Lefty said:
I'd love to go to a perb party but have always been concerned about running into someone I know "in the real world".
Understandable, but look at it this way... if you were to run into someone at the party who you knew from "the real world", what's the worst that can happen?... you're BOTH in the same situation... you BOTH have "dirt" on the other person (if that's how you want to look at it). Most likely, the two of you would share a few laughs and compare notes about who you've seen. And if the person is fairly cool about it, it'll probably be a really good thing you found out (as has happened to me... more than once).
If the person just happens to be at the same place at the same time, well then you have options:
- you were there by chance as well and saw this group having a great party and wanted to join the fun.
- you make up some other credible story
- you tell the truth
Its not like when we have a party in public we run around half naked.... well.. ok, there was that
one time

... screaming PERB RULES! or HEY... WE'VE GOT HOOKERS OVER HERE!... Yeah, we have fun... Yeah we get noisy... but the important thing is we have a blast and enjoy everyone's company... and for the most part, people
understand the idea of a certain amount of discretion because
they usually don't want to be "outed" either.Besides... one of the reasons we have these things usually at strip clubs is because there's usually something - or someone - more interesting on stage to keep the civillian's at bay..
Lefty said:
A place like the Drake would be good as I could check out if there was anyone I didn't want to see before joining the crowd.
True, but that theory only holds water until Lisa Gigglez shows up and starts asking
everyone in the place if they're a Perbert...
Verb said:
I say get a huge suite at Pan Pacific and everyone pay a cover for the booze and strippers. We will have the option on takking a SP to the next room for a special fee.....

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Sounds great... so are you gonna run around, pre-pay the suite, get all the booze, snacks and music (can't forget the music

) lined up and paid for, and then confirm with all the ladies and strippers (who generally charge around $200 to $300 - paid in cash, upfront, of course - for a 20 minute set with
maybe a lapdance thrown in) that may or may not want to attend and also try to negotiate your "special rate", pay for the separate "Fun Room" if needed and
then try and track down all the guys who
say they're going to attend and try to collect the door fee off (which at this point could be as much as $200 or more
per guy) them before the event happens so that you're not left with a HUGE bill on your hads and no one at your party....?
Think I'm exaggerating?
SWG