Ideally, but if you're a virgin at an age where you would prefer to already be an experienced swordsman then perhaps the SP would mean a lot to you. It's all personal preference. I think any way to lose it is OK provided both are on the same page. ie. I could never have boned a virgin simply for sport if she was seeking a real relationship.
I lost it at 18 to my 17 year old virgin girlfriend. We had gone out for 1.5 years and were doing everything except penetration. Only after her best friend got fucked did she decide she wanted to fuck. wtf? So we fucked, but I have to admit after a year or so of handjobs and blowjobs it wasn't as exciting as it could have been. She had a tremendous fear of pregnancy so there were condoms, spermicidal lubricant, periodic checks for broken rubbers, and no post ejaculation strokes to fully complete the nut. I was OK with that of course. We only went out for another 6 months and she could never fully relax and come during intercourse because of her fears. Orally however I could get her shaking worse than Michael J Fox. To this day nothing turns me on more than going down on a woman and making her come.
