You've got to be kidding me. I didn't know I had to justify my presence in this business based on what my expectations of friends are, in my personal life, outside of this business? That's news to me. I didn't quite get the whole reasoning behind the conclusion that she identifies as indecent.. but I still feel the same way about his behavior to, as a friend, expect and demand a BJ in exchange for help with a freaking chandelier being rude and inappropriate. Uuh.. Hello?
So, because I am in this business, I should be overwhelmed with pleasure when any guy off the street, in my circle of friends, an acquaintance, my landlord, my butcher (lol), hell - the cab driver too while we're at it.. I should jump for joy and at the chance of giving it away to them, for free (or whatever worth they decide).. and the reason I should be so happy about this wonderful opportunity, is because in another side of my life, I get asked for sex for an amount determined by me, one that is mutually and previously agree upon before anyone takes any clothes off or hands out an envelop?
Ahhh. OK.
Sorry, it is not the same. Yes, it is rude for anyone in my personal life to demand or expect any type of sexual favors, because they have accepted to do me a favor... and no, this is not in any way the same thing as someone asking/paying for services where everything is clear between both people as to what the expectations are.
Well, what can I say... I guess it's a good thing you and I are not friends then?! lol
You sure have lots to say for someone who's not concerned..
And isn't the lounge mostly about 'real life' related topics anyway?
What was the last "favour" you did for a woman? I'm curious to hear from both you and Sexyboy.
The missing information that could have avoided this turning into a 148 post thread.
Oh my.. That's a pretty big chip on your shoulder there. I am completely amazed that you could seriously believe this kind of crap.. and feel a little sorry for the women in your life, past, present or future, who make the mistake of asking you for a favor!
How the hell does asking for favors translate into, or even remotely relates to whether or not men and women are 'equal'? My male friends ask for as many favors as I ask, although I can't say I actually keep track.. I never equated their asking for a favor to them being lesser, or weak. Your mind has an interesting way of twisting things to make you feel superior to others around you, doesn't it?
Let me see if I understand your point of view...
So... have any of you ever asked one of your females friends for a favor? Maybe they cooked for you, gave you a ride somewhere, watched your place while you were away, whatever.. any favor. I suspect quite a few of you here don't even have female (platonic) friends to begin with, which pretty much says it all, but those of you who do can answer...
And how about asking favors from male friends? Say, help fixing or building something that requires more than one person, for example..
By asking for that favor from your friends (female and male), what you are saying is that you were really 'using' them? That was your intention? And how did you 'compensate' for it? Was the 'compensation' implied, expected or demanded of you from your friend once they had helped you out? Just curious..
I bet people must be lining up to be friends with some of you guys...
LMAO!... to funnyLesson learned, next time just accept her to "pay you for your time", turn around, hand it back and ask "how much for a bj?"
problem solved
Wake up, toots, and join the relevant discussion.
These are all fine points, except for the one where he could count on her, but thanks for your input just the same.
