SP asked me to do her bareback!!! YIKES!

[wolverine]

As Auld Ball points out, any pooner that has been around long enough ( and is not unhygenic or butt fucken ugly ) would have had this offered up once or twice. You are entitled to your opinion but if you think BBFS is urban legend then you are mistaken.

I'm an average-looking guy with good hygiene who has been pooning for many years and I've never been offered a BBFS.

If indeed the SP's purpose is to spawn a child, she might be assessing his net worth for a paternity suit. Or if she's a foreigner, getting knocked up by a local can be a claim towards immigration or citizenship.

 

[sonoman]

if she's a foreigner, getting knocked up by a local can be a claim towards immigration or citizenship.

Bingo. I think you've nailed it. A paternity suit (against a total stranger and someone who likely paid in cash) would be difficult; getting status here would be a piece of cake.

 

[ihatemyskirt]

I don't get it. I consider myself to be the average dude. Every club / bar pick-up that I have ever had in my life ended with BB intercourse. Most if not all of these bar stars are banging a different guy every Friday and Saturday night and pretty much every guy I know has no problem with it. But when it comes to an SP doing BBFS with a select client(s), she is talked about as if she is some pariah. Why ?

Because she should not be offerring this service and probably is only because she is desperate to exit her current sitch and is uneducated about how dirty some people are. Can't stand one night standers who don't go out with a fistfull of safes, duh stupid fuckers. That to me means they don't wanna get laid-how boring would a night like that be>?lol

 

[ShqTth]

You know what some asian girls prefer asian guys.

And if she is going back to her country, then that was her last shot.


And taking that she is an SP, she probably know that chances she is going to get a man is slim.

Now she has money from all the work done, what is wrong with the idea that she might want to have a family (helf family) knowing she isn't going to get a husband becuase of her work etc.

It is possible too.


Now, some SPs offer BBS for more money or to get more buisness, or they are fucked in the head.

Usually that is offered a head of time to lure you in etc. But the fact she asked u, there must of been a good reason about it.

Becuase the SPs that so BBFS that are retarted, usually don't care even to ask....

So, i take it, yes she wants a baby, and no she isnt fucked in the head, she is just going about her goal the wrong way....

Maybe she has the impression all guys just want her body etc, and doesn't know how to have a proper relationship, or have the skills to do so.




think about it. Her circle of people she knows and is comforable around is probably small, and they probably know about her work... so no chance she will get what she want from there. So her only chance is to meet someone threw her work. (She always working like crazy, so chances are she doesn't know how to meet someone outside, and it would be hard to meet someone then disapear on then for days and keep such a big secret)...

Also in the wild she is more vulnerable, she has to have friend with her to protect her, but her work is a controlled invironment, where she is safe....

So I can see why someone in her situation would choose this option although it not beeing the best..

She is more secure with her job, and unsecure about meeting people outside her job....

Thats what bad jobs do to girls...

thats why they are not good, they have a tendency to twist peoples thinking...

I know from experience as my xgf was a cam girl, and man she got twisted..

 

[ShqTth]

One other thing, if a girl wants a baby she isn't going to do it with every guy on the block, she is going to pick guys she wants a baby from.

In the end, who really wants an ugly baby/child?


So cut that 20-30ppl a day, to maybe a few a day if that. (that she might be interested in, and maybe only a smaller percent of that she might ask)

Still risky, but as bad as it might seem,

If an SP offers BBFS over the phone or before a session starts, or trys to sneek one in, she is very high risk... (more money, who cares for life attiitude)..


But if in this case she is taking a smaller risk to make up for the fact she doesn't know how to go threw the proper methods to achieve her goal.




Isn't it sad when someone is taking a big rick in life just to reach their goal?


Not every relationship has STD tests done first either before they start to have more risky sex. Which in these days is risky.


Now I guess its kind of hard these days to be cautions and have a baby in a hurry.

If a girl in the bar asked u to get STD tests as she wants your baby, you would probably run away, as usually a relationship has to develope to a point where STD tests happen, and that sometimes can take a long time, also not every relationship progessed to the poing where a baby happens. So for someone withouth a lot of time thats not an option. So risky behavior is the only option if time is of the essence.


Funny thing is that sometimes doing your job can give you fake confidence as thats your job and you are use to it. but to venture out of what you are use to can be a big struggle.. people can get stuck, and then make stupid choices just to help break free...


She can suck you, she can fuck you, but she is too shy to ask for your number...hehe

 

[ShqTth]

Always say no to BBFS.

And I recommending not doing BBBJ as that is really risky too..


Always put on your own condom.. And when taking it off use something like a towel...THis way you can be sure the SP doesn't pull a fast one on you or that you forget.

Now the problem of doing anything BB is that now you got stress and you will always feel something is wrong and something will go wrong... So, dispite STDs, there can be an emotional impact on your life for doing something stupid. And stress is hard of life. It tends to make diseases woarse or something can cause other complications (ex hair loss, weight loss, wight gain, blood pressure, heart disease etc). So playing safe is stress free.



problem with getting BBBJ first is that you might forget to get one on, or she might forget, or you and her can get caught up in the moment.
So if you put on your shield a head of time then you prevent that from happening.


an HPV is easy to get from .... juices. So be careful about that.

And you can get ngu etc and other bacteria from the mouth like the STD that starts with letter Clamidia (spelling sucks)... And STDs can be transfered by the mouth etc..Heck you cn even get Clamidia in the eye causing pink eye.
So don't think the dick is the only place where you can get stds. How would you like the ida of getting an STD and then spreading it somewhere else, or to someone else by mistake?

A dripping dick isn't fun, and it isn't fun when it burns to pee.

Its why I would never kiss an SP.


Man I wonder why there is so many things in life against us, preventing us from enjoing something good..


To recap:
So, if n SP offers you bareback anything, No No No, dont risk it...

If she is interested in you, well we are all human, and so is she, well there is ways proper ways to do things without risking life.. Just don't be an a-hole, as treat her with respect and be open (but don't put your self in damer, so think with yout #1 mind and not the #2 smaller one)

Dating an x-sp might be an nightmare though, you only have to test her for the next 6months to 2 years, but then again, it might be fun, as she might be the one for you that retires your pooning career with an happy ending


and for the BBFS lurkers out there.
So if you got an STD, ya its bad, but why risk getting a complete set?

Sure some STDs do make a lot of complications, but do you really want to add another pain to the game?

Ya its sick people out there want to spread shit..





Revealing a providers details can be very bad, as now all the bad pooners with Mr drippy will be comming her way. So ya it keeps us safe knowing whos been naughty, but it puts whos been naught into a biger bind w/ Mr drippy.. and mistakes and shit happens and now it will cost her life. So conerning this, I really don't know what to say, if you think she is a risk and don't want to tell anyone, then flag her add on CL etc or something to protect others.

 

[mick_eight]

Always say no to BBFS.

And I recommending not doing BBBJ as that is really risky too..


Always put on your own condom.. And when taking it off use something like a towel...THis way you can be sure the SP doesn't pull a fast one on you or that you forget.

Now the problem of doing anything BB is that now you got stress and you will always feel something is wrong and something will go wrong... So, dispite STDs, there can be an emotional impact on your life for doing something stupid. And stress is hard of life. It tends to make diseases woarse or something can cause other complications (ex hair loss, weight loss, wight gain, blood pressure, heart disease etc). So playing safe is stress free.



problem with getting BBBJ first is that you might forget to get one on, or she might forget, or you and her can get caught up in the moment.
So if you put on your shield a head of time then you prevent that from happening.


an HPV is easy to get from .... juices. So be careful about that.

And you can get ngu etc and other bacteria from the mouth like the STD that starts with letter Clamidia (spelling sucks)... And STDs can be transfered by the mouth etc..Heck you cn even get Clamidia in the eye causing pink eye.
So don't think the dick is the only place where you can get stds. How would you like the ida of getting an STD and then spreading it somewhere else, or to someone else by mistake?

A dripping dick isn't fun, and it isn't fun when it burns to pee.

Its why I would never kiss an SP.


Man I wonder why there is so many things in life against us, preventing us from enjoing something good..


To recap:
So, if n SP offers you bareback anything, No No No, dont risk it...

If she is interested in you, well we are all human, and so is she, well there is ways proper ways to do things without risking life.. Just don't be an a-hole, as treat her with respect and be open (but don't put your self in damer, so think with yout #1 mind and not the #2 smaller one)

Dating an x-sp might be an nightmare though, you only have to test her for the next 6months to 2 years, but then again, it might be fun, as she might be the one for you that retires your pooning career with an happy ending


and for the BBFS lurkers out there.
So if you got an STD, ya its bad, but why risk getting a complete set?

Sure some STDs do make a lot of complications, but do you really want to add another pain to the game?

Ya its sick people out there want to spread shit..





Revealing a providers details can be very bad, as now all the bad pooners with Mr drippy will be comming her way. So ya it keeps us safe knowing whos been naughty, but it puts whos been naught into a biger bind w/ Mr drippy.. and mistakes and shit happens and now it will cost her life. So conerning this, I really don't know what to say, if you think she is a risk and don't want to tell anyone, then flag her add on CL etc or something to protect others.

Hay this is Saturday. Sunday is for preaching. Try sunday school where you can talk all day to little kids and spread your gospel,We're all adults here and can make up our own minds.

 

[wolverine]

It's amazing how someone can make 3 consecutive lengthy posts that veers wildly in this direction and that direction without really making a point. It's like the literary equivalent of watching a circus on a runaway train.

 

[ShqTth]

Actually i was just analyzing the sp as why she would engage in such risky behavior.


And just pointing out that she might be in a situation where that is the only way she can meet people. I was just pointing out why.


I added the last paragraph so you know i don't condone her actions.... i was thinking of just removing the last post.


But I had a little bit of a scare in my life in December. So i was just talking from experience. and I had a hell of a time for many months after wards even though i am fine. But the possibiliy that something might of happened in too much.


didn't mean to rant on

 

[Danika]

First off I have to say...I do not offer BBFS to ANYONE!

Not even in my personal life!!!

I do understand that I take a few risks by offering DATY and BBBJ...

But I figure there are risks for every job...and from what I have read, I understand the risks for DATY and BBBJ do not include death (HIV) Only curable situations that I have been lucky enough not to encounter.

knock on wood.

I DO think it is important to name this sp that offers BBFS, as this could save more that one persons future!!!!

Who knows why she does it...and personally who cares...some one should make an effort to stop her!

I might be way out of line here...but I think by sharing my experience with a certain someone might help out other girls that want to avoid the same situation....

so it was about a year ago and I answered the door to a very very sexy man. He seemed to know all the right buttons to press... I felt like we had a real connection....some how I let him enter me with out a condom, felt good for a couple pumps until the thought of how many other sp's he has paid and done the same kicked in.

A long while later He called and was like you remember me right, blah blah blah, please can we do bbfs ?

I said no, explained that somehow he was so smooth and caught me off guard and that it would NEVER happen again, and I hung up on him.

Then he just called me the other day to see me again....he ended up cancelling but I knew I had become a lot stronger since his last attempt.

BBFS is not acceptable....unless you are married and gonna make babies!!!!!

So yeah if any sp's want to know this guys info to save yourself the hassle feel free to pm me.

I'm sure he's not the only guy who asks for bbfs from an sp out there...
YUCK.

Another topic sort of.....A girl I used to live with and was my best friend for quite a few years..would go to the bars faithfully every weekend, pick up a new guy, do everything and anything, then take the morning after pill...and tell me how she was so drunk and hopes he calls her agian....
WTF?! And then she has the nerve to throw away years of friendship because she thinks being an sp is unacceptable?!!!

I told her she has slept with just as many guys as I have...LOL only I get paid, and I'm safe about things.

LOL I can fall in love, have great sex...but I know guys like variety so keep it wrapped up ladies!!!!

xoxoxox
Dirty Danika

 

[Maury Beniowski]

It happens a hell of a lot more than most people think. Mainland China girls will do it with very little prodding. Not because the guys are asking for it - although that can have a bearing on it - but because many of these girls come from places where condoms are non-existent, and men would never think of doing it with one. China is really not all that well developed; its rural population still hovers at about 80%. We only are exposed to their economic engines like Shanghai in our media. The size of their economy just passed Canada's a few years back, and we're talking a population base that is fifty times greater.

 

[DOUBLE_L7]

I been asked once and it was by a ASP. I declined and was not able to finish. I also had a scare with an other girl. She failed to fully roll on the condom and it slipped off. Neither of us noticed until I pulled out. I was freaked out for months. Tests came back clean(thank God). BTW DANIKA there is still a risk of HIV and aids from bbbj's and daty. It is low but there is always a chance when fluids are exchanged.

 

[Lovely_Suk]

yikes bbfs

thats scarey...

 

[ShqTth]

I got bacteria that caused problems from a bbbj.

and it wasn't detectable from tests, so I got the doctor to give me a docycyllin to kill it off.

Basically I wasn't able to play for 2-3 months until it cleared.


There is shit that isn't detectable.
Or shit that isn't known and is not tested for.

So thats why I say ricky.

my little problem caused sensitivity issues (skin was very sensitive and easy to hurt and scratch etc), also made it feel like it wasn't mine.. and it felt like i was kicked in the nuts. Not only that I was scared to touch the dam thing or look at it? I think me and Mr got a devorce.... Very hard on pride and very depressing.

So that bacteria came from someone mouth. And the question is, how the hell did that bacteria get in her mouth the first place...

Its a big blow to your pride when there is something wrong with little Mr. And explaining it is hard, say if you pick up a girl and you were in a position to do man buisness, well? now that once in a life time event could of happened but it was put off do to very personel problems that would be hard to explain and could lead to being dumped... very akward etc.

It is funny it take a harsh event like that to get someone to smart'n up.
And yet all the writings were available. We are adults but yet we can make poor choices. If i was 'properly' grown up that would of never happened.

The mouth isn't so clean of a place. And can be a breading ground for bad bacteria / STDs if exposed to.


A lot of 3rd world countries don't use condoms like it against their religion or something.
And other countries never got smart about it.

I am not sure about China, but since they have a large population and birth rate, I don't think birth control is on top of the list.

There was a website I seen that listed escourts in china, and it was a very very very big site. How I found out, is those micros always post fake pictures, and I saw the heading on the pic, so I went to the site. Oviously they stole the pic from the site. But i was amazed how many of ppl over there are independent SPs.

About the no condom issue, I know a lot of girls from the philippines, and they have a lot of babies, all from different guys, just becuase of no protection or they were lured in doing it to try to get a guy desperatly. They continue working their way and send the kids home to mom to look after them. And these girls may be leading on 2 or more guys at the time and no one knows about the kids/babies or will find out. So now all those guys at risk. I have seen similar behavior in Dominican Republic, except in DR the girls more or less look after their own kids and large families seems more excepted.

STds are not going to get under control unless everyone from every country pratices safe sex. Since today we live in a global economy, and in a multicultural society, we are at risk as people mingle with other people that are from other countries that may/or may not come from a society that has different sex pratices. So the best we can do is take no chances. Sad its come to this... Long since the days were Pregnancy was the only blessing that came from sex.



Sorry for the long rant. Just a fast typer and I guess i think too much..

 

[ShqTth]

> BBFS is not acceptable....unless you are married and gonna make babies!!!!!


ya i agree.


My friend and his gf thought it was cool to do it unprotected and relied on something called the sponge.. (ok gross concept)

Long story short, a baby came unexpected.

Now hes stuck with her. And she is not one i view that is mother material or sole mate material. And shes from another province so that makes thing hard.

Its better safe then sorry. And what can go wrong will go wrong. Life has a wierd way of being a bitch. So its best to do it 'unprotected' when your serious with someone and having a baby is what you want or something that you wont regret if it happens.

ok ok my long story short was a tad longer then short.

 

[mick_eight]

Eight posts in a year and 6 of them preaching. I think its time for you to try and find the rock you crawled out of under and go back there. Enough is enough. If I needed another Mom, you wouldn't be it.

 

[leelee]

Everyone is allowed an opinion....

Eight posts in a year and 6 of them preaching. I think its time for you to try and find the rock you crawled out of under and go back there. Enough is enough. If I needed another Mom, you wouldn't be it.

Mick_eight...you need to relax....

The risks associated with bbbj and bbfs should be discussed so that no one forgets the implications for making even one exception.

If a well-known sp can momentarily forget the importance of safety then how many other girls may forget as well? The discussion of basic safety should never be considered preaching...it is common sense. Unfortunately, some people can forget their common sense when they are in the moment:

I might be way out of line here...but I think by sharing my experience with a certain someone might help out other girls that want to avoid the same situation....

so it was about a year ago and I answered the door to a very very sexy man. He seemed to know all the right buttons to press... I felt like we had a real connection....some how I let him enter me with out a condom, felt good for a couple pumps until the thought of how many other sp's he has paid and done the same kicked in.

 

[turquine]

BTW DANIKA there is still a risk of HIV and aids from bbbj's and daty. It is low but there is always a chance when fluids are exchanged.

No No No NO NO!! This is misleading. There have been NO incidents (in all of the millions of test subjects) where DATY has transmitted HIV. There <I>might</I> have been one that transmitted HIV during BBBJ, but that one's in contention because it falls in the margin of error.

The fact is, HIV is a difficult virus to transmit. Unprotected vaginal sex incurs a 1 in 2000 chance of transmitting HIV to the man if the woman is HIV+, and about 1 in 1000 the other way around. Doing it up the poop chute increases the chance of transmission considerably, to around 1 in 200 from receiver to penetrator, or 1 in 75 the other way around. If you don't believe me, go look at <A HREF="http://www.medhelp.org/forums/show/117">the work done here</A> by some HIV researchers in the U.S. (Read the questions and their answers for the info on HIV risk.)

If you use a condom, and you use it properly, you will be SAFE. Even if your condom tears during vaginal sex, the odds of you catching HIV are so low it's much more likely you'll be struck by lightning. HIV has been surrounded by so much misinformation since its appearance that vanishingly few people aside from health workers seem to understand the real risks.

Despite this, you should always use a condom anyway. It's much more likely you'll contract an STD like syphillis or chlamydia or the dreaded HPV (Human Papillomavirus), aka Gential Warts. None of those are fun, and syphillis, if left untreated, can even kill.

 

[MissingOne]

But I figure there are risks for every job...and from what I have read, I understand the risks for DATY and BBBJ do not include death (HIV) Only curable situations that I have been lucky enough not to encounter.

knock on wood.

From what I understand, herpes can be transmitted by bbbj, and so far as I know it is not curable. I think there may be drugs that minimize or control the outbreaks, but once you get it, you're stuck with it.

 

[turquine]

To answer the PMs I got on this publically:

No, I am not a health care worker. I'm merely relating what I've learned from reading and study. If you want answers directly from an authority, go to the link I posted above to the HIV researchers and ask them yourself.

You need to understand the risks you are taking when you poon, and wearing a condom is a practice that will, according to the professionals, reduce your risk until it is vanishingly small.