Should an SP count out the donation in front of you before starting a session?

[yasmine]

The problem is that some people miscount and this is easy to do wit the new currency.

I suggest handing it to her before you shower so she can count in privacy. Win win situation

I typically hand an envelope and there are SPs who seem to trust me when I leave it on the counter. Other times she needs to count out the exact amount in front of me before going into another room to get ready before coming out to see me again. I prefer the experience when I can just leave it on the counter and not have to mention it so it feels more natural.

 

[CrazedandAbused]

i don't like it counted in front of me.

Prefer to hand over envelope and go to bathroom to freshen up. If they want to count, that's the best time. Never had an issue.

 

[black ace]

I had a girl count it out in front of me recently. First time ever. Didn't bother me that much perhaps she has been shorted previously.

I used to use an envelope but they don't have them at bank machines now unless you are doing a deposit.

 

[overdone]

lol at the irony of this statement and your forum name.

what's ironic is that the ER's aren't full with SP's, afterall based on some of the comments, ideas spouted here by guys, one might assume SP's are injuring themselves at an alarming rate doing this all day :frusty:

I'm not worried, cause I'm sure when the NDP get in, they'll mandate all SP's wear helmets to protect themselves :eyebrows:

 

[take8easy]

35+ SP's. and none of them counted in front of me. Not even 3 Asian ones except one of these Asian ones, who asked it up front.

One time, I forgot to pay one of my ATF's at the start of the session but I realized at the end, and apologized to her. She, being a lovely classy girl, hugged me from behind, nibbled my ear and said, "Oh don't be silly. You don't need to apologize." ( I ended up seeing her at least twice more.)

 

[here4fun]

Although I have never had any lady overtly count it in front of me, it would not bother me if they did. If it makes the more comfortably, I don't see what the issue is.

 

[LalaniElectrica]

For the most part, I never ask, either before during or after, and either the gentleman places an envelope of donation on the table or in my bowl/tray, whatever is convenient, I usually do not count it, although if I get an unusual vibe or the person is nervous, new or anything where I feel something is unsettled (it may only be nerves) I may ask if they have something for me, before or if they forget or I fuck them up royally, I may ask in an appropriate way, or I can also work it into the dom session, like pretend to rob them for fun.... One time I gave one of the best sessions and the guy at the end said "oh, I thought it was for fun, i only brought 60"… I almost punched him out… And there was another time one of my regs left a gift bag, usually with a gift and donation, this time there was no donation…it had happened with the same person a year prior but they had made it up to me and I accepted them back, but the second time it created a rift and it will not be repaired again. Once trust is broken to that magnitude, there's no getting it back… I also had one of my vip's a year back show up seemingly sober, but little did I know he chugged something just prior to going in, but was not detectable, and ended up staying 2.5 hrs and gave me 180, I was appalled… I had to drive him back to his hotel as he staggered… 6'2" 230lbs…. he had a history of it his first visit, then I told him it was unacceptable he came back 3 times sober, so I did not expect him to show up like that for his 5th and final visit…

I am very trusting, as I believe the more trust worthy you are, the more you trust others to be the same. This industry is not like that, and if you are a first time guest, it's $ upfront, but I do not count it unless i get a weird vibe, but not bill by bill cause that's really tacky, I just fan it out and if it looks good, I'm happy…

All that and there's more I can tell you guys, and gals, but I'm sure you have your own stories to share. I'm a more assertive and some consider me to be a bit on the intimidating side, so i can imagine what you ladies with a less commanding presence must go through with people ripping you off. I'm not talking about being short 20 here or there either.

 

[sevenofnine]

I don't think its wrong especially if your a new client to a lady,

The only lady who ever did was my sp, the one I have seen for ten years, she did like the second year in. She flipped through the wad of twenties faster then a counting machine it was blinding fast,

I think if a lady is going to accuse you of something, she should count it in front of you not hours latter,

I had a session with a touring girl got home late at night checked my email sent her a message thanks, got up the next morning and she said I shorted her, like twenty or something, she had my phone number why wait to the next day to tell me,
I was positive I didn't but whatever, I wasn't going to start and argument I offered to pay her drop by her hotel and drop it off that morning on my way into work, she refused and said catch me when im back in town,

I could be wrong I could have shorted her, but one she was busy as hell didn't get back to me until the next day, maybe she got me confused with someone else, hell she didn't even know what city she was in, so she easily could have confused me with someone else.
Number two I didn't really feel any connection or chemistry between us, the session was just ho hum, was she doing this to guilt me to seeing her on her return trip,
I dunno but it just felt weird,

I have actually asked my sp to count the money, its dark I have a wad of money Im counting it out, just double check I tell her, I get lax, I know I do,
But not when Im seeing someone new I double check everything, don't want to get off to a bad start, so I try to do everything right. but after Im comfortable with someone I get lazy, and I know I do. So I have told every sp I have repeated with to count the money at some point before I leave.

 

[BigBoy69]

I love counting the money out slowly, making sure that bills don't stick together. I actually count it out loud. It just makes me feel more naughty to reinforce that she's a whore.

 

[Lo-ki]

One lady I saw ...I paid her with 5$ bill and covered her...then we did the deed with money everywhere...it was a blast....