SP Behaviour

[kd75]

I have OP on ignore and I can’t remember why but I bet it’s for the same reason this chick pretending to like him and then blew him off 😂

Seems like i was right...

 

[mattrr]

Sounds like you developed feelings for this SP. Remember the SP provides a service and you the client receives the service in exchange for $$$. It's a quick fix. Any feelings are an illusion. If you want a real connection start going on real dates. Real dates with a real connection are amazing I highly recommend it.

 

[EuroSZabina]

Why don't you just move on, ppl are overthinking situations, instead of moving on and stop worrying about it so much.
There's plenty of ladies out there.

 

[six1961xis]

One party rejects an other because they are:

1) Too much of something.

and/or

2) Not enough of something else.

 

[vanperb]

Why don't you just move on, ppl are overthinking situations, instead of moving on and stop worrying about it so much.
There's plenty of ladies out there.

... way easier said than done. But you're right, all the scenarios have been played out without any way to verify any of them. Time to move on.

 

[beaveraddict]

I see SPs so I never have to deal with this BS! I wish I'd been richer in my 20s & 30s, I would have saved myself a ton of time LOL
The fact that you are still ruminating about it should be a reminder to yourself that you have let your emotions seep into the situation. Sure, SPs & clients "click" all the time, but that's when they are both comfortable with the "zone of exchange". In the same way you wouldn't return to an SP who tried to up sell you, she is doing the same because she likely sensed that you were trying to "up sell" her on an emotional level.
Bringing a present to a first date? C'mon Dude!!!
Desperation is the world's worst cologne.
Learn from it and move on 🙏