bother taking the ring off when visiting a sp, too greeat a risk of losing it or forgetting to put it back on, with the accompanyng very embarrassing questions from the spouse such situations would elicit.
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I bet that's because all the really quiet ones are opting instead to visit the Asian SPs who can't speak English well. No pressure to make small talk!
I get lots of guys who say “I’m usually quiet but for some reason I feel super comfortable opening up to you” 🤷🏼♀️ I don’t *pressure* anyone to do anything.
I meant the pressure of their own social anxiety. They don't need anyone's help to feel awkward. 😜
I mean neither do I, I’m awkward as hell. Maybe that’s why people feel comfortable with me hahahaha
Very Interesting you say that. I lived here all my life, so I can't compare it with anything. But I have met a lot of European ppl and ppl from other parts of Canada who say the same thing. Not only in terms of intimate relationships but just making friends in general.
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