So just what are YOU paying for?
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This is fairly pathatic. for the most part these women wouldn't say boo to you if they were in a bar or club cause they'd be way out of your league, but if you want to delude yourself be my guest.
Don't get me wrong, in many cases some absolutely gorgeous women can be head cases, we all know that, and anyone whose drug addicted or doesn't have a clue about life in general or thinks only about themselves, are to be polite challenging.
But there are also some absolutely drop dead gorgeous women in this business that really have their act together. I've been fortunately enough to have met a few.
Also depending on your age, this may or not be true. Someone who's in their mid 40's or older likely isn't going to be dating a beautiful woman in their early-mid 20's unless that woman is looking for a father figure of some kind.
Thanks, yes my situation is pretty much a dream come true (for me at least).
Too bad it's eventually going to have to end, cause that's how life works..but that doesn't mean I can't enjoy it for as long as it lasts.
Basically I have a friends with benefits relationship in which I'm paying to partipate in, and even though a lot of people think it's a huge sin to pay for something like this, I'm personally fine with it.
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Never read this til now..this is hilarious, or if you prefer, some pretty funny shit.
So ok the reason I asked the question comes from a tv interview I heard once with a famous race car driver. The reporter asked why he had a reputation for going out with SP's and his answer was exactly that followed by "and they don't knock on my door at three am crying I love you, they don't show up pregnant or want to meet my mother or expect me to take them to Monaco on vacation etc." Since many of the men here are married I think this must play into their thinking too. As for dating beautiful women our own age there are lots of 40 and 50 something ladies out there who are beautiful and quite willing to date. After multiple orgasms they tend to do all of the above except get pregnant.
What's your point? Are to trying to tel me you see woman in their 40's and 50's? then perhaps you have a valid point, but me personally I tend to see SP's 20-25 years young then myself who are very attractive. I'd be fooling myself if I didn't think they wouldn't normally give me the time of the day, but for the circumstances we found ourselves in. That said, I also think those that do see some of us older guys really get to enjoy themselves, and at least one women who had never seen anyone older than 29 (she was 24) told me flat out, that she was very pleasantly surprised,
Why?..............because multiple orgasms as you mentioned, aren't age specific.
Why?..............because multiple orgasms as you mentioned, aren't age specific.
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actually my preferred age range is late 30's to mid 40's but I'm probably older than you are so 10 to 20 years younger is about ballpark .
Maybe. And I can tell you flat out that if someone is in their 40's or older and has never been married, they'll never understand, or accept, the concept of compromising..which is what any healthy relationship is based on.
Well all bets are off with anyone over 35, cause then age really doesn't matter much. Big difference between a 35 year old woman seeing a 55 year old guy and a 20 year old woman seeing a 40 year old guy.
LOL ok so the pool gets churned regularly and each successive churn removes the good stuff and leaves the dregs. I suppose that's true for the women too. Do you mean to say that the pool of attractive and desireable women in their 40's and 50's is so limited as to force the men to seek out SP's in their 20's and 30's?
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grins - so that's back to the point - we see working ladies to avoid all the grief that comes with the dregs and/or to make up for having married badly BUT we don't want it to follow us home.
That's a bit harsh dude and in alot of cases untrue.
While I realize the stigma involved in this hobby is that we're all a bunch of unattractive losers who couldn't get the town dog to play with us unless we tied a steak around our necks, I think most of the ladies on this board would attest that the average pooner is not this.
Sure, as men we might see some women as unattainable. I think we've all sat on that bar stool wishing we had the balls to walk over and talk to the drop dead gorgeous woman all the while fearing rejection. Does pooning give us access to women we think we would never have a chance with? Maybe in a few cases but overall I think most of us poon for other reasons.
ah Nina - I do love you so .......;-) what you say is so true but those things COULD be found with a civilian girl (at least by most of us) My question to the men was why a service provider instead of a regular date. What does an SP offer that a regular date does not either physically, emotionally, socially or spiritually. As for expert status...........I'm still looking for that one LOL
One reason I have not yet seen listed here is the desire to have a sexual experience with someone who's an expert.
It seems to me a perfect reason to see an SP.. get the best sex you've ever had. That was always my goal.. to give loving happy joyous GREAT sex to my clients.
Human touch has not been mentioned either. We need it, as much as we don't think we do. The more contact you have with people who care about you, the better you feel. Being in the energy field of someone who is caring about you is something you may not be aware of, but it does affect you. Good intentions pass from one to another and help make you feel whole, happy, and satisfied. It's healthy and good for you.
ps.. I hope Lenny finds his android/doll.
Sex and physical intimacy with an attractive and interesting young woman - this will no doubt sound harsh, but I have no problem attracting women in their 30's and up. Further, I am married and don't want an affair. I don't look for 10's in the looks department - I am more interested in character and attitude. I have more fun when the woman I am with is having fun - I don't understand fucking a hot retard that would rather be doing her nails. However, if she is a 10, all the better!
I realize that the really young and hot women would not be available to me largely because I don't do the things they do (clubbing etc.) and there is a lineup of eligible young guys taking their turn at the plate, which I am not willing to join. Even if I was un-married, this would be true. So, it is a fantasy. The idea that we pay them to leave sounds like we think they would otherwise give it to us for free, which is not true for the majority of us. Curiously, I have had several of these young beauties tell me that they are really attracted to older men (I am in my early 50's, reasonably fit and attractive, and I am very respectful and interested in them as human beings in our short time together, not just about their blow job technique). This may be true but the odds of connecting are remote.
PS - Good blow jobs are great too!
I realize that the really young and hot women would not be available to me largely because I don't do the things they do (clubbing etc.) and there is a lineup of eligible young guys taking their turn at the plate, which I am not willing to join. Even if I was un-married, this would be true. So, it is a fantasy. The idea that we pay them to leave sounds like we think they would otherwise give it to us for free, which is not true for the majority of us. Curiously, I have had several of these young beauties tell me that they are really attracted to older men (I am in my early 50's, reasonably fit and attractive, and I am very respectful and interested in them as human beings in our short time together, not just about their blow job technique). This may be true but the odds of connecting are remote.
PS - Good blow jobs are great too!
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