Clu...^..I agree with you there, but the young lady in the middle of this is very concerned about her well being...I need to respect that because of what she did for me, and for anyone else doing the same in the future.
So Jeff...You Wanna Be a Cowboy?
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Sy - appreciate you posting this and your consideration of the lady and fellow patrons.
The guy's behaviour is reprehensible.
I would NEVER book an appointment giving my Perb handle or even say that I have a Perb membership. At the end of a good session I'll tell her that I could post a favourable review of her and ASK if she would like me to. At this point she almost always says "Sure!", gives me a kiss on both cheeks, and says "Thank-you."
If it's a meh session I'll just assume we simply didn't click and probably won't say anything or post anything.
If she didn't put out or had been deceptive, I won't say anything but probably will post a review, still being objective and balanced.
My point is this: I can't think of any valid reason why a hobbiest would book on with an SP he hasn't seen before and identify himself at that time with his Perb handle. Ladies, if you get a booking request like that, let your spidey senses tingle.
If it's a meh session I'll just assume we simply didn't click and probably won't say anything or post anything.
If she didn't put out or had been deceptive, I won't say anything but probably will post a review, still being objective and balanced.
My point is this: I can't think of any valid reason why a hobbiest would book on with an SP he hasn't seen before and identify himself at that time with his Perb handle. Ladies, if you get a booking request like that, let your spidey senses tingle.
Yes I totally agree it's her call. I am sad to hear this is causing her continued concern. Here's a thought to pass along to her: if the guy used your identity to circumvent screening, this is procuring sexual services by fraudulent means, which legally undermines consent. She has the option of calling upon law enforcement if the guy continues to be the slightest concern for her.
Yes i agree.
Perhaps she asked for a reference, he was new, didn't have one and just threw that out to get a foot in the door. Not a great idea but better than the creep/stalker impersonation scenario.
I wouldn't expect to hear from him after a cowardly move like that.
BTW whats your mma record? 0-0-0?
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sounds like it's the now-banned 'stuffed banana' (+ many other handles - all banned) to me
and no he's not 'jeff' - more like 'rob'
and no he's not 'jeff' - more like 'rob'
Don't know who he is.....but if, not sure why they would, but if somebody used my perb handle to book with any lady active on the board they would have to be a special kind of stupid.
I don't understand the concern about giving a PERB handle. For making first-time contact with a PERB advertiser I typically use PERB PM, so my handle is known right from the start.
In making initial contact with a lady who is not a PERB advertiser I don't volunteer anything about PERB, and in that situation I've never been asked for a PERB handle, but if I were asked, I wouldn't have much concern about giving it.
To address your concern here Missingone..I do understand what you are saying...But...
There are some Ladies here that are friends to me, and I'd like to think they have a small amount of trust ,when it comes to our various levels of friendship. That is something I hold sacred.
Some would smell the bullshit a mile off, others perhaps wouldn't....And would open the their doors to someone who is under false identity....Most concerning,..My identity
My concern is...Why would he do such a thing. It could have been just nervousness..or just a not very well thought out plan ,for further benefits for the same price...I don't know.
What bothers me is he tried it, and the question is WHY?...As Uncleg said.."Thats a different kind of stupid"
There are some Ladies here that are friends to me, and I'd like to think they have a small amount of trust ,when it comes to our various levels of friendship. That is something I hold sacred.
Some would smell the bullshit a mile off, others perhaps wouldn't....And would open the their doors to someone who is under false identity....Most concerning,..My identity
My concern is...Why would he do such a thing. It could have been just nervousness..or just a not very well thought out plan ,for further benefits for the same price...I don't know.
What bothers me is he tried it, and the question is WHY?...As Uncleg said.."Thats a different kind of stupid"
He's been doing this shit for years. He once told a SP I had seen that he heard that she will fuck for food. He had seen my review where I had paid her for 4 hours, fed her and then had sex. I think he's gotten a few active reviewers banned because he's offered a "good" review while pretending to be them.
Why do guys pretend to be rock stars? Sports stars? Usually they do it to impress people and/or to gain some benefit. They feel that as their true selves they're unimpressive.
There are of course more sinister reasons for impersonating people, such as to gain access to a person or place that they normally wouldn't be permitted. That possibility is of course scary, and the lady in the situation you described is rightfully alarmed. Fortunately, it would appear that if he had had any thoughts of physically harming her he chickened out this time.
I have been in a situation in which an SP accused me of some wrong-doing, because my name (I use my real first name with SPs) and my voice on the phone sounded similar to someone who had wronged her. She had never met me, or the wrong-doer, in person. She led me along until I got to her incall and got undressed, and then she and a friend accosted me with accusations. I got out with no serious harm, and without harming them, but she said she was going to pass my contact info on to some "enforcer". That was probably just talk, but I'll never know. This was in the days before call display was common (yes, I'm that old), so probably all she'd have been able to give to some goon on was my first name and a description. Nothing came of it, but I still consider the act by an SP of passing contact info on to a non-SP to be dangerous. I of course expect SPs to share info about bad dates among themselves. If the situation is bad enough to share contact info outside the SP community, then I figure it's bad enough to share it with the cops.
Of course, my little tale doesn't exactly parallel yours. In my case she threatened to send some goon after me who was not, himself, party to whatever had happened. In the case you describe, you are a rightfully aggrieved party. The lady was perfectly right to alert you to what was going on.
All this blather notwithstanding, I would choose to avoid an SP if I thought that, by causing her annoyance, no matter how unintentionally, I might motivate her to pass my phone number on to some other person outside the SP community.
