Sex is sex, but money is money.

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Great read..:clap2:
 
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Since I quit, no blow jobs, either. If you’re dating somebody and he didn’t live good before, and you start giving him blow jobs and doing different positions, you can spoil him. I don’t want to spoil someone that much.

If someone’s not paying you, you don’t have to do blow jobs, you don’t have to smile all the time, you can be yourself. But after a while you feel like something is missing. The something is money. You’re sitting in the same apartment, you’re the same you, but something is missing. Your wallet is empty. Sex is sex, but money is money.
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So where's the appeal in dating someone like that? and yet she doesn't consider herself a gold-digger? What about the other aspects of a relationship? Interesting story but not surprising. Out of the ladies here on PERB who've retired over the years I can only think of maybe two or three that made it out of the biz for good. Even the ones who seemingly found something you thought was a good life ended back in the sex trade. The attention and adoration is like a drug and no relationship can compete with the constant extravagance. Not even if she chooses to be with a person who can offer such a lifestyle.

Money is money...and this study proves it

http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2501480
 
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Super read!

I hate to pull out excerpts out of context but a couple of passages really stood out for me:

Svetlana Z said:
Mostly, I offered understanding. The truth is, even for guys who hire me for three or four hours, the sex usually only takes about 15 minutes. It’s the understanding they’re buying.
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Interesting perspective. The "understanding" is definitely a part of it.

Svetlana Z said:
And I learned that the best, most convincing, easiest way to show my clients I had an orgasm was just to say, “I just came.” That’s it. Nothing fancy. I’m not that good an actress, and it’s not necessary, anyway. “Oh, I came” would always do the trick. They believed it. They were so proud. The truth is, for most girls, you can’t tell: It’s like God, or love, you don’t see it, but you believe it exists.
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But I thought it was the whole act I was paying for!

Thanks suPERB for taking the time to post.

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Very interesting read, thanks for the post.
Svetlana is cold. I felt the article was a cry for help, love and affection. A very intelligent business person she was and managed to maximize on her investments. I do believe that her success only represents a small minority of SPs. Really, how many guys out there have limitless bank accounts and could spend that kind of money that the other 99% of society can only dream about. She claimed that she didn't hate men, but IMHO, she has very little respect for them. Everyone measures their level of happiness differently, but this story reaffirmed the cliche that money doesn't buy happiness, at least in this case.
My 5 cents, pennies are gone .
 
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Svetlana is cold. I felt the article was a cry for help, love and affection.
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With a considerable amount of condescension.
, how many guys out there have limitless bank accounts and could spend that kind of money that the other 99% of society can only dream about
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Make that 99.99%! I wonder how accurate her claims are.
she has very little respect for them. Everyone measures their level of happiness differently
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I've met a lot of women very much like her. It's not so much that she doesn't respect men, it's more like she sees everyone as someone to exploit. Every interaction is a win/loss, they never relax and have fun with friends. She said herself she could not relax and enjoy a nice meal because that was billable hours wasted. All she cares about is money.

After reading that I will take a few months off pooning. Pretty depressing reading about such mindless greedy people.
 
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westwoody said:
With a considerable amount of condescension.

Make that 99.99%! I wonder how accurate her claims are.

I've met a lot of women very much like her. It's not so much that she doesn't respect men, it's more like she sees everyone as someone to exploit. Every interaction is a win/loss, they never relax and have fun with friends. She said herself she could not relax and enjoy a nice meal because that was billable hours wasted. All she cares about is money.

After reading that I will take a few months off pooning. Pretty depressing reading about such mindless greedy people.
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Hell, I was thinking of giving it up all together. Maybe the bulk of her clients were pathetic shallow individuals, but to blanket all men into two or three categories..... Who is the shallow one?
Men seek out escorts for a variety of reasons, many of which may be shallow in nature, but believe it or not, men actually have something in the way of feelings as well. One of the worst examples I have ever seen was a review written at one time and the SP responded "I'm not exactly sure who you are, but I had a great time". Wonder how he felt, because she obviously didn't care.
 
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It was all good and I could see her point of view. Until she said she wouldn't give blow jobs and other positions to her boyfriends now that she wasn't escorting. Then I saw she was just another American b****. Even if she was Russian.
 
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1nitestan said:
So where's the appeal in dating someone like that? and yet she doesn't consider herself a gold-digger? What about the other aspects of a relationship? Interesting story but not surprising. Out of the ladies here on PERB who've retired over the years I can only think of maybe two or three that made it out of the biz for good. Even the ones who seemingly found something you thought was a good life ended back in the sex trade. The attention and adoration is like a drug and no relationship can compete with the constant extravagance. Not even if she chooses to be with a person who can offer such a lifestyle.

Money is money...and this study proves it

http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2501480
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Well said.
 
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I have yo say she replied something about this business that so many very sexy girl don't .
Make thd most you can. While you can..
Set your sights higher then 200 or 300 an hour.. or how much do I need for rent this month ..or my next fix..
You selling your self short.
Most women can be beautiful in the eyes of guys with money if they just think of them selves that way.. act and dress accordingly. ..

As for not giving her boy friend's blow job..
She seem to have learned nothing about why guys see escorts..
It showing you care as much about them as they do a out you.
Off course the guys these days .. Most don't because they don't get blow jobs lol
 
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luv 2 lick pussy said:
2 or 3 .....that you know only got out of this biz for good .... :confused:? You haven't been on Perb long then. There are many many who have left and never returned. I can list well over a dozen.

O.P......fabulous read :clap2:
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since 2005 for me. Maybe I haven't seen/gotten to know as many ladies as you, but I'm also counting the ones that re-appeared in a different city. I know some no longer advertise and are simply seeing a handful of regulars.
 
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I would say that most of what she says about the business is how it is. But, it sounds like she has significant personal issues though, particularly with regards to relationships, and it didn't start when she began escorting either. When she starts talking about her attitudes to personal relationships she starts to sound like a sociopath. She has family as a long term goal, but if she can't love and give of herself selflessly, what sort of relationship does she think she will have with her partner and her children?
 
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She lost me at no blow jobs...
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she wrote that part like the cold russian ice queen that she is

when i was there i saw LOTS of very beautiful women, but once i got talking with them, they all turned out to be about as sexy as a turnip

the process of 'communism' seemed to tear the humanity right out of its people
 
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Funny how some threads just seem to have a tendency of going in the opposite direction than the original intent.
 
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