Small talk with SPs?

[Theguyfromvictoria]

Guys (and gals) - help me out. I always find that first few minutes after entering the suite so akward - not sure what kind of small talk to make to get the conversation flowing? By nature I am a pretty reserved guy..

 

[sybian]

Guys (and gals) - help me out. I always find that first few minutes after entering the suite so akward - not sure what kind of small talk to make to get the conversation flowing? By nature I am a pretty reserved guy..

I like small talk, unless we are talking about my dick, then.....not so much.

I ask about her day, how she feels about Cowboys, and if she has spent anytime on a ranch....or compliment how nice she looks that evening, her clothing, hair, choice of body scent.....anything non personal, as you've just met each other.
Notice her physically .....if it seems she has put some effort into making herself attractive, mention it.
If we find each other attractive, and I find her responding to me....I will ask if we were to rendezvous again....what kind of wine she prefers....and then REMEMBER the brand, bring it up later, and in fact have it in my hands the next meeting.

 

[bmwdriver]

I tend to be on the reserved side as well. But, I usually smile and ask her how she's doing. I'll compliment her on something, eg. hair, what she's wearing etc. If it's what she's wearing that can lead to a discussion about clothes, or areas in Vancouver that I like to shop at. Then typical small talk topics like tv shows, or movies, or books that she seen or read recently. That usually gets the conversation going. To be honest though, most of the women I've seen are masters of getting the conversation going, so I usually follow their lead.

 

[take8easy]

Half of the conversation is listening. So listen..... and respond. Let her take charge... till you feel you are comfortable. Because she is the one who does this more often you do ........ so ... just listen and respond.
If there is an awkward pause, just do what I do .......I look around and say... "ummm oh where is the washroom..?" and then hide there for remaining 59 minutes.

 

[AA_Train]

I like talking with SPs or any pretty ladies in general. The big thing to remember is that they are a person, just like you. They are probably feeling a little nervous as well and want to make a good first impression just like you, especially if it is a first encounter. They don't need to hear your life story, but talk about your day so far, a little bit about each other, just enough for each of you to get comfortable with each other. Don't feel the need to "impress" just treat her as you would like to be treated.

 

[wetnose]

She knows what you want. You know what she can do. You obviously didn't meet in the produce section of the local grocery, so why the awkwardness? Here's my script at the massage parlors...

Ooooh, you have nice hands.

Hmmm, that hit the spot. I luv it when girls know what they're doing.

You have really sexy hair/voice/legs. Do you work out? Luv that outfit/dress...

Yes, I've been here before and had lots of fun. Ms X really knows how to...move.

What're your favorite moves?

So who's the...noisiest? *laugh*

Do you get noisy?

Soft or...rough?

What's the best sex you ever had?

Do you like doggie style?

Ever done it in the shower before?

Ever had a 3 some? Which of the other girls would you have a 3 some with?

 

[Riza]

Some of you may have met me and know that I love to talk. Small talk, big talk and everything in the middle. I genuinely enjoy meeting new people and getting to know them. For a new client its more at the end of the session with the left over time if any. For returns some like to catch up a little before then continue after, I leave it in their hands.

The talks can be on a personal note or confined to their likes and what they want to experience, they are more on a professional level.

Being Filipino I am naturally inquisitive and sometimes forget that some can get uneasy when I ask personal questions. I don't do it to pry or find out personal information for bad reasons, its just the way I am and I find it helps to make more of a personal connection with the gentleman. I also will answer personal questions also so don't ask something unless you want to hear the truth.

I can usually get the drift fairly quickly when someone arrives if they are interested in sharing info or ifs it just a NSA type, don't ask don't tell type arrangement but occasionally I do get the signs mixed up so if I am restrained and you want to chat you have to give me a sign because I may have got it wrong. Its not an exact science. I do love to chat though but like to keep it to the end after I know you are content with service and just want some cuddle time Funny enough I also get many clients that like to spend some time with my Infamous frenchie George at the end of an appointment. He also likes meeting new friends

Ever had a 3 some? Which of the other girls would you have a 3 some with?

Oh and wetnose, I love 3 somes, MMF and MFF :clap2:

 

[Jessica Rain]

I am lucky that I can do incalls from my private home. That means that more often then not, I have a new client come in a share a quick coffee/tea/water in the living room and we do a little get to know you. I don't rush, so this is mostly OTC. I find just a few mins of small talk will help with first time sessions and first-time clients.

It also helps move things to a nice make-out session on the couch before heading upstairs to the bedroom.

I do wonder what I will do when I start to tour and use hotels. I am sure I will use suites because I like those better than just a room. I just really like the transition from living space to the bedroom. I don't know why. Maybe it makes it feel less-transactional???? I haven't figured it out yet, but why mess with something that works, right? LOL

 

[stamina]

Personally, if the date starts with a "lets get to know one another talk" then it often will not be a date to remember. I said personally, as everyone is different but I'm not into a conversation where its almost always awkward.

I want to walk in the door, see a beautiful women with a beautiful smile, kiss her and then passionately and enthusiastically explore her body. There will be time for pillow talk and if no one wants to talk then cuddling and gearing up for the next round by kissing and touching one another works great for me. I'm looking for a Paramour not a blind date.

I recall a 2 hour date with well known Victoria SP that wanted to "get to know one another" wasted half the session and then the remainder of the session itself was terrible. YYMV always but this was just terrible. I originally pictured her as passionate and sensual women but turns out she was pretentious, conceited, selfish and I suppose disinterested. Would have loved to do a negative review but felt the White Nights on that one would come out in legion. Anyway, I digress... That is why kissing is often so important, I think. if you're both kissing then there is no talking for the most part. If you're with someone that does not like kissing, well then they better make up for it with enthusiasm or its probably gonna be a lame session.

I like Sybians advice though, that is the way you should go. Shower her in praise and compliments and mean it --- she should respond positively if her true intention is to make you happy.

You should post the review still. There are new rules which everybody is supposed to abide by and that makes it easier for all opinions to be heard.