So, why exactly are you into the world of escort service?
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For a moment in time, the fantasy that a beautiful lady (not necessarily purely physical) loves us, cares for us and we can reciprocate that... as well as being an arena that we can explore various aspects of our sexuality in a playful and safe environment. Sometimes it is just about the human touch, the feeling of a naked body against yours... being wanted and lusted over... attempting to fill a gap in our lives.
We all want to be loved, whatever and however that means to us. And this is a way to create that fantasy... or maybe occasionally, that reality (Catherine James and Dickson, for instance).
We all want to be loved, whatever and however that means to us. And this is a way to create that fantasy... or maybe occasionally, that reality (Catherine James and Dickson, for instance).
Sometimes for emotional fulfillment.
Sometimes for physical satisfaction.
Sometimes for visual enjoyment.
Sometimes for a little bit of pampering.
Sometimes a little bit of each or a combination of.
Sometimes for physical satisfaction.
Sometimes for visual enjoyment.
Sometimes for a little bit of pampering.
Sometimes a little bit of each or a combination of.
Good question. For me, in brief point form....
1) Physical Attraction -- meaning --- A great way to play with ladies with hot bods who are highly skilled at their craft
2) Enjoy being single ( Bachelor life )
3) Don't have to deal with Drama and stress that goes with relationships.
4) Fun fantasy play scenario's with SP's that vanilla girls wouldn't be into.
5) Come and go and you please in general life without having to explain where you are going and when you are coming back. I guess, this would be similar to " the single life "
1) Physical Attraction -- meaning --- A great way to play with ladies with hot bods who are highly skilled at their craft
2) Enjoy being single ( Bachelor life )
3) Don't have to deal with Drama and stress that goes with relationships.
4) Fun fantasy play scenario's with SP's that vanilla girls wouldn't be into.
5) Come and go and you please in general life without having to explain where you are going and when you are coming back. I guess, this would be similar to " the single life "
Honestly...
...I would like to find a life partner. Yet I find that the value systems, goals and sense of entitlement that most women in this city possess do not match well with my value systems (ie. Most think that they possess some kind of golden pussy that should be worshipped), and therefore I have no desire to waste my time and effort chasing it down.
I do not find that women in other cities are like those here...it seems to be a Vancouver thing.
Thus since I live here I poon to have companionship needs met. Far easier to go out and earn a few hundred dollars than to go out and chase the crap here and deal with the drama and bullshit.
...I would like to find a life partner. Yet I find that the value systems, goals and sense of entitlement that most women in this city possess do not match well with my value systems (ie. Most think that they possess some kind of golden pussy that should be worshipped), and therefore I have no desire to waste my time and effort chasing it down.
I do not find that women in other cities are like those here...it seems to be a Vancouver thing.
Thus since I live here I poon to have companionship needs met. Far easier to go out and earn a few hundred dollars than to go out and chase the crap here and deal with the drama and bullshit.
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It is an escape... from reality.
I am married and very few married people open up sexually to their partners. There is this fear of being judged. This may sound sexist but after a few years of marriage, jobs and having given birth to kids, wives' bodies ......... lose that physical attraction. They themselves feel insecure. The stress of modern day life plays a huge part in it.
Men, by nature want more sex. Their minds at least want and crave for it all the time. Going to an escort provides them what they would probably never find at home: A beautiful, sexy, (many a times younger), in shape and semi naked woman who is willing to play along with their fantasies. For an hour I am trying to fulfill my fantasies that I was never able to share with my wife. Also, this woman that I see is not going to bore and nag me with her work place stories, complaints about kids and whining about my family.
Also, there is the thrill of meeting someone new. Someone who is prettier, hotter, sexier and many a times younger. From exploring websites, choosing who to see next, texting, setting up time, the anticipation, the meeting ... all the way to the final kiss.... give you the thrill for an hour that you couldn't get at home. It is a paid date, a ride, an action movie and you dont have to worry about any consequences.
A big part of it is mental and emotional. Rest is sexual and physical.
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I am married and very few married people open up sexually to their partners. There is this fear of being judged. This may sound sexist but after a few years of marriage, jobs and having given birth to kids, wives' bodies ......... lose that physical attraction. They themselves feel insecure. The stress of modern day life plays a huge part in it.
Men, by nature want more sex. Their minds at least want and crave for it all the time. Going to an escort provides them what they would probably never find at home: A beautiful, sexy, (many a times younger), in shape and semi naked woman who is willing to play along with their fantasies. For an hour I am trying to fulfill my fantasies that I was never able to share with my wife. Also, this woman that I see is not going to bore and nag me with her work place stories, complaints about kids and whining about my family.
Also, there is the thrill of meeting someone new. Someone who is prettier, hotter, sexier and many a times younger. From exploring websites, choosing who to see next, texting, setting up time, the anticipation, the meeting ... all the way to the final kiss.... give you the thrill for an hour that you couldn't get at home. It is a paid date, a ride, an action movie and you dont have to worry about any consequences.
A big part of it is mental and emotional. Rest is sexual and physical.
T8E
luv 2 lick pussy you always make so much sense. Clearly a very wise man. I need to change my handle to 'luv 2 lick pussy 2' cause I deeply do!Good question. For me, in brief point form....
1) Physical Attraction -- meaning --- A great way to play with ladies with hot bods who are highly skilled at their craft
2) Enjoy being single ( Bachelor life )
3) Don't have to deal with Drama and stress that goes with relationships.
4) Fun fantasy play scenario's with SP's that vanilla girls wouldn't be into.
5) Come and go and you please in general life without having to explain where you are going and when you are coming back. I guess, this would be similar to " the single life "
No. 4 way above everything else. I have a best friend with benefits but have never found the nerve to ask her to bend me over her knee and spank me till I yell 'uncle'. Though she does seem to enjoy the foot massages that get longer and longer each time, so there may be hope...
I enjoy the company of intelligent, hot sexy women who enjoy my company.
They are all badbadgirls in my book :nod:
They are all badbadgirls in my book :nod:
Why do people go to Disney Land?
I go to live out my fantasy. To have what I don't have in my real life. To make myself feel good.
It is not about the sex but the experience.
I want to feel loved, wanted, desired, I want to feel like a real person. I want to know I have value, I am worthy.
I have all that in my professional life but not in my personal like. So the hobby fills that hole. At least for me.
I go to live out my fantasy. To have what I don't have in my real life. To make myself feel good.
It is not about the sex but the experience.
I want to feel loved, wanted, desired, I want to feel like a real person. I want to know I have value, I am worthy.
I have all that in my professional life but not in my personal like. So the hobby fills that hole. At least for me.
Because I can't find the ONE, it might be all man made kind of fable. Someone to steal you heart and all the lust you have so you don't want to touch another.
For example, how can any man divorce Miranda Kerr? Is the guy insane? If a girl like that can't make a guy happy why is there hope for us average joes.
Its can be very depressing, its seems like those of us single are in another planet compared to couples, can't crack into their secret world.
For example, how can any man divorce Miranda Kerr? Is the guy insane? If a girl like that can't make a guy happy why is there hope for us average joes.
Its can be very depressing, its seems like those of us single are in another planet compared to couples, can't crack into their secret world.
One of the reasons why I turned to escorts is for social interaction. Not easy being isolated in a big city. I find it therapeutic and intriguing to be close and personal with a naked woman.
This is an interesting viewpoint. I read in China in the big cities wealthy people buy dogs for company. Young and Old. confused about this, China's big cities are filled with people day and night, streets are not empty at night like here and yet still lack of social interaction. Perhaps cities are more lonely than small towns? I've never lived in a small town. NYC and HK is where I am from.
Ye's for all the reason mentioned above.
And it the only way I found to over come my loner Lonelyness. . It had helped me social ineptness. .and allowed me to interact with others .in a more open .way .. When talking about sex.. Our bodies..and intimacy. .
So I needed it for thearopy but I need more thearopy I find going with out spending time have sex. Takes me back to the shy introvert. .that I feel safe in being ..No good
And it the only way I found to over come my loner Lonelyness. . It had helped me social ineptness. .and allowed me to interact with others .in a more open .way .. When talking about sex.. Our bodies..and intimacy. .
So I needed it for thearopy but I need more thearopy I find going with out spending time have sex. Takes me back to the shy introvert. .that I feel safe in being ..No good
Mostly because I've become jaded with the whole monogamy thing. Civilian girls at least the ones I've met have a sense of entitlement, I call it "got daddy wrapped around my finger" syndrome. It's so much easier to throw down a couple browns, do my business and not have to worry about birthdays, anniversaries and all the expectations that go along with that. Charlie Sheen said it best, I don't pay these women to have sex with me, I pay them to leave. Yes this is a very jaded outlook on relationships, but I'm nearly 50 years old now and am just tired of the games.
Don't get me wrong, as I'm sure that there are just as many if not more mama's boys out there as there are daddy's girls. And I was very lucky back in the early 90's to have found a truly wonderful woman who I had 9 terrific years with, unfortunately, she lost her battle with cancer in 2001. So the girl of your dreams is out there. Just cherish every moment that you're together because life can change in an instant.
Don't get me wrong, as I'm sure that there are just as many if not more mama's boys out there as there are daddy's girls. And I was very lucky back in the early 90's to have found a truly wonderful woman who I had 9 terrific years with, unfortunately, she lost her battle with cancer in 2001. So the girl of your dreams is out there. Just cherish every moment that you're together because life can change in an instant.
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