Should a man loose his virginity to an escort?
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Oh man have I got some great stories about this topic. I do agree with you guys though, in a perfect world .. it would be nicer for it to be 'special'. I had a poor guy come to see me one time ... oh my goodness he was nervous. He took forever to come up from the front door. I thought the elevators were broken. When he finally came up, he was shaking and I can usually tell what the nerviousness level is about (married/scammer-no money etc. etc.) but not this time !! Anyways he confessed that he was a virgin. This was a gorgeous young stud of a guy, looked like a total 'player'. So I just blurted out "how the hell did that happen" and he told me he almost did the deed with a previous girlfriend but right before they got down to the act she laughed at him about the size of his penis. Here is this gorgeous, hip, well spoken guy standing there - he wouldn't even take his hands out of his pockets because he always tried to hide his hands because he thought people were judging him for penis size ... anyways, he was so nervous he said he wanted to leave. I just told him "Honey, we are getting this over with - no way are you leaving here like this ... come with me" I spent probably a couple of hours with this guy showing him everything I could think of. He was a natural !! There was absolutely nothing wrong with his package size wise either. I made sure he knew that before he left. I gave him the worlds greatest and most sincere pep talk and made sure there was nothing more he wanted to know or needed to try and he thanked me over and over and when he left he was a totally new man. I'm sure in it's own way his first time was 'special' too !!
Oh man have I got some great stories about this topic. I do agree with you guys though, in a perfect world .. it would be nicer for it to be 'special'. I had a poor guy come to see me one time ... oh my goodness he was nervous. He took forever to come up from the front door. I thought the elevators were broken. When he finally came up, he was shaking and I can usually tell what the nerviousness level is about (married/scammer-no money etc. etc.) but not this time !! Anyways he confessed that he was a virgin. This was a gorgeous young stud of a guy, looked like a total 'player'. So I just blurted out "how the hell did that happen" and he told me he almost did the deed with a previous girlfriend but right before they got down to the act she laughed at him about the size of his penis. Here is this gorgeous, hip, well spoken guy standing there - he wouldn't even take his hands out of his pockets because he always tried to hide his hands because he thought people were judging him for penis size ... anyways, he was so nervous he said he wanted to leave. I just told him "Honey, we are getting this over with - no way are you leaving here like this ... come with me" I spent probably a couple of hours with this guy showing him everything I could think of. He was a natural !! There was absolutely nothing wrong with his package size wise either. I made sure he knew that before he left. I gave him the worlds greatest and most sincere pep talk and made sure there was nothing more he wanted to know or needed to try and he thanked me over and over and when he left he was a totally new man. I'm sure in it's own way his first time was 'special' too !!
lots of guys lose it with an SP
if you are waiting for a special woman to lose it, you might wait a long time. Spend a few bucks, get the monkey off your back and enjoy it. Then that "special woman" will think yer a stud when you know what you are doing
if you are waiting for a special woman to lose it, you might wait a long time. Spend a few bucks, get the monkey off your back and enjoy it. Then that "special woman" will think yer a stud when you know what you are doing
Knowledge Beats Novelty
Whether it had been an escort or my high school French teacher, I believe I would have been far better of with an introduction to sex by an experienced woman.
The idea of two young novices fumbling about with intense passion may be romantic but I suspect a young man's early years can be healthier and happier if he has a more experienced introduction to such things.
The most important consideration may be who the escort is. There is one who declares she does not want to take something that is not hers to take and there is another who takes pride in her skillful instruction.
Too bad we didn't have the internet when I young.
Whether it had been an escort or my high school French teacher, I believe I would have been far better of with an introduction to sex by an experienced woman.
The idea of two young novices fumbling about with intense passion may be romantic but I suspect a young man's early years can be healthier and happier if he has a more experienced introduction to such things.
The most important consideration may be who the escort is. There is one who declares she does not want to take something that is not hers to take and there is another who takes pride in her skillful instruction.
Too bad we didn't have the internet when I young.
Would be a good way of losing your virginity. Long as these guys read lots of reviews knowing what to expect. Some of these sp are way better with sex than the gf they find out there.
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These guys who lose their virginity with a sp should jerk off two nights before seeing a popular reviewed sp. That way these guys dont cream themselves within a min or two with their fav sp and waste their $$
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you come across as a real nice ladyOh man have I got some great stories about this topic. I do agree with you guys though, in a perfect world .. it would be nicer for it to be 'special'. I had a poor guy come to see me one time ... oh my goodness he was nervous. He took forever to come up from the front door. I thought the elevators were broken. When he finally came up, he was shaking and I can usually tell what the nerviousness level is about (married/scammer-no money etc. etc.) but not this time !! Anyways he confessed that he was a virgin. This was a gorgeous young stud of a guy, looked like a total 'player'. So I just blurted out "how the hell did that happen" and he told me he almost did the deed with a previous girlfriend but right before they got down to the act she laughed at him about the size of his penis. Here is this gorgeous, hip, well spoken guy standing there - he wouldn't even take his hands out of his pockets because he always tried to hide his hands because he thought people were judging him for penis size ... anyways, he was so nervous he said he wanted to leave. I just told him "Honey, we are getting this over with - no way are you leaving here like this ... come with me" I spent probably a couple of hours with this guy showing him everything I could think of. He was a natural !! There was absolutely nothing wrong with his package size wise either. I made sure he knew that before he left. I gave him the worlds greatest and most sincere pep talk and made sure there was nothing more he wanted to know or needed to try and he thanked me over and over and when he left he was a totally new man. I'm sure in it's own way his first time was 'special' too !!
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And I suck a wicked cock too !!!you come across as a real nice lady
I wish I had visited an SP like Jewel (or one of the other friendly helpful ladies here) when I was young -- 30+ years ago. I am convinced my life would have changed for the better had I done so and gotten rid of a lot of nonsense stuck in my brain.
Absolutely disagree with the first post.
Absolutely disagree with the first post.
Too much emphasis on the first time.
I never did understand all the emphasis on the virginity thing. Whats the big deal ? My first time was so un-romantic and probably the worst sexual experience I've ever had. Was drunk, down in the basement of a friend's house during a party with some drunk guy who I never would have had anything to do with if I was not drunk. The only thing positive I remember about the whole thing was .... the song playing ... Commander Cody's Hot Rod Lincoln. "and the lines on the road just look like dots !!!!"
I never did understand all the emphasis on the virginity thing. Whats the big deal ? My first time was so un-romantic and probably the worst sexual experience I've ever had. Was drunk, down in the basement of a friend's house during a party with some drunk guy who I never would have had anything to do with if I was not drunk. The only thing positive I remember about the whole thing was .... the song playing ... Commander Cody's Hot Rod Lincoln. "and the lines on the road just look like dots !!!!"
My first time was exactly like this although she did have a bit of experience. It was awkward and fumbly as hell and neither of us got off (luckily since I was riding BB) but it's still one of my fonder memories. We were at a small party and nobody knew we were even dating. The anticipation was fantastic and when we were finally left alone we were breathing so hard we both almost hyperventilated. Even though we didn't perform like they do in porn movies the great part was that it was competely genuine and were both on the same page. We didn't care if it wasn't perfect.
So I vote that you should lose your virginity with mutual innocence.
If it were just a question of sex then I'd have to agree that it shouldn't make any difference. With that in mind, there's something to be said for having an emotional involvement, even if it's just that two people drunkenly clicked at a party. It's not that the sex will be memorable, because it won't, aside from being the first time, but it's not just about that. It's also about affirming that someone has the social skills needed to be able to have someone crawl into bed with them just because they want to. It's a sense of self-affirmation and confidence that I don't think you'd get by starting with an SP.
Going to see an SP the first time can be a scary, intimidating experience, but it also doesn't risk any real emotional involvement, or maybe entanglement is a better word. Of course you'll get the first fumbling experience out of the way, but then you still have to go back and develop those same social skills to seduce someone who isn't working. Does it just become easier to avoid that and go back to an SP? Does it delay emotional and social development? I suppose you could make an argument that way. Does the increased confidence of having experienced sex make approaching women easier? Maybe. I guess it depends on the person, and could be argued that way too.
I tend to think that in an ideal world it would be nicer to have the emotional maturity to know the difference between one experience and the other, and that it would be preferable to have it with a non-SP first, but at the end of the day I guess it really comes down to the individual, and their own personal choice as to what's important, even if they don't really know what's important at that age.
Going to see an SP the first time can be a scary, intimidating experience, but it also doesn't risk any real emotional involvement, or maybe entanglement is a better word. Of course you'll get the first fumbling experience out of the way, but then you still have to go back and develop those same social skills to seduce someone who isn't working. Does it just become easier to avoid that and go back to an SP? Does it delay emotional and social development? I suppose you could make an argument that way. Does the increased confidence of having experienced sex make approaching women easier? Maybe. I guess it depends on the person, and could be argued that way too.
I tend to think that in an ideal world it would be nicer to have the emotional maturity to know the difference between one experience and the other, and that it would be preferable to have it with a non-SP first, but at the end of the day I guess it really comes down to the individual, and their own personal choice as to what's important, even if they don't really know what's important at that age.
Oh man have I got some great stories about this topic. I do agree with you guys though, in a perfect world .. it would be nicer for it to be 'special'. I had a poor guy come to see me one time ... oh my goodness he was nervous. He took forever to come up from the front door. I thought the elevators were broken. When he finally came up, he was shaking and I can usually tell what the nerviousness level is about (married/scammer-no money etc. etc.) but not this time !! Anyways he confessed that he was a virgin. This was a gorgeous young stud of a guy, looked like a total 'player'. So I just blurted out "how the hell did that happen" and he told me he almost did the deed with a previous girlfriend but right before they got down to the act she laughed at him about the size of his penis. Here is this gorgeous, hip, well spoken guy standing there - he wouldn't even take his hands out of his pockets because he always tried to hide his hands because he thought people were judging him for penis size ... anyways, he was so nervous he said he wanted to leave. I just told him "Honey, we are getting this over with - no way are you leaving here like this ... come with me" I spent probably a couple of hours with this guy showing him everything I could think of. He was a natural !! There was absolutely nothing wrong with his package size wise either. I made sure he knew that before he left. I gave him the worlds greatest and most sincere pep talk and made sure there was nothing more he wanted to know or needed to try and he thanked me over and over and when he left he was a totally new man. I'm sure in it's own way his first time was 'special' too !!
That is totally cool jewel what you did. I think people with their so called morals and "I'm above that" attitude won't see what you did for that individual. My attitude has changed so much with escorts and sp's compared to when I was 18 and going on what society perceived the industry to be. That's a great story you shared. What you did for him no shrink could match, not saying shrinks aren't helpful.
Confidence builder
I think the most important thing I gave the guy was the ego boost he needed. I told him how gorgeous he was and that never in a million years would I have guessed he had no experience. I also made sure he knew that any girl worth knowing him would never, ever make fun of his or anyone's penis size. I explained that any girls I know don't joke about that (contrary to what guys may think) and she is the one who should be feeling like a loser not him. He got the technical experience he needed and regained his confidence and I'm sure he's just breaking hearts out there.
i lost it to amy sweetpeach when i was 22. that was not the person to do it with. as much as she was hot, her service was horrible, susan from pink ladies made up for it a few months later. i don't regret it one bit. i agree with some, it's good to get that monkey off the back, and it isn't really a big deal. but if i was experienced and i broke in a virgin, that would be interesting.
I think either way would be good. An SP will probably be more patient, understanding and instructive, but with a GF the intimacy and passion might make it more special.
Now if you decide to 'loose' your ass virginity then I recommend an SP, you definately want someone who knows what she's doing.
Now if you decide to 'loose' your ass virginity then I recommend an SP, you definately want someone who knows what she's doing.
i dont think it matters if a guy loses his virginity to an SP, because if hes over 20 and still a virgin, he probably has problems picking up girls and this will definately help his confidence when he realizes sex is not the great huge boundary it was in his mind...Just my thoughts.
Plus it will probably make him more prepared for when he meets the specail girl, its okay for a 15 year old to be fumbling around and not know what to do, but a 20 year old guy, most girls expect them to know what they are doing so if the guy is over 20, i dont think there are any problems with him losing his virginity to an SP.
Plus it will probably make him more prepared for when he meets the specail girl, its okay for a 15 year old to be fumbling around and not know what to do, but a 20 year old guy, most girls expect them to know what they are doing so if the guy is over 20, i dont think there are any problems with him losing his virginity to an SP.
