Showed up at my home!

[Hardlover]

I have been seeing a well renowned lady for a while. However few weeks back she agreed for an out call at my home as I didn't had my transportation and SO was away. Since we know each other we were fairly comfortable. I even treated her for lunch at my place and we had a nice session.

Fast forward few weeks ago she sent me a text saying she's near my area and I can see her if I'm free. I politely declined. Now few days back she stumbled upon my home while I was away. My landlord described somebody asking for me while he was washing his car. The description matches this lady however I couldn't confirm. Already my wife says she's missing her perfume -- my hunch we took it.

What should I do? I don't want to be rude or piss her off the wrong way. What is the best way to ignore it as it never happened? I really don't want trouble.

 

[Jethro Bodine]

YOU'RE FUCKED! I'd get a really good lock for your kid's bunny cage.

Seriously, I agree you need to take a soft approach initially. Simply call her up and ask her if she had happened to drop by the other day when you were not home. If she says no then basically say something along the lines that you were wondering because someone matching her description had, you thought it might be her. That way if she is lying she will still know that you know it was her. The embarrassment may be enough to keep her away in the future.
If she says it was her, then politely ask her not to do that in the future. Explain to her that just like she wouldn't appreciate some guy showing up unannounced or coming up to her at a outside social event, you can't have her doing this. If she is a reasonable person who simply made a bad judgment, then she should be cool with this and it should be over.
On the other hand if she doesn't understand or gets upset then she's "Bat Shit Crazy" and you better go out and buy that lock for the bunny cage.

Cheers

 

[westwoody]

Security cameras at Costco. Just saying.

 

[moebrand]

That is crazy man . As a married man who sometimes poon I can feel your worry and fear. Hope everything goes well bro.

 

[Hardlover]

Yes. Gentlemen take this experience as a life lesson. I was too stupid to be thinking with my dick. The last time we did an out call the hotel wouldn't let her in as they wanted me to register her only when checking in. Hence I thought I will wave myself the trouble and enjoy from the comfort of my home. But I guess you never know when things go south. I always assumed this was safe as I've seen many pooners doing outcall....

I'm slowly going to back off and give her the benefit of doubt and not further aggravate things.

 

[Hardlover]

That is crazy man . As a married man who sometimes poon I can feel your worry and fear. Hope everything goes well bro.

Trust me man imagine my pain and then convert it into x times. That's how shitty things have become. Just when I'm wrapping my head around Bill C36 and now this....

 

[bcneil]

Yes. Gentlemen take this experience as a life lesson. I was too stupid to be thinking with my dick. The last time we did an out call the hotel wouldn't let her in as they wanted me to register her only when checking in. Hence I thought I will wave myself the trouble and enjoy from the comfort of my home. But I guess you never know when things go south. I always assumed this was safe as I've seen many pooners doing outcall....

I'm slowly going to back off and give her the benefit of doubt and not further aggravate things.

I always thought of outcalls, as her coming to your hotel. Not having her come to your family home, while the wife is out.

 

[uncleg]

Actually, had something along those lines happen to me some time ago. The lady showed up at 01:00 while the SO and my mother-in-law to be were both at home. Her "man" had laid a beating on her for not making enough money and for some reason figured the place to go was my place. Good thing is with what I do, I was able to pass her of as a client of mine, instead of the other way around.

 

[Lets Review]

Not to make light, but fairly appropriate...............
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SxuYdzs4SS8

 

[Caramel]

I always thought of outcalls, as her coming to your hotel. Not having her come to your family home, while the wife is out.

yeah gets real creepy when the child's toys and crib is in sight, family photos, then the client starts showing off his family pics lol, so strange have seen this happen many many times

 

[westwoody]

It is so great being single and answering to nobody.

If I was married I would be too paranoid to do this stuff!

 

[girth-brooks]

It is so great being single and answering to nobody.

If I was married I would be too paranoid to do this stuff!

I agree (but I bet that what's makes it more thrilling for married guys too!)

Honestly, you just need to let the SP know that just because you are on friendly terms doesn't mean either person should compromise on being discreet.

 

[take8easy]

Creepy... reminds me of Fatal Attraction.

Me being married would never risk an outcall. Sex is not pizza, dont get it delivered at home. The extra cost, breach of privacy and nosy meighbors.... nah not worth it.

 

[CitySlicker]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f7kisatRK-U

Enjoy! .....Something to watch and to cheer you up.

 

[ATM]

If I was married I won't invite an sp back to my home. That's why I have a condo as a back up place.

As a single guy I have invited an sp back to my home. We did know each other well and I felt comfortable. However that is not something I would do with just anybody, sp or not. However I feel meeting at the condo is a different story.

 

[newatit]

This is all true. But I am on the other side. Have had a few home sessions but only with well established friends. Never a problem. But never take a chance that plans won't change and you end up with a disaster. Some one may come home unexpected and then you are busted. But with bill c36 now in effect. Using home when safe and private is likely much better. One reason it is better to have a long established relationship with a gal.

As for a gal showing up unexpectedly like that I would be doing the quick ditch with cutting all ties real quick and some pointed words but polite. I've had one gal who is blocked on my phones and texts and that has worked.