SP at strip club

[Pegg204]

So Friday I was at Teasers with a bachelor party and near the end of the night recognized an SP there. (Not 100% on the rules so I won't name names but she's a regular advertiser on here.)
She looked great and was dressed very revealing/sexy so I just thought maybe she was there with a client or just danced also as a side-gig. But I noticed she didn't ask anyone or go for any private dances, and was literally just sitting alone and on her phone the entire time.
I wanted to approach her but I admittedly don't know the etiquette and was pretty drunk from shots so didn't wanna make an ass of myself.

For anyone that's more familiar with this scene, is this a common thing? Do SPs go to strip clubs to find clients and are you expected to just approach them about it?

 

[Forum mod]

This has been discussed many times. You leave her alone. If you have her number, text her, since she's on her phone and ask if you like, but you don't approach. She could be there with a friend, or a dancer is a friend, there's 100 reasons for her to be there that don't involve trolling for clients. If she knows you, and you make eye contact, it's up to her to initiate contact, or you could always send a drink over but I would not approach. if she's wandering around working the floor and talking to guys, that's another story, have at it. Otherwise, leave it be.

Back in the day, I remember going to the Penthouse in Vancouver while there on a business trip. When the hi-track on Seymour was still a thing, many of the ladies would duck into the Penthouse for a drink or to warm up on a cold evening or to get out of the rain. You could pick them up easy enough, but expensive and often rip-off artists.

 

[westwoody]

If you were a mechanic would you want everyone whose car you ever fixed bugging you about their car while you just want to watch some strippers?

 

[Pegg204]

Thanks for the replies, I'm glad my instinct was correct and to just mind my own business.
It was my first time there so not too familiar with how it all works and most of the threads I found seem to just be about the 'private dances' and how they're a huge waste of money.

 

[Kissmepassionately]

If you were a mechanic would you want everyone whose car you ever fixed bugging you about their car while you just want to watch some strippers?

This made me laugh, as I was a mechanic most of my adult life, and when people see me out they come talk to me all the time, and yes ask me car questions to. Most of the time I don't mind, but it can get overwhelming occasionally. My favorite was when uninvited, a woman just sat down at my table in Boston Pizza, while I was waiting for a girl I was dating. She just sat down, and began talking to me, because I had worked on her vehicle a few times in the past. Yes it does get annoying and overwhelming, so don't do it to your mechanic, or SP. It puts us in a very awkward position. A smile as you walk by is fine.