Senior abuse -- I can't understand how people can do this!

Miss*Bijou

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I'm really not sure what to say but it's probably not necessary anyway, as I would imagine anyone reading this is thinking the same. What I would like to understand is HOW someone treats their own mother like that. If you look at the picture (link), it looks like a typical suburban home... Very disturbing.



Senior found freezing in couple's garage

Son, daughter-in-law charged with failing to provide necessities of life


A 68-year-old woman suffering from dementia is in serious condition after her son and daughter-in-law allegedly moved her into an uninsulated garage in their Toronto house for much of the winter.


An investigation into what police allege is a serious case of elder abuse began last Wednesday after emergency services were called about an unconscious woman at the house near McCowan Road and Finch Avenue East in Scarborough.


After the woman was taken to hospital, she suffered a stroke and was placed on life support. Medical staff told police the woman had likely been badly neglected for some time. Police said the woman was breathing on her own again by Monday afternoon, but her condition is listed as serious.


"She was suffering from what appeared to be a case of frostbite," Det. Mike Stones said. "She was unconscious and non-responsive. Upon arrival at hospital, the medical staff informed us that her stomach was empty. She had white urine, her skin was cold to the touch."


After the woman was taken to hospital, police searched the garage. Inside they found a box of adult diapers, one piece of bread and a mattress on top of a sheet of plywood, they said.



No access to house

They said the woman was using a portable toilet and had only a bucket for washing. Police believe she had no access to the house. Police told CBC News the garage had been converted into a makeshift bedroom and was unfit for human habitation.


"I'm disgusted," Stones said as he described the woman's living conditions.
"The heating source for that garage provided a maximum heat which was some 20 C cooler than that inside the house."


Stones said the adjoining two-storey house has two empty bedrooms, including one right beside a bathroom.


The woman's son and daughter-in-law were charged Friday with failing to provide the necessaries of life and criminal negligence causing bodily harm. Neighbours who spoke to CBC News were surprised at the discovery and described the family as quiet. A woman leaving the house Monday would not comment on the case.


Police said family members are looking after the charged couple's six-year-old daughter while they are in jail. Police said there were two tenants living in the house but also two empty bedrooms. Police said the woman was moved into the garage in November when her son became her legal guardian.


Experts who spoke to CBC News said elder abuse goes largely unreported.

"The estimate is that six to eight per cent of the older population are victims of abuse in Canada," said Judith Wall of the Advocacy Centre for the Elderly.



My brain hurts after reading this craziness. I mean, what pathetic excuses for human beings do this?!?
I don't get it! SO messed up.

Seriously.... WTF is wrong with these people OMG. :mad:



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Actually it's not as uncommon as you may think. In the industry that I work in, I seen some cases of clear cut senior abuse, but my managers wouldn't step up and allow me to do anything bout it. I've seen seniors come in with their kids on pension day and their kids see how much money is given by the government and the kids take 95% of it away and except their parent to live off the 5% for the rest of the month.

Or cases when kids find out that their parents have large sums of money some where and bring them in to withdraw it all. All I see is this scared and confused senior and when I ask questions to the old man bout where the money is their kid would answer and tell me to mind my own fucking business and demand they speak to my manager.

You'd be surprised how many kids have Power of Authority over their parents accounts, claiming to be taking care of their parents, but use the accounts to pay bills that are clearly not theirs

I dunno I've heard of some messed up stories of seniors with Dementia being taken advantage of and no one in the family was willing to take responsible till the government intervend.
 

emilioa4

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jeez. i dont understand either why they gotta do this. this old folks (i assuming) took care of their children and judging from there age, likely had a harder time growing up than the kids did. where's the payback??? these people have put the hard effort and work and care into their children to give them a good life and this is what they get in return? they should be taken care of now. ok i will admit i probably wont be able to support both of my parents financially in the same lifestyle they have now, but i will be doing my darn best to help with whatever i can. and should all fail they cant afford to keep a roof over their head, i dont care how crammed it would be they will have a room in my house to stay. they deserve it just because, no questions asked.
 

maroonedsailor

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I know no one wants to hear this but many of these cases are a result of children "getting even" for real or imagined abuse to themselves when THEY were defenseless. The other sadness is care facilities that simply medicate and warehouse seniors while milking them of whatever thay have left. My mother is going into an assisted care facility this week and we've gone to gfreat lengths to assure ourselves that she will be well cared for and that we will be able to oversee her care. As a society we have a lot to learn......
 

maroonedsailor

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I think Western culture specifically has a lot to learn. In many cultures, it is customary and expected that children give proper care to aging parents...especially those unable to care for themselves.
too true Gary - We also don't live with extended family under one roof like a lot of others do so sharing the load is harder. I'm not sure how that came about but it makes problems for us in many areas including home buying and other resource pooling benefits that accrue to more family oriented cultures.
 

CJ Tylers

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This kind of story just reminds me that I need to go hug my grandmothers more often :| Sickening, really.
 
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