selfish bastard

[Miss*Bijou]

Hey Miss Bijou, just because you hate your life is no reason for you to take out your anger on me.

Don't like sucking dick? Well ya shoulda stayed in school sweetheart

Full of..... errrr..... assumptions now, arent' we?

Well actually, JR... I do really like sucking dick. Like a lot.

As it happens, the job going to school landed me also did involve some sucking, but unfortunately not the good kind. It turns out corporate cock sucking is not as fun as one would think, involves a lot more time for a lot less money and the slow painful death of my spirit, my individuality as well as my sanity in cubicle land or rush hour traffic morning and night day after day after day after day...


My life now is a gift compared to being a corporate monkey. It involves freedom.
(sorry, no offense to corporate monkeys , no problem being a corporate monkey if that's what you want and what you like..... it just soooo was not what I did.. )


And the problem with your statement - is that regardless of how long one stayed in school, there are many, many, many terribly miserable and bitter, but yet highly educated people who hate their jobs and accept to sacrifice part of their soul for fear of actually making a change in their life. School doesn't teach you that.


If you're going to make statements about me thinking you're insulting me, please at least make sure you know WTF you are talking about next time , OK sweetheart? Thanks for coming out. Have a nice day, troll.

 

[naughtygirl]

Stop fucking him and see how long he sticks around

Actually he already isn't getting laid the way he should be for being a disrespectful ass like some of your comments. BTW he's still sticking around, but you know what, I don't care . Perhaps your his twin of disrespect
This is a review board, but try and have some respect for the people here, everyone has a reason for being here, yourself included, so stop attacking people and do what you came here for.

 

[belair]

Oh boy belair, altering someone's quote is sooo witty and creative! You really burned me good! You truly are a comic genius! I'm quite surprised that Saturday Night Live or Mad TV hasn't snapped you up yet!

Thank you.

 

[Jolly Rogerer]

Oh Miss Bijou, I was only teasing.

You know it takes all the fun out of it when you reply to my immature jabs and taunts with dignified, intelligent, maturity.

So knock it off

 

[Jolly Rogerer]

stop attacking people and do what you came here for.

I cant help it...I wasn't given enough attention as a child so I was forced to act out. Unfortunately I never learned to distinguish between good attention and bad attention even in my adult life. It's made things quite difficult for me...last week I wanted a raise but instead of asking for one I took a shit on my bosses desk.

It's a curse really

 

[Jolly Rogerer]

Actually he already isn't getting laid...BTW he's still sticking around..

Then he's fucking someone else.

I guarantee it.

 

[naughtygirl]

Then he's fucking someone else.

I guarantee it.

Wanna bet? He's so concerned about what I'm doing every minute of every day so he has no time to fuck anyone, trust me. I guarantee it. If he was getting fucked maybe he wouldn't be such an ass. Sorry but I do believe that some men CAN be faithful through the rough times

 

[Jolly Rogerer]

Wanna bet? He's so concerned about what I'm doing every minute of every day

So he's insanely possessive and as you stated earlier extremely insensitive?

Hmm, good catch...sounds like husband material to me

 

[Jolly Rogerer]

Do you like what you see when you look in mirror?

I could probably stand to work on my abs a little more but other then that I would say I'm quite handsome

 

[167abercrombie]

Called up a friend the other day for help hanging a chandelier

former friend...
It would be impossible to interpret the events based on one summary. I offer that it could be possible that someone may have talked very friendly upon asking for a favour?
It is very easy to mislead or to provide incorrect intentions, by simply enunciating an intended request for a "favour" and saying things more provocatively than was, from the sounds, intended.
Regardless, Mr. Dumber than a Sack of Hammers did take advantage or at least attempt to.
Given this situation, a quick trip to the kitchen, several "squirts" of Tobassco in your mouth - would have given him a warm feeling he would never have forgotten.

 

[SexyBoy]

Awwww.
Is your gf PMSing and making you pay for all the selfish bastards out there?

I bet you're the guy who buys your friend a coffee.... then the next day makes sure he buys yours, and make a point of saying you paid for his the previous time, so he owes you this one.


What he did is rude. Period.
If you ask a friend for a favor, they can accept or they can refuse. Simple as that.
But if they accept, they can't just demand something in return after the fact.

IMO - although that's still pretty selfish, but if for him favors are only worth it if he gets something in return, then he should have said that before accepting. She could have accepted it as an exchange of services, or turned it down because in the world of decent people, a favor is something you do out of kindness, and not for the BJ you think you should get out of it! But you can't accept to do a favor for a friend then turn around and put your hand out expecting something in return, or even worse, demanding what you think you should get in return. Come on.


That is exactly what is wrong with people. It's always about what you can get out of any situation, otherwise it's not worth it. How about the satisfaction of knowing you helped out a friend? How about knowing you have someone to count on when you're in a position where you need some help?

I can't even believe some of you think this is acceptable.

Hey sperm whatchamacallit disorder is life threatening! I think we need to set up a clinic with nurse outfits and everything!

You do know that if the roles were reversed and I called you up for help and you asked me for a good licking I would drop to my knees! You know most guys would. Men and women are just differant.

All we need is love.

 

[seannachie]

Sounds to me like both people misinterpreted the nature of their relationship. VV thought of him as a friend, treated him as such, and was distressed by his behaviour. He thought of her as a prostitute, treated her as such, and was distressed by her behaviour. Both people's expectations of one another were off target.

 

[kalel]

has anybody figured out yet that 90% of guys, when they're being nice to a girl what they're really saying is "can i get you some dick?" the sooner you figure that out the sooner you can decide who you accept favors from and who you don't.

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

I bet you're the guy who buys your friend a coffee.... then the next day makes sure he buys yours, and make a point of saying you paid for his the previous time, so he owes you this one.


What he did is rude. Period.
If you ask a friend for a favor, they can accept or they can refuse. Simple as that.
But if they accept, they can't just demand something in return after the fact.

IMO - although that's still pretty selfish, but if for him favors are only worth it if he gets something in return, then he should have said that before accepting. She could have accepted it as an exchange of services, or turned it down because in the world of decent people, a favor is something you do out of kindness, and not for the BJ you think you should get out of it! But you can't accept to do a favor for a friend then turn around and put your hand out expecting something in return, or even worse, demanding what you think you should get in return. Come on.


That is exactly what is wrong with people.

Sorry, toots, but in your poor attempt to defend the indefensible you have cleverly, like so many others, ignored the point.

Whether VV sucked his dick or not is unimportant. Whether he asked VV to suck his dick or not is unimportant.

Whether I dial 1-800-MissBijou and ask to set up a paid appointment for sex is unimportant. Whether, upon my call, you decline to see me is unimportant.

WHAT MATTERS IS... when I am out in public, and I see you seated with family or close friends, perhaps with impressionable children around you, I DO NOT, under any circumstances, approach you and show intimate familiarity with either your pussy or your naked photos.

You (and VV) simply cannot insist on some sort of mutually respectful protocol for human interactions in the real world, when you are clearly unable to offer same.

FACT IS, that VV describes having berated a friend to his face before she came to an online message board to further berate him in front of us. At the very least, this was a "real world" problem of VV's and it did not in any way concern the rest of us.


Thank you for your inference that, based on her having been surrounded by "the world of decent people" and not having done the (sexual) "favor", she identifies herself as indecent.

This is a woman who was asking for favors, per her own admission, and yet when a "friend" (presumably on the same level, in this "(real) world of decent people)" asked her for a favor, she went-off on him (and continues to do so given the very existence of this thread).

Finally, someone who asks for sex, is not "rude". Someone who forces your head onto his manhood is rude (and then some). How can you justify your presence in this business if it is your opinion that anyone who asks for sex is rude?

 

[SeekSteadyRegSP]

You are wrong. The reason that her friend was a douche is because he expected it. He volunteered to do his friend a favor. She doesn't owe him a damn thing.

Nobody ever suggested that VV "owed" the guy anything.

If you're not going to interact based on the thread as written, then why bother posting?

Had he "expected" it... then why would he have asked?

Had he "expected" VV's BJ, he would have dropped trow upon conclusion of his tasks.

VV's response is the only thing that remains inappropriate.

 

[CJ Tylers]

I don't know about a quickie, but I think an appropriate offer would've been some beer and maybe a snack (or a meal, if around lunch or dinner)... and the whole process should've gone like this (as in, this is how guy's brains work):

"Hey buddy, could I get you to come over and hang a chandalier for me? There'll be a six pack and some grub in it for you".

At that point, the guy probably is up for it, knows what's needed to be done and knows what payment is offered in trade for services. Don't leave anything open ended with guys... especially if you're an attractive woman... guys are hardwired such that if you are "doing something" with them, they assume you like them...and if you like them (and are single, and have flirted before)...well... you know how it goes.

 

[GoodKat]

Nobody ever suggested that VV "owed" the guy anything.

Yes, people did actually.

If you're not going to interact based on the thread as written, then why bother posting?

Had he "expected" it... then why would he have asked?

If he didn't expect it why would he get bent out of shape when she said no?

 

[BS Detector]

If he didn't expect it why would he get bent out of shape when she said no?

Excellent point !

 

[Miss*Bijou]

Finally, someone who asks for sex, is not "rude". Someone who forces your head onto his manhood is rude (and then some). How can you justify your presence in this business if it is your opinion that anyone who asks for sex is rude?

You've got to be kidding me. I didn't know I had to justify my presence in this business based on what my expectations of friends are, in my personal life, outside of this business? That's news to me. I didn't quite get the whole reasoning behind the conclusion that she identifies as indecent.. but I still feel the same way about his behavior to, as a friend, expect and demand a BJ in exchange for help with a freaking chandelier being rude and inappropriate. Uuh.. Hello?

So, because I am in this business, I should be overwhelmed with pleasure when any guy off the street, in my circle of friends, an acquaintance, my landlord, my butcher (lol), hell - the cab driver too while we're at it.. I should jump for joy and at the chance of giving it away to them, for free (or whatever worth they decide).. and the reason I should be so happy about this wonderful opportunity, is because in another side of my life, I get asked for sex for an amount determined by me, one that is mutually and previously agree upon before anyone takes any clothes off or hands out an envelop?

Ahhh. OK.


Sorry, it is not the same. Yes, it is rude for anyone in my personal life to demand or expect any type of sexual favors, because they have accepted to do me a favor... and no, this is not in any way the same thing as someone asking/paying for services where everything is clear between both people as to what the expectations are.


Well, what can I say... I guess it's a good thing you and I are not friends then?! lol

FACT IS, that VV describes having berated a friend to his face before she came to an online message board to further berate him in front of us. At the very least, this was a "real world" problem of VV's and it did not in any way concern the rest of us.

You sure have lots to say for someone who's not concerned.. lol Say... you happen to fix any chandeliers as a favor to someone lately? Just wondering...
And isn't the lounge mostly about 'real life' related topics anyway?

 

[AA_Train]

I have to side with the ladies on this one but with an asterick beside it.

If some friend, no matter what gender affiliation, asks for a favour and you decide to help them out, it should be its own reward along with the condition that they will do some kind of a favour in return down the road. If you want something right away, it should be pre-determined before the favour is performed. At that time the person in need of the favour can accept or decline.

However, this is a reality and unfortunately when most heterosexual guys do a favour for a woman (particularly an attractive one) they are usually angling for something sexual and if they are willing to hang a chandeliere for you for free, I think that VV should have had that possibility in the back of her mind, as hanging a chandeliere is a pretty shitty job. I doesn't make it right, but that's the way it is.