SP's asking for your contact info?

[h4z]

This might seem like a silly question but I'm curious to see how you guys handle these situations.

I've encountered a few SP's over the years who, after our session, would ask for my contact info (phone number, wechat, Instagram etc) with the intention of wanting to stay connected. Now, while I do find some sort of connection and attraction there, I'd like to maintain a level of privacy and discreetness in my 'extra-curricular activities'.

How have y'all handled these requests?

 

[localguy]

Do u only see agency girls? Coz if she's indie, she'd already have some form of contact info when u booked.

 

[Sprider69]

This might seem like a silly question but I'm curious to see how you guys handle these situations.

I've encountered a few SP's over the years who, after our session, would ask for my contact info (phone number, wechat, Instagram etc) with the intention of wanting to stay connected. Now, while I do find some sort of connection and attraction there, I'd like to maintain a level of privacy and discreetness in my 'extra-curricular activities'.

How have y'all handled these requests?

I have pooner contact info and social media so I have no problem giving it out. Those accounts aren't connected to my IRL phone or email so they are free to do as they please with it. It's led to some nice ongoing connections.

 

[Isildur123]

Some massage SPs have asked for my number or WeChat. It's relatively harmless unless they message you at weird hours and you name them "SP" for your spouse's viewing pleasure.

Some ongoing relationships are good if you want to see a specific SP of your choice. One SP does great back walking and foot job and it's convenient to have a working relationship with her if you want something specific, as opposed to trying out an entirely new SP who doesn't understand or do it well.

As always, it's situation and use discretion. Sometimes it's a good ideated sometimes it's a bad idea.

 

[Harmony-bc]

This might seem like a silly question but I'm curious to see how you guys handle these situations.

I've encountered a few SP's over the years who, after our session, would ask for my contact info (phone number, wechat, Instagram etc) with the intention of wanting to stay connected. Now, while I do find some sort of connection and attraction there, I'd like to maintain a level of privacy and discreetness in my 'extra-curricular activities'.

How have y'all handled these requests?

She is probably wanting your contact info to see you outside of the agency so she doesn’t have to pay agency fees. Every time I’ve ever given a client my personal number when I worked at parlors/agencies it was because I didn’t really like my boss and wanted to take clients with me to the next place or to see privately.

 

[Big_Guy_Rye]

How have y'all handled these requests?

Burner phones, dummy social media profiles with a fake name..

If you're worried about discretion, there are plenty of ways to set up an identity that won't trace back to your real life.

If that's too much work, then just add her to your contacts anyway, and edit the contact profile with a different non-conspicuous name so no snoopy spouse will know any better.

 

[localguy]

She is probably wanting your contact info to see you outside of the agency so she doesn’t have to pay agency fees. Every time I’ve ever given a client my personal number when I worked at parlors/agencies it was because I didn’t really like my boss and wanted to take clients with me to the next place or to see privately.

This. Was gonna say if we're talking agency girls then yeah, it's not uncommon. Have been offered personal # by agency girls and have also offered mine in the past and it has led to some great ongoing connections.

 

[Asian Fever]

She is probably wanting your contact info to see you outside of the agency so she doesn’t have to pay agency fees.

This. Quick way out the door.

 

[pooooooootatoman]

After reading this thread I'm beginning to think that perhaps I'm not the total stud muffin/amazing lover that I thought i was after just being asked for my number for the first time.

Whoops

 

[Harmony-bc]

This. Quick way out the door.

I’ve never been fired from anywhere. I’ve quit a few tho. But I’ve been independent for forever now anyways lol.

 

[pleasureprinciple]

I’ve never been fired from anywhere. I’ve quit a few tho. But I’ve been independent for forever now anyways lol.

Sigh. All my preconceptions dashed. Restraint of free trade is everywhere......

 

[Harmony-bc]

Sigh. All my preconceptions dashed. Restraint of free trade is everywhere......

I don’t understand what you mean? lol

 

[pleasureprinciple]

I don’t understand what you mean? lol

Make a private arrangement and quick way out the door.
I believe in free association and with it free trade and opportunities for all.

 

[Harmony-bc]

Make a private arrangement and quick way out the door.
I believe in free association and with it free trade and opportunities for all.

I used to work for a lady that had spies. Her spies were the worst kind of client. I can’t imagine any girls wanting their numbers lol. She had regular clients that would try to give you their number and then she’d fire you when they ratted you out. She never fired me. I quit after 3 days. She was a bit too pimpy for me.

 

[pleasureprinciple]

I used to work for a lady that had spies. Her spies were the worst kind of client. I can’t imagine any girls wanting their numbers lol. She had regular clients that would try to give you their number and then she’d fire you when they ratted you out. She never fired me. I quit after 3 days. She was a bit too pimpy for me.

Good on You!!!!!
Professional (any profession) service groups need to be based on mutual respect to succeed.

 

[Harmony-bc]

This. Quick way out the door.

I’ve also had bosses that I loved and was loyal to because they were awesome.

 

[blondeluver]

I used to work for a lady that had spies. Her spies were the worst kind of client. I can’t imagine any girls wanting their numbers lol. She had regular clients that would try to give you their number and then she’d fire you when they ratted you out. She never fired me. I quit after 3 days. She was a bit too pimpy for me.

This is exactly the reason why I never used an agency, ever! I like Indie and Co-Op's like PDC but not an agency.

 

[VinVan]

After reading this thread I'm beginning to think that perhaps I'm not the total stud muffin/amazing lover that I thought i was after just being asked for my number for the first time.

Whoops

I would take it as a compliment to be asked for your number. In my experience it means the SP likes you enough (eg money, attitude, hygiene look, etc) to want to stay in touch. In my experience this privilege is not granted to all whom she sees. But one def shouldn’t get an inflated ego over being asked for a number; one SP I saw recently showed me her list of contacts and it was longer than my arm, haha. So I didn’t feel too special when we swapped info.

Regarding being shown the door if the SP shares her contact info, I get that agencies want to have exclusive rights to the SPs who work in their condos as it how they differentiate themselves in the market. But speaking strictly from an employment perspective, unless I’m mistaken, most of the SPs (whether at a MP or agency) are considered contractors (although an employment lawyer may disagree since they are working at the agency condo and using agency supplies) and not employees. So the agency is not providing extended benefits (to my knowledge), medical, dental, matching RRSP conditions. So why shouldn’t the SP exchange contacts with people they like? Unless the agency/MP is going to provide the benefits of an exclusive arrangement why should the SP be compelled to do so?

Just askin’?

 

[Asian Fever]

Regarding being shown the door if the SP shares her contact info, I get that agencies want to have exclusive rights to the SPs who work in their condos as it how they differentiate themselves in the market. But speaking strictly from an employment perspective, unless I’m mistaken, most of the SPs (whether at a MP or agency) are considered contractors (although an employment lawyer may disagree since they are working at the agency condo and using agency supplies) and not employees. So the agency is not providing extended benefits (to my knowledge), medical, dental, matching RRSP conditions. So why shouldn’t the SP exchange contracts with people they like? Unless the agency/MP is going to provide the benefits of an exclusive arrangement why should the SP be compelled to do so?

Just askin’?

Thanks for the thoughtful question, VinVan.

You’re absolutely right that most SPs working with agencies or MPs are considered independent contractors. However, the dynamics become more complex when the agency is not just an advertising platform—but also providing physical space, supplies, admin support, and safety infrastructure.

In our case, we offer much more than just a room. We handle bookings, provide a secure and well-maintained incall space at a significantly lower rate than any hotel or AirBnB in Vancouver, supply everything needed for appointments, offer free professional photoshoots, manage safety protocols (including safety check-in/out [someone comes if she misses this], access to antibiotics and pairing with other ladies), and create a reliable stream of clients—without the ladies paying for ads or dealing with logistics.

Unfortunately, when SPs try to bypass that system—sneaking clients in during off-hours, renting other spaces using contacts gained at the agency, or splitting side incalls with other girls—it undermines the entire structure. It’s not just a question of independence; it becomes an issue of fairness, trust, and sustainability for everyone involved.

We absolutely respect the independence of the companions we work with, and we strive to bring real value to them—both in terms of income and peace of mind. But in return, we expect transparency and a mutual understanding that we’re building something together.

Hope that adds some clarity—and again, appreciate the respectful discussion.

 

[pooooooootatoman]

I would take it as a compliment to be asked for your number. In my experience it means the SP likes you enough (eg money, attitude, hygiene look, etc) to want to stay in touch. In my experience this privilege is not granted to all whom she sees. But one def shouldn’t get an inflated ego over being asked for a number; one SP I saw recently showed me her list of contacts and it was longer than my arm, haha. So I didn’t feel too special when we swapped info.

Yeah tongue was firmly in cheek!