I know this is long, sorry
Just my 3 cents
I resent the statements that ALL SPs have done BBFS with a client, I have NEVER done that (& will never), & I really don't think that I'm an anomaly here.
Although it is possible, I guess, that BBFS is slightly more common in Vancouver, as I am from Victoria, because I have noticed it does seem to be more common in different locations. For example, in some countries the clients demand BB everything & an SP would get no business if she didn't comply, or perhaps the guys would just do it anyway, whether she consented or not. That is sad, but I have also noticed this happening in Canada, for example some SPs in Montreal even advertise this, or there are some places where terms such as "unlimited GFE" are code for BBFS. The motivation in that case is money, but I honestly don't think any amount of money is worth risking your life that senselessly.
The only solution to playing as safe as possible is to use your big head & USE A CONDOM AT ALL TIMES! It's that simple! You can never fully elimate your risk for all STD's, unless you are completley celibate, just as you can't elimate your risk from being hit by a bus. Nor is it any different when sleeping with someone who is not in the business. If anything SPs are far safer about sex than girls (& guys!) who aren't in the business, as our livelihood depends on it.
I have to admit that I have met or knew of a few ladies in the biz who did once or occassionally provide BBFS, & for those who are curious about the motivations behind doing that, in these cases it was, respectively:
1) she were so drunk or high at the time that she didn't realize what they were doing
2) she was naive & brand new to the business & didn't realize she could say no, or didn't know how to stand up for herself when the guy just put it in with no condom without asking
3) desperate for money & figured it was ok since if she'd met the guy at the bar they wouldn't be using a condom (yes apparently BBFS is quite common for one-night-stands outside the business)
4) this one must have had some mental issues, as she seemed to enjoy the risk, along with participating in risky behaviours in general, but the SP claimed her reason was because she was considerably older & less attractive she felt that this would bring her much more business, (which it did, as there are always plenty of guys looking for BB, in fact I frequently get asked for BBFS, probably about at least once a week, which has the opposite effect of what they intended, making me far less open-minded than I would normally be. When I ask them how they would feel if I actually said yes, wouldn't they think I must do that with everyone then, they say "I hope I would be special & you would only do it for me." Jeez, What are these guys thinking?)
Now I know saying I know of girls who have done BBFS seems to go against my assertion that the vast majority of SP's would never do BBFS, but these are very rare examples & even in these cases the SPs were by no means offering BB to everyone. The bottom line is use a condom. You are far far more likely to die in a car accident than to get a deadly disease from condom-protected sex.
Oh and one more thing... as to whether or not to post the SP's name, I agree with the poster's decision not to, as, in addition to the reasons posted already, he does not know whether she offers BBFS to anyone else, he has no proof of what happened & people might think he has an ulterior motive for making such a post, for example he could be seen as someone trying to hurt her business, even though she did offer him BBFS that doesn't mean she must have an STD or there's any proof that clients would be at any more risk seeing her than picking a random escort's name out of a hat. In my opinion in general it's probably just better to keep quiet on the name of the SP in this type of situation where things could easily get complicated or misinterpreted. Would clients like it if the girls posted the name of every client who offered them BBFS?