so what is your pet peeve related to this hobby
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That's why there is only ONE Blazejowski...A lot of things in this thread aren't really pet peeves per se. I think a pet peeve is supposed to be a little thing that annoys you more than it should - but probably doesn't annoy other people as much. So smelly vaginas and condom breath and fake pics aren't really pet peeves, cause NOBODY likes those things!
Some people might know (from reading my website or meeting me) that my pet peeve is people who arrive early. I've never really heard other girls complain about it, that's why I assume it's my own pet peeve. I can't explain why it bothers me so much; it just throws me off my game if a client arrives and I'm still running around half-dressed, trying to brush my teeth. I know I know...if it bothers me so much, I should just be ready and waiting 10 minutes early, but that's not always easy!
Another one for me is guys who use TEN DIFFERENT NAMES when booking an appointment.
Say I get an email from dave_2000@email.com, but the outgoing name (the name that shows up in the inbox) is Rob. Then he signs the email "Sincerely, Steve". THEN when he replies to my email he does it from his smartphone, which has "Mike" as the outgoing name. THEN when he calls to confirm he says "Hey this is John, calling about tonight!" and I'm like "WHO??" Ha ha. Seriously though, I have actually cancelled appointments because of this issue (Because of the confusion, I thought I had doubled-booked my evening!) LOL
Sticking to peeves, then, mine would have to be the response to bringing a bottle of wine as a gift (above and beyond any agreed upon donation), only to be confronted with "i'm sorry, I only drink pre 2004 merlot from napa". Seriously? I might as well have showed up with a half-empty mason jar of pickle juice and asked her to pucker up.
ok... in hindsight, that might fall into a bit more than just a peeve... apparently i'm still sore over it.
Peeve: ladies that claim "romantic lighting for the mood" when it is dark enough that I couldn't tell if you were you - or if you were your mom... or your dad for that matter. honestly, turn on a light - i've already paid and i'm likely there to stay!
ok... in hindsight, that might fall into a bit more than just a peeve... apparently i'm still sore over it.
Peeve: ladies that claim "romantic lighting for the mood" when it is dark enough that I couldn't tell if you were you - or if you were your mom... or your dad for that matter. honestly, turn on a light - i've already paid and i'm likely there to stay!
- Using fake pics, I don't expect a face pic but seriously why not a real up to date body pic ? It's 2013 and were using computers and the internet when will people realize it only takes one mouse button click to do a google image search to see if the pic is real or not. When you get 874382 hits on a pic from an ad you know its all BS. I especially get irked when they insist that's their real pic even tho you can see the full unedited pic of the model they are stealing the pic from ESPECIALLY when it's a super famous model like Adriana Lima !!! seriously you have some balls trying to pass her off as you then get pissy when you get called on it.
- Ok if your a smoker and especially if your a heavy smoker you might want to put that in your ad, I have had a few experiences where upon meeting the cigarette smell was so overpowering I pretty much gagged and no the mint gum your chewing isn't helping or hiding the stench sorry.
- When you try to reschedule the time because you double booked and just expect the guy to say ok sure your time is far more important then mine i'll just reschedule my shit because even tho i'm paying for your time you get to change it multiple times and keep pushing it back so you can fit in more clients.
- Not staying the alloted time !!!! Your getting paid for an hour so no its not cool if you want to keep the hour rate but leave in 30 mins, I am paying for your company for an hour, Honestly if it was just about busting a nut quick I could save myself the money and take care of it myself
- Ok if your a smoker and especially if your a heavy smoker you might want to put that in your ad, I have had a few experiences where upon meeting the cigarette smell was so overpowering I pretty much gagged and no the mint gum your chewing isn't helping or hiding the stench sorry.
- When you try to reschedule the time because you double booked and just expect the guy to say ok sure your time is far more important then mine i'll just reschedule my shit because even tho i'm paying for your time you get to change it multiple times and keep pushing it back so you can fit in more clients.
- Not staying the alloted time !!!! Your getting paid for an hour so no its not cool if you want to keep the hour rate but leave in 30 mins, I am paying for your company for an hour, Honestly if it was just about busting a nut quick I could save myself the money and take care of it myself
This is why I don't necessarily charge by time..I model my business after SW's in regards to time. I only allow one release sessions within 30 minutes (not any longer than that), so if a guy wants a quickie or something theres no special rate for that, they can leave in 10 mins but the rate will stay the same. And if I'm up for it and I get asked for an hour or 2 releases, I'll only offer an option of 2 sessions back to back double the half rate, usually it gets turned down because its considered slightly higher than the average rate for a middle-class provider in Surrey (280). And the reason I mostly do shorter sessions is because it makes more sense, instead of burning out with a 1 hour session at a discounted rate, I can finish 2 quickies and make more in less time and still have energy to go on with my day (the most I do is 2 anyway). I don't have a lot of energy these days so I have started taking good quality chelated mineral vitamins which gives me instant energy boosts (its called enerex sona if anyone wants to try - excellent and local!) so hopefully I will start offering longer and msog once I'm up for it
- long ass showers with hair washing and all that, this isn't a gym, go home and take a proper shower.
- guys who skip the whole ad and just call when I specifically ask for text-only (and I've only had one phone call that actually booked out the hundreds I've answered in the last 3 months, texting works way better for me!), and when guys do text, they ask about rates/services when its clearly listed on the ad next to the "text me" part
- guys who ask me to send them photos because they can't see it on their phone browser, what kind of ancient phone are you using and why can't you find a proper computer?
- face pic requests - i have partial face photos i think that's enough already
- guys who already stated they will book for a different day but saw your ad pop up and decide to start chit chatting for no reason when they know you're currently working and taking appointments because you're the same-day booking type
- and clients who try to negotiate during the session - if they haven't finished on time but offer an extra 20 to stay and cum...if its not happening by the 30 min mark then i am too tired to continue lols!!
Its just very stressful to have a low tolerance to bull shit. Because there is so much out there.
I kind of was like you I think,
but over the years I just got worn down.
Good luck, and seriously, the bull shit that goes around.
ahh i had to delete half my post it was a wall of text! but anyway yes in the beginning i was extra sweet and patient, and naive of course. And Ive heard a few times that SPs become bitter with more experience and time put into the business, and I can totally relate! I admit I have become a lot more strict and professional, but I am still not a clock watcher...however I do not allow more than a minute over the time limit. I feel taken advantage of if it becomes overtime and the client has not finished and usually its because he is drunk and I did not know.
Hey all,
New to the board, but not new to life. I've lately realized how much I appreciate an SP with a website that clearly outlines her basic stats, rates, restrictions, a little bit about what she likes / dislikes, and includes a few pictures.
Something that's been pissing me off lately, BP ads that have little detail, but state, "contact me for more info". So you contact the SP, interestingly enough to find out basic stats, rates, restrictions, and a little bit about what she likes / dislikes, and the response is, "when do you want to see me?"
Hold up Turbo. We're not past the intel gathering phase yet. It would be helpful if you at least answered my questions first before I decide if I want to book with you. Or you could save yourself the trouble and either get a website or have a email ready that outlines the basic information everyone is looking for.
Of course the mitigating strategy is to just stick to well-reviewed SPs with websites, but from time to time, you can luck out and find a hidden gem out there.
New to the board, but not new to life. I've lately realized how much I appreciate an SP with a website that clearly outlines her basic stats, rates, restrictions, a little bit about what she likes / dislikes, and includes a few pictures.
Something that's been pissing me off lately, BP ads that have little detail, but state, "contact me for more info". So you contact the SP, interestingly enough to find out basic stats, rates, restrictions, and a little bit about what she likes / dislikes, and the response is, "when do you want to see me?"
Hold up Turbo. We're not past the intel gathering phase yet. It would be helpful if you at least answered my questions first before I decide if I want to book with you. Or you could save yourself the trouble and either get a website or have a email ready that outlines the basic information everyone is looking for.
Of course the mitigating strategy is to just stick to well-reviewed SPs with websites, but from time to time, you can luck out and find a hidden gem out there.
LOL I love that "Hold up Turbo"
Ya when you want to find out some info first and instead they ask you when you want to meet that is really annoying I agree. Seriously before booking I want to make sure were both on the same page in regards to service expectations and rates. I do basically want it spelled out for me so when and if I do book there is no "oh ya that is not offered, or that is extra" crap going on.
Thanks Miss xkx, you described that very well! Tongue, tongue, and more tongue...eeewwww! :fear:
Well,
There is not much out there that will get to me, other than when someone is really into DFK, and I don't normally mind it. However, there are a few people out there that like to kiss like a sea creature with tentacles and seem to OMNOM your face. There is drool everywhere, and ya...at that point I get O.O kind of expression and then >.< kind of expression.
ewww hehe! yes that and when they have a rough scratchy beard and insist on raping your face!!!, or the little tiny beard right under the lower lip it goes right inside your mouth so grosse
I'd have to agree with luvsdaty, but just a general disrespect by some SP's for our time. Over the years, I've heard them all... Just got out of the shower, come back in 15 minutes. Or, the building super. is here to fix my sink, can you come back in half an hour?
Just last week I booked an 11:00 a. m. appointment with an SP working around Kingsway and Edmonds. She told me to telephone her with I departed my office in Vancouver ( I'm about a half hour drive up Kingsway). Anyways, I call while I'm on my way and it rings through to her voicemail. I'm about to leave a voicemail but get the old "the voice mail you're calling is full" (another pet peeve...please keep your voicemail updated and clean at least once a day!). Anyways, I call another few times over the next hour of so, only to get the same message.
I have lunch at Metrotown and head back to the office.....another waste of a couple of hours....
Just last week I booked an 11:00 a. m. appointment with an SP working around Kingsway and Edmonds. She told me to telephone her with I departed my office in Vancouver ( I'm about a half hour drive up Kingsway). Anyways, I call while I'm on my way and it rings through to her voicemail. I'm about to leave a voicemail but get the old "the voice mail you're calling is full" (another pet peeve...please keep your voicemail updated and clean at least once a day!). Anyways, I call another few times over the next hour of so, only to get the same message.
I have lunch at Metrotown and head back to the office.....another waste of a couple of hours....
I can understand that SP's have clients that are not physically attractive. But if that is a major stumbling block they should consider doing something else like internet peep shows, its better than giving customers attitude during the session and wasting my time/money.
No kidding - and when you try to get more info, they get mad at you for texting them...
Men that book a half hour and then try to stay longer. Anyone that overstays their booked time. If you are late, expect to lose the time you are late for. Escorts dont owe you time beyond that. If she's nice enough to extend it, tip her
one thing I really really hate is when an SP black lists a client (or a driver/photographer/agency/incall owner etc etc) on a forum, and then another SP will come on there and reply saying that she doesn't/can't/finds it hard to believe the OP and that the client has been a saint to her and can't understand why he is being black listed!
This is the best advice given in regards to this issue:
This is the best advice given in regards to this issue:
It happens all the time and by a lot of well known SP's that I will not mention so I can avoid any drama
One of my biggest pet peeves...
The conversation goes like this:
Him: Can you please give me your gfe rates?
Me: Yes, sure. They are x, y and z.
Him: Ok. Thank you. I plan on being a regular client because I would like to see the same girl. However - x, y or z is a little more than my budget allows if I want to see you regularly/weekly/monthly so would c, d or e (25% discounted from x, y, z - which, btw, are ALREADY discounted/special rates!) be okay - for a regular customer like me?
Me (curious, knowing answer is no): Oh Have we previously met?
Him: Oh no, we have not had the opportunity yet. But I would very much like to and as I mentioned, I am looking to become a regular client and only looking to see one girl.... So would c, d or e be okay then?
Me (trying to be polite and tactfully get my point across without insulting him): No, I'm sorry. I would love to meet you and have you as a regular client however I need to have seen you a few times before I can consider you a regular client. Promising or hoping to do so doesn't qualify. Sorry.
Him: Oh ok. I will call you back. Thank you.
Me (rolling my eyes, unsurprised): No problem, have a nice day.
Obviously no callback from this type.
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Now, I cannot count how many times someone has tried this and I am sure I am not alone.
Here's a clue for those who think it's clever or legitimate: The only way to become or to be considered a regular is..... to BE one!
Telling me you plan to become one - and ESPECIALLY trying to bargain or get a discount the first time we meet based on your claims that you plan to and will become a regular IS JUST SLEAZY!
Regardless of how polite and pleasant you are when asking, it tells me that:
1) clearly you think I'm pretty stupid and that sp's are desperate to get any regulars
2) you have absolutely no intention on becoming my or anyone's regular, of seeing just one girl
3) you think you're pretty clever and no one else has ever thought of or tried this scam.
I can only assume it must perhaps work on new sp's.....once. And that these guys are taking their chances and trying until they luck our and find that sp that will let them scam her?! I don't know but it makes my blood boils. I always want to tell them that a client who is looking to become a regular rarely announces it, definitely doesn't use it to get discounts before having even see you once. A client who is looking to become a regular........just becomes one by making regular appointments. Shockingly simple.
So for the big talkers (aka scammers), who do you think you're kidding?!
Blech.
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The conversation goes like this:
Him: Can you please give me your gfe rates?
Me: Yes, sure. They are x, y and z.
Him: Ok. Thank you. I plan on being a regular client because I would like to see the same girl. However - x, y or z is a little more than my budget allows if I want to see you regularly/weekly/monthly so would c, d or e (25% discounted from x, y, z - which, btw, are ALREADY discounted/special rates!) be okay - for a regular customer like me?
Me (curious, knowing answer is no): Oh Have we previously met?
Him: Oh no, we have not had the opportunity yet. But I would very much like to and as I mentioned, I am looking to become a regular client and only looking to see one girl.... So would c, d or e be okay then?
Me (trying to be polite and tactfully get my point across without insulting him): No, I'm sorry. I would love to meet you and have you as a regular client however I need to have seen you a few times before I can consider you a regular client. Promising or hoping to do so doesn't qualify. Sorry.
Him: Oh ok. I will call you back. Thank you.
Me (rolling my eyes, unsurprised): No problem, have a nice day.
Obviously no callback from this type.
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Now, I cannot count how many times someone has tried this and I am sure I am not alone.
Here's a clue for those who think it's clever or legitimate: The only way to become or to be considered a regular is..... to BE one!
Telling me you plan to become one - and ESPECIALLY trying to bargain or get a discount the first time we meet based on your claims that you plan to and will become a regular IS JUST SLEAZY!
Regardless of how polite and pleasant you are when asking, it tells me that:
1) clearly you think I'm pretty stupid and that sp's are desperate to get any regulars
2) you have absolutely no intention on becoming my or anyone's regular, of seeing just one girl
3) you think you're pretty clever and no one else has ever thought of or tried this scam.
I can only assume it must perhaps work on new sp's.....once. And that these guys are taking their chances and trying until they luck our and find that sp that will let them scam her?! I don't know but it makes my blood boils. I always want to tell them that a client who is looking to become a regular rarely announces it, definitely doesn't use it to get discounts before having even see you once. A client who is looking to become a regular........just becomes one by making regular appointments. Shockingly simple.
So for the big talkers (aka scammers), who do you think you're kidding?!
Blech.
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One of mine is the term "non pro"...a lady advertises regularly, daily even...yet still uses the term..as soon as you take money for a service...you are a pro...plain and simple...even if they don't plan on being in the industry for months or years...you're a pro....
I totally understand I get the same scam all the time!!! I don't offer any discounts but sometimes they will come see me and tell me that, and then I never hear from them again lol...
Last night some idiot from craigslist (never going to post an ad there again/also had a crackhead call me in the same hour!) told me my half hour rate was too high and that he will give me half of it if I like ($70)...I said ya sure and gave him a dummy address and blocked him.
