This is an age old question, but I just had to bring it up again. I met a new girl recently and things have been going pretty well between us. I am planning to take things 1 step further and somehow I feel pressured because her ex bf is black and apparently very sporty and muscular(I am not discriminating against black people, its simply a common belief that blacks are superb on bed). I guess it comes down to a question of confidence...always wondering how i measure up against what she've had.
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i wouldn't worry about it too much. my girls ex was black as well. we got along just fine under the sheets. not all black guys are hung like moose you know. just be yourself and do what comes natural. most of all that shit is stereotypes.
you're so worried about it you are bound to fuck eveything up. stop caring so much about the past or she'll notice you trying to hard
It's not what color/size it is, but what you do with it.
At least, that's what a crackhead SW told me.
At least, that's what a crackhead SW told me.
Fortunately and for the most part, women are much less concerned about these things than we are. Just be present and listen to her and all will be fine.shak said:
The black/size thing is a myth anyway.
LMFAO! She'll be dumping you for the first, hung, brother that comes along. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but Bruddha's aleady all over that! How pathetic. Maybe you can pay that skrag VV to humiliate you even further.
Brilliant
(or perhaps I'm a midget )
You know it ainn't just the brutha's...I tagged his girlfriend last night too after Brudha left...maybe there IS some truth to the whole size myth though, because she did feel a bit loose for meThe Lizard King said:
(or perhaps I'm a midget )Hey Bro ... don't self deprecate, she was loose for me too.hornydude said:You know it ainn't just the brutha's...I tagged his girlfriend last night too after Brudha left...maybe there IS some truth to the whole size myth though, because she did feel a bit loose for me
lol, fucking hilarious.Bruddha said:Shak ... I had sex with your new girlfriend last night. You have nothing to worry about bro, she is cool with everything.
Fix what? Why?
Shak, buddy, in all seriousness, don't make a big thing out of it and then over dinner just slide a little question into the conversation. Something like "so how many miles of black cock do you figure you've taken?" or get a little sporty with "how about that Kobe Bryant, I bet he sure has a huge dong, you ever see anything like that?". You'll be glad you did, and remember, you heard it here first!
if this is just about sex, then who cares as long as you are having sex ... concentrate on the fact that she is having sex with you even if she is dreaming about him!shak said:
if this is a relationship, then its not just about sex -- great sex helps, but there's a lot more to relationships than just a big dick. if this becomes serious and your kids turn out to be black, THEN you have something to complain about.
meanwhile, it NEVER matters whose dick she's dreaming of while she's got yours in her mouth ... if it just makes her work all that harder, then collect the bonus points and shut up about it.
Very sporty and muscular? How did he get to be that way? Probably spent a lot of time in the gym? Maybe fooled around with steroids? In any case, he was totally preoccupied with himself, his body and the notion that women seek these qualities. Granted some do - the bimbos - but must most do not. That kind of individual is the type that really worthwhile women avoid like the plague. The fact that he is a former boyfriend demonstrates that he just didn't cut it with her, and she's looking for someone else. Are you going to be that special someone? Why don't you begin by asking her what she looks for in a man? She'll tell you, unless she hasn't been around. You'll then know if you qualify, and move on or make adjustments if you don't. It's that simple.shak said:
That is one of the funniest lines I've read in here. Change belief to misconception, and it'll make more sense. Performance in bed is something that takes up a very low percentage of your time with a woman, and ironically diminishes the longer you are with her. You must have a pretty low opinion of women if you believe they see this as a critically important quality. Let me draw a parallel. Compare a man's features to those found on a new car. Sure the engine performance is a great option that stands out when you first purchase it. But it is one of many that make up the package, and may not be what really makes you feel attached to it in the long haul. Sometimes it's one thing and sometimes it's a combination of things that promotes loyalty and attachment. I've drawn a long bow, but do you get my drift?
Now you've exposed your insecurity. We all have this problem that is rooted in fear, in a relationship. Any woman who compares you to "what she's had" is one to avoid like the plague (ex.: if he dumped her, you'll never capture her anyway; you'll be a convenient harbour until he or her next ship comes along - depending on the circumstances of the breakup, of course).
Here are qualities that attract women: Security, self-confidence, stability, self-esteem, how you present yourself, in every way, to her peers and loved ones, cleanliness, a nice smile (teeth?), your wisdom, your experience, how you deal with problems, your ability to get things done, your helpfulness around the house, on and on. Get half of these right, and you should have no problem.
*Damn, I just described myself*
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You've two problems:
Your self-esteem & confidence is pretty low. Women generally find that pretty unsexy. It's far more a turnoff to them than an "average" weenie.
You subscribe to a ridiculous stereotype. And even if blacks on average do have larger cocks, it doesn't add up to being a great lover. So maybe you've a few things to learn about pleasing a woman if you think it's all about size.
Your self-esteem & confidence is pretty low. Women generally find that pretty unsexy. It's far more a turnoff to them than an "average" weenie.
You subscribe to a ridiculous stereotype. And even if blacks on average do have larger cocks, it doesn't add up to being a great lover. So maybe you've a few things to learn about pleasing a woman if you think it's all about size.
No Bloody way....hornydude said:You know it ainn't just the brutha's...I tagged his girlfriend last night too after Brudha left...maybe there IS some truth to the whole size myth though, because she did feel a bit loose for me
You must of just missed me!!!!
I was bumpin uglies wit her yesterday too!
Myths will be Myths...
Penis size survey
It's not what everybody thinks...
Yogi, check this out!yogi said:
Penis size survey
It's not what everybody thinks...
Maury: What is the data source for your graph? Who collected the data? What organization, & who funded it?
But that's besides the point, at least for me.
My point was that it doesn't really matter what group has the biggest.
This guy is way to obsessed with the subject.
But that's besides the point, at least for me.
My point was that it doesn't really matter what group has the biggest.
This guy is way to obsessed with the subject.
