Not sure if this is the appropriate place to post this, but this is something I have wanted to know for a while. I tried searching the site for "Social Date", "Social", and "Social Dates" and had no results, so I decided to post it here. Sorry if this has already been answered.
The one thing that has always perplexed me in regards to the ads in the section regarding the social dates. I'm getting to the point now where after following many of Vancouver's SW's on twitter I'm starting to develop interest in them that is away from the services of sex (crazy I know). I do have some social date ideas that I want to try with some ladies, but I am very confused about what social dates would involve and how rigid the rules are. I'm hoping some SP's on here can help turn my head straight in regards to this. I'll post my main questions/concerns and see what answers I can get.
+ Expenses: This is my biggest question. Many of the ads for SP's say their hourly rate with the caveat of "+expenses". This has always concerned me, because I have a big fear that, for example, I will book a social date to a club with a SP, say like $200/2h but she ends up buying top shelf alcohol and other things, and then all of a sudden a $200 date balloons into $1000! My question here is, what is the proper etiquette in the +expenses category? To make this easy, I'll list out 3 options from the example I have used here and leave it to the audience to tell me which is the most acceptable.
Option 1: +expenses is +expenses idiot! What the lady wants the lady gets!
Option 2: You are responsible for the social date rate, the cover fee for the club, and possible transportation costs. Other than that, any other purchases of drinks and food are to be paid by the SP, or by you at your discretion.
Option 3: Everything from Option 2, but it would be considered acceptable for you to set a limit as to how much your SP can buy in the booking stage. For example, if her social rate is $100/h and you pay her $20 cover, you can say to her that she can buy anything she wants up to $80 as long as it is within the date time. Anything purchases after that limit is reached will have to be paid by her.
Social Rate Time: When it comes to paying for sex, the ads are pretty straight forward. A set price for every hour. Sometimes there is some fluctuation with the time, like she may give more time to adjust for the shower or any gifts given that cut into the sex time, but most of the time, it's rigidly kept. However, social dates can be different. Certain events may not have certain set times, like a trip to an amusement park, or a trip to an art gallery. My question here is, if I were to say come up with an itinerary of a day I would like to spend with an SP, can I send that itinerary and get a rate for that, or will this be viewed as negotiating, and get me permanently blocked? Also, let's say I go to a movie with an SP, and the movie is 90 minutes long. Does that mean I would have to pay for a 2 hour date or one, and if it is a two, do I still get control of the last half hour?
Negotiating: Speaking of negotiating, is negotiating for a social date still just as frowned upon as negotiating for the sex rate? I feel this is a grey area because of how varied the date could be in terms of time.
Experience: For anyone who has gone on a strictly social date with an SP, what is the experience like? Is it like a girlfriend experience, where she will be kissing, and touching you throughout the date, or is this more like 2 friends going out on the town?
For anyone who thinks I am coming off a little cheap asking this, the answer is yes! I work 2 jobs and go to school. I don't make enough money to do this multiple times a week. Having a $1000 bill would be disastrous for me. If any SP's are offended by me asking this, I am asking it here so that I don't risk offending you by text. I am eager to learn about all this and I would rather learn before I try to book a social date and not on the fly.
The one thing that has always perplexed me in regards to the ads in the section regarding the social dates. I'm getting to the point now where after following many of Vancouver's SW's on twitter I'm starting to develop interest in them that is away from the services of sex (crazy I know). I do have some social date ideas that I want to try with some ladies, but I am very confused about what social dates would involve and how rigid the rules are. I'm hoping some SP's on here can help turn my head straight in regards to this. I'll post my main questions/concerns and see what answers I can get.
+ Expenses: This is my biggest question. Many of the ads for SP's say their hourly rate with the caveat of "+expenses". This has always concerned me, because I have a big fear that, for example, I will book a social date to a club with a SP, say like $200/2h but she ends up buying top shelf alcohol and other things, and then all of a sudden a $200 date balloons into $1000! My question here is, what is the proper etiquette in the +expenses category? To make this easy, I'll list out 3 options from the example I have used here and leave it to the audience to tell me which is the most acceptable.
Option 1: +expenses is +expenses idiot! What the lady wants the lady gets!
Option 2: You are responsible for the social date rate, the cover fee for the club, and possible transportation costs. Other than that, any other purchases of drinks and food are to be paid by the SP, or by you at your discretion.
Option 3: Everything from Option 2, but it would be considered acceptable for you to set a limit as to how much your SP can buy in the booking stage. For example, if her social rate is $100/h and you pay her $20 cover, you can say to her that she can buy anything she wants up to $80 as long as it is within the date time. Anything purchases after that limit is reached will have to be paid by her.
Social Rate Time: When it comes to paying for sex, the ads are pretty straight forward. A set price for every hour. Sometimes there is some fluctuation with the time, like she may give more time to adjust for the shower or any gifts given that cut into the sex time, but most of the time, it's rigidly kept. However, social dates can be different. Certain events may not have certain set times, like a trip to an amusement park, or a trip to an art gallery. My question here is, if I were to say come up with an itinerary of a day I would like to spend with an SP, can I send that itinerary and get a rate for that, or will this be viewed as negotiating, and get me permanently blocked? Also, let's say I go to a movie with an SP, and the movie is 90 minutes long. Does that mean I would have to pay for a 2 hour date or one, and if it is a two, do I still get control of the last half hour?
Negotiating: Speaking of negotiating, is negotiating for a social date still just as frowned upon as negotiating for the sex rate? I feel this is a grey area because of how varied the date could be in terms of time.
Experience: For anyone who has gone on a strictly social date with an SP, what is the experience like? Is it like a girlfriend experience, where she will be kissing, and touching you throughout the date, or is this more like 2 friends going out on the town?
For anyone who thinks I am coming off a little cheap asking this, the answer is yes! I work 2 jobs and go to school. I don't make enough money to do this multiple times a week. Having a $1000 bill would be disastrous for me. If any SP's are offended by me asking this, I am asking it here so that I don't risk offending you by text. I am eager to learn about all this and I would rather learn before I try to book a social date and not on the fly.
She might still be cheaper on CU. I market my services on several different platforms, and charge different hourly rates based on my competition on those different platforms.
