SP asked me to do her bareback!!! YIKES!

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I think that the people in these forums probably share a commonality: We are people that "do" life. By that I mean we are personality types that actually go Pooning rather than sit around and jerk-off all day. I believe it takes a certain level of moxy to navigate the agencies and escorts primarily on our own. And we are rewarded for it.

A huge number of people just imagine their life away.

We are ( SP's and Pooners alike) by nature risk takers. Because of this we have learned to instictivly take steps to reduce the risks involved in the activities we pursue. What would motivate someone to engage in something so risky as uprotected play when a safer approach is so readily available?

Play the way you want. But me? I'll invest the time searching for a SP that rocks my world safely, rather than suffer the anxiety of worrying for weeks and weeks if I am clear...


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Violet

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I know this is long, sorry :) Just my 3 cents

I resent the statements that ALL SPs have done BBFS with a client, I have NEVER done that (& will never), & I really don't think that I'm an anomaly here.

Although it is possible, I guess, that BBFS is slightly more common in Vancouver, as I am from Victoria, because I have noticed it does seem to be more common in different locations. For example, in some countries the clients demand BB everything & an SP would get no business if she didn't comply, or perhaps the guys would just do it anyway, whether she consented or not. That is sad, but I have also noticed this happening in Canada, for example some SPs in Montreal even advertise this, or there are some places where terms such as "unlimited GFE" are code for BBFS. The motivation in that case is money, but I honestly don't think any amount of money is worth risking your life that senselessly.

The only solution to playing as safe as possible is to use your big head & USE A CONDOM AT ALL TIMES! It's that simple! You can never fully elimate your risk for all STD's, unless you are completley celibate, just as you can't elimate your risk from being hit by a bus. Nor is it any different when sleeping with someone who is not in the business. If anything SPs are far safer about sex than girls (& guys!) who aren't in the business, as our livelihood depends on it.

I have to admit that I have met or knew of a few ladies in the biz who did once or occassionally provide BBFS, & for those who are curious about the motivations behind doing that, in these cases it was, respectively:
1) she were so drunk or high at the time that she didn't realize what they were doing
2) she was naive & brand new to the business & didn't realize she could say no, or didn't know how to stand up for herself when the guy just put it in with no condom without asking
3) desperate for money & figured it was ok since if she'd met the guy at the bar they wouldn't be using a condom (yes apparently BBFS is quite common for one-night-stands outside the business)
4) this one must have had some mental issues, as she seemed to enjoy the risk, along with participating in risky behaviours in general, but the SP claimed her reason was because she was considerably older & less attractive she felt that this would bring her much more business, (which it did, as there are always plenty of guys looking for BB, in fact I frequently get asked for BBFS, probably about at least once a week, which has the opposite effect of what they intended, making me far less open-minded than I would normally be. When I ask them how they would feel if I actually said yes, wouldn't they think I must do that with everyone then, they say "I hope I would be special & you would only do it for me." Jeez, What are these guys thinking?)

Now I know saying I know of girls who have done BBFS seems to go against my assertion that the vast majority of SP's would never do BBFS, but these are very rare examples & even in these cases the SPs were by no means offering BB to everyone. The bottom line is use a condom. You are far far more likely to die in a car accident than to get a deadly disease from condom-protected sex.

Oh and one more thing... as to whether or not to post the SP's name, I agree with the poster's decision not to, as, in addition to the reasons posted already, he does not know whether she offers BBFS to anyone else, he has no proof of what happened & people might think he has an ulterior motive for making such a post, for example he could be seen as someone trying to hurt her business, even though she did offer him BBFS that doesn't mean she must have an STD or there's any proof that clients would be at any more risk seeing her than picking a random escort's name out of a hat. In my opinion in general it's probably just better to keep quiet on the name of the SP in this type of situation where things could easily get complicated or misinterpreted. Would clients like it if the girls posted the name of every client who offered them BBFS?
 

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I must admit that I am out of the loop as far as not using a condom for one night stands with someone you just met at a club. I'm surprised it is that common. Thank god people were so paranoid in the late 80's/early 90's, cuz I have never been with a woman that not only demanded it, but most carried in their purses as well. Aids is still on the rise. I guess because it's not #1 in the media anymore, people are slipping.
 

Violet

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A comment & a clarification

I know, it is really frightening how many of my friends outside the business have admitted to not using a condom, on a regular basis, for one night stands that they met at the bar. Yet some of the same "friends" were appalled when they found out what I did for a living, or even assumed I must have an std because I'm an escort. A bit hypocritical? You'd think that this day in age people would be a lot safer about sex than they are. I guess hormones can still override the brain, especially when alcohol is involved.

Now before people go making any assumptions (which sometimes seems to happen when I can't resist the urge but to give my input on the topics here on perb), I'd like to point out that I was NOT implying that all or any of the SPs that I mentioned I'd known of to do BBFS neccessarily worked with me, for the same agency as me, at any agency, in Victoria, were friends of mine, or are currently still in the business. I don't want anyone to take anything I said out of context or make any assumptions about who those girls must be or where they may work or have worked.
 

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Amazing

I remember a few years ago when it cam out the Jade/Shaiann was giving bar back full service and bare back anal the guy on Perb were lining up around the block to do her.

Post her name and you will triple her business overnight!:(
 

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On the subject....

I have been offered considerable amounts of cash for BBFS and BBBJ - which I of course would/have never taken.

Apart from declining I will also NEVER see the person who asked.

Why?

Anyone who wants to do BBFS with anyone outside of a commited relationship has little care for there own health and well-being (as well as their partners if they have one).
People who don't give a crap about there personal health/safety often act dangerously to themselves and others. These are the type of people I avoid.

Regardless, in 50 years I want to be as happy and healthy as I am now without having to many regrets. After all I think most young girls in this business are doing this now to set-up for the healthy, happy, prosperous future.
 

Violet

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Being an SP has made me safer about sex

As for the "bar star" girl who has a couple of boys per weekend being a bigger risk than a SP. Whatever. A typical SP is doing 30 guys a week, 120 a month, over 1200 guys a year. A "bar star" is doing a couple of guys a week, max & she's choosing who they are. SP's aren't. This argument is really just a personal justification used by pooners to convince themselves that the girl they just banged is "cleaner" than the hot chick down at some martini club.

You've got no idea how your SP got to where she is, what she was doing last year or how many risks she's taken in her career. Just because she's clean & sane now doesn't mean she always was.
Its the exact same with the chick a guy picks up at the bar! In fact, anyone who reads Perb would probably know a lot more about an SP he has chosen than some random bar star. I think the point about an SP being safer than a "bar star" or other stranger is because SPs are safer about sex, & in the extremely vast majority of situations it would be protected sex versus the unprotected one-night-stands we were talking about. Having sex with 10 people without a condom is far less safe than doing 100 with a condom. Plus SPs are way less likely to have unprotected sex, & take their sexual safety very seriously (a lot don't even offer things like BBBJ), & are a lot more likely to educate themselves on STDs & do self-exams & get tested far more regularly. I don't know any SPs who have gotten an STD from a client (not saying that they don't exist), but I know of tons of people outside the business who have contracted STDs from one-night-stands, relationships, many from even their first time ever having sex (though obviously not their partner's).

And FYI a typical SP is NOT doing 1200 guys a year, even if the busiest ones might see up to 30 guys in a week as you say, that would not translate to 1200 guys a year, as they are not all different guys! The majority of my clients are regulars so I am not seeing that many different men, actually just the same guys repeatedly, & I believe it's like that for most successful SPs. The bottom line, though, is more sex does not mean less safe, that is a fallacy.

Oh & as to the belief that it's not as easy for the guy to get HIV (as the woman) in hetero sex, so what? That doesn't mean there is no risk, & what about all the other STDs out there?
 

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Its the exact same with the chick a guy picks up at the bar! In fact, anyone who reads Perb would probably know a lot more about an SP he has chosen than some random bar star. I think the point about an SP being safer than a "bar star" or other stranger is because SPs are safer about sex, & in the extremely vast majority of situations it would be protected sex versus the unprotected one-night-stands we were talking about. Having sex with 10 people without a condom is far less safe than doing 100 with a condom. Plus SPs are way less likely to have unprotected sex, & take their sexual safety very seriously (a lot don't even offer things like BBBJ), & are a lot more likely to educate themselves on STDs & do self-exams & get tested far more regularly. I don't know any SPs who have gotten an STD from a client (not saying that they don't exist), but I know of tons of people outside the business who have contracted STDs from one-night-stands, relationships, many from even their first time ever having sex (though obviously not their partner's).

And FYI a typical SP is NOT doing 1200 guys a year, even if the busiest ones might see up to 30 guys in a week as you say, that would not translate to 1200 guys a year, as they are not all different guys! The majority of my clients are regulars so I am not seeing that many different men, actually just the same guys repeatedly, & I believe it's like that for most successful SPs. The bottom line, though, is more sex does not mean less safe, that is a fallacy.

Oh & as to the belief that it's not as easy for the guy to get HIV (as the woman) in hetero sex, so what? That doesn't mean there is no risk, & what about all the other STDs out there?
I totally agree.
 

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Read it for yourself from the US Centers for Disease Control:

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/pdf/oralsex.pdf

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/qa19.htm



Alright. You scared me.

I am still your GFE Pleasure, life isn't worth living without a few risks...

I mean what am I suposed to do when I want to lick or be licked by one of my darling gemfriends.....ugh better safe than sorry....sure does take a big part of the fun out of things...and I need fun;)

No more BBBJ for me....That risk I can do without.

and all this talk about herpes...yuck. I freaked myself out before...lol...ass pimples or ingrown hairs are not fun especially if you believe them to be gentital herpes!!!

:p

Your safe, sincerely sweet and sexy,
Danika.
Oh great, now we scared off Danika from offering BBBJ's
 

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Count me in as someone who couldnt help myself to it, It was in a AMP near Metrotown. Cant say who as you pervs will jump to her if I reveal the name or even the place. It was my 4th visit with her. I beg like a little kid and got what I wanted and she did the whole session BB, all of it.

Would I do it agiain. What do you think?
 

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Count me in as someone who couldnt help myself to it, It was in a AMP near Metrotown. Cant say who as you pervs will jump to her if I reveal the name or even the place. It was my 4th visit with her. I beg like a little kid and got what I wanted and she did the whole session BB, all of it.

Would I do it agiain. What do you think?
like living life on the edge eh?....
 

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:eek: :eek:

Like my daddy used to say " no glove, no love !! "

:cool: :cool:

Regards

H
 

mimi

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wrapping it up

I had a SO (B) who claimed he only had sex with two women in his life so he considered himself safe. He was 60. I actually knew the second woman and she was quite the office slut, so he really had sex with an unknown, unlimited amount of people as you have to take into consideration that if she's doing her slutty boss, who else was the boss doing? Needless to say I wrapped it up.

I govern my life with this motto:

If he ain't afraid of catching it, he already has it.
 

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Its the exact same with the chick a guy picks up at the bar! In fact, anyone who reads Perb would probably know a lot more about an SP he has chosen than some random bar star. I think the point about an SP being safer than a "bar star" or other stranger is because SPs are safer about sex, & in the extremely vast majority of situations it would be protected sex versus the unprotected one-night-stands we were talking about. Having sex with 10 people without a condom is far less safe than doing 100 with a condom. Plus SPs are way less likely to have unprotected sex, & take their sexual safety very seriously (a lot don't even offer things like BBBJ), & are a lot more likely to educate themselves on STDs & do self-exams & get tested far more regularly. I don't know any SPs who have gotten an STD from a client (not saying that they don't exist), but I know of tons of people outside the business who have contracted STDs from one-night-stands, relationships, many from even their first time ever having sex (though obviously not their partner's).

And FYI a typical SP is NOT doing 1200 guys a year, even if the busiest ones might see up to 30 guys in a week as you say, that would not translate to 1200 guys a year, as they are not all different guys! The majority of my clients are regulars so I am not seeing that many different men, actually just the same guys repeatedly, & I believe it's like that for most successful SPs. The bottom line, though, is more sex does not mean less safe, that is a fallacy.

Oh & as to the belief that it's not as easy for the guy to get HIV (as the woman) in hetero sex, so what? That doesn't mean there is no risk, & what about all the other STDs out there?
You've got excellent points :).

Unfortunately not all sp's are careful in their private lives :cool:.

I think its important for both parties to establish their "risk tolerance" & try to be true to that.
 
I have to admit bareback is the single greatest thrill/fantasy I have. Though, its usually the other way around. The girl I'm with, has bareback with someone else & then discloses it to me after-the-deed or just lets me fill-in-the-blanks as the evidence seeps out of her as we get into (Very Pregnancy Risk,) sloppy seconds / thirds.
 

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Just use condoms and get regular tests!!!!! If you are even thinking about BB without being tested and knowing the persons status, well you are walking on thin ice!

It is not even worth the issue of excitement. If it is for you.... go skydiving, or base jumping!!

As was mentioned on here earlier.... if you want it....BBFS.... you can find it, but you probably shouldn't be!

This is supposed to be a fun, sexy, reprieve from our lives, or part of them, not a game of russian roulette, or a frantic trip to the clinic....

Common sense peeps!

Scares me to see that there are people on here that have done this!

Even if a particular STD is treatable, Is it really worth getting for that moment of adreneline?
 

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Just use condoms and get regular tests!!!!! If you are even thinking about BB without being tested and knowing the persons status, well you are walking on thin ice!

It is not even worth the issue of excitement. If it is for you.... go skydiving, or base jumping!!

As was mentioned on here earlier.... if you want it....BBFS.... you can find it, but you probably shouldn't be!

This is supposed to be a fun, sexy, reprieve from our lives, or part of them, not a game of russian roulette, or a frantic trip to the clinic....

Common sense peeps!

Scares me to see that there are people on here that have done this!

Even if a particular STD is treatable, Is it really worth getting for that moment of adreneline?

I agree wholeheartedly, 100%
 
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