Do guys really send selfies to see a provider. I myself am not comfortable with it. I don’t know these girls and a face picture could come back to haunt me or used to blackmail me. This is a hobby and don’t want my hobby to come into my real life. So I was just curious if this was a normal thing to do?
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I, personally, wouldn't send one no matter how much I may like to see them.
The more you/I/we support this request, the more common it will become. Just look at deposit scams. The more idiots that fall for it, the more I'm going to continue to post deposit-scam ads. Ooops, I mean, the more ads will get posted.
The more you/I/we support this request, the more common it will become. Just look at deposit scams. The more idiots that fall for it, the more I'm going to continue to post deposit-scam ads. Ooops, I mean, the more ads will get posted.
Hahaha meanwhile I have every single client happily sending me their LinkedIn. It’s just a different level of client who screens properly. My clients trust me, and want me to feel safe and secure. The sex is so much better when I’m not scared like I used to be. When I used to have total strangers come to my house I would get anxious every single time. Now I’m excited to meet my clients. I feel that if a client doesn’t respect me and my business enough to give me their identity they don’t deserve to fuck me 🤷🏼♀️
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This is an activity where it’s in everyones best interest to hide their identity. I’m shocked that anyone would provide links to their LinkedIn account to an SP. How likely is the SP to provide their real identity.
I can understand the deposit request however in my case I’ll just skip to the next girl not making that request.
Fortunately there’s plenty to choose from out there for both sides of the arrangement so shouldn’t be hard finding matches that fit your screening criteria.
I can understand the deposit request however in my case I’ll just skip to the next girl not making that request.
Fortunately there’s plenty to choose from out there for both sides of the arrangement so shouldn’t be hard finding matches that fit your screening criteria.
hahahah shocked! that's so funny. it's SO common.
You show me your LinkedIn, I'll have you over to my house and risk you stalking, raping, assaulting, or killing me. Then I'll even suck your dick and let you fuck me! I know it's a lot to ask but hey, seems like some guys feel it's a fair trade. 🤪 I'll stick with them. I'm so sorry for being too unreasonable for you. Hope you'll forgive me someday.
It very much depends on the provider. Would I send a selfie to a girl who pops up on LL and has very little or no track record or reviews? Absolutely not. To a provider like Charlee who's well known, well reviewed and reputable? Yes.
I find it interesting how many people balk at sending a selfie to someone like Charlee who's about to have sex with the guy on the other side of the door, and want's to stay safe. On the other hand they'll gladly post their entire lives, their kids, their business and just about anything on Facebook for the entire world to see. If some one wants to use your info for criminal or some other illegitimate purpose they're way more likely to swipe it from your social media accounts to fuck with you.
Ask the girl if she will simply erase the pic from her phone once she's seen you. If you don't trust her to do that then you likely shouldn't be fucking her.
Just MHO
I find it interesting how many people balk at sending a selfie to someone like Charlee who's about to have sex with the guy on the other side of the door, and want's to stay safe. On the other hand they'll gladly post their entire lives, their kids, their business and just about anything on Facebook for the entire world to see. If some one wants to use your info for criminal or some other illegitimate purpose they're way more likely to swipe it from your social media accounts to fuck with you.
Ask the girl if she will simply erase the pic from her phone once she's seen you. If you don't trust her to do that then you likely shouldn't be fucking her.
Just MHO
Yes Elektra, I have had issues.
Anyone can go off the rails regardless of past history.
In my instance it was a highly rated Vancouver lady who I had a fantastic time previously. Last time I saw her she was nuts, kept looking out the window, had a knife hidden under the pillow, and demanded more money days later.
She retired soon after.
Anyone can go off the rails regardless of past history.
In my instance it was a highly rated Vancouver lady who I had a fantastic time previously. Last time I saw her she was nuts, kept looking out the window, had a knife hidden under the pillow, and demanded more money days later.
She retired soon after.
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I'm sure something like that doesn't happen in every day.
All I can say is trust no one. Or if you do, use your good judgments with precious and with a certain distance.
Regular or not regular it takes a long time to really know somebody.
We’re all trying to do what’s in our own best interest. For me that would be staying completely anonymous.
If a girl thinks me being anonymous is a risk she’s not willing to take I completely accept that and simply move on to next on the list.
If a girl thinks me being anonymous is a risk she’s not willing to take I completely accept that and simply move on to next on the list.
Prince Andrew is regretting revealing his identity right now. Just saying.
Prince Andrew knowingly participated in human trafficking, and the sexual exploitation of minors. If that’s your reason for not following a SPs screening requests then you have just explained the reason she needs to do it.
There's not many Prince Andrew walking among us just saying
I think this is a more thoughtful/considered approach. Obviously it would be risky to provide personal identification details to a random internet stranger.
But if you've done your homework and chosen a provider based on favourable reviews then there should be no risk in providing ID for screening and a deposit. There is also the added bonus that if you've done your homework you are much more likely to find a provider you are more likely to have good experience with.
So far I have never had a bad experience from providing screening/deposit, but I've also proceeded with confidence because I did my homework first.
Another thing to consider by both sides, once the information are sent, how secure are the data being kept? Would the files/photos be stored on a computer and password protected with strong password (I don't mean the computer since most would need password to login anyway)? Computers/phones can be hacked, stolen, lost, or need repair where the technician will have access to the hard drive.
I personally would have no problem sending a selfie or Linkein info to reputable providers like Charles, Electra, and many others (and I have). Yes I had a small pang of worry but it also helped me focus on not wasting her time, committing, and what followed were always fantastic dates.
Sending this info to “19 yo coed party-favour-friendly 24/7 100000% real pics or it’s free”, posting at 1am on LL? Um, no.
Sending this info to “19 yo coed party-favour-friendly 24/7 100000% real pics or it’s free”, posting at 1am on LL? Um, no.
Are these the same guys who don't know how to wipe their asses and wash their balls...
Lol I have to admit that this a good one .
It only means that one doesn't necessarily go with the other .... You never really know who you're dealing with. Slobs are everywhere . It's not an income or status thing , it's how someone was raised , trained and apply common sense. You have to agree !?!?
At the end of the day for the ladies, it's their safety their prerogatives to request what they need to feel safe in their line of work.
As for the scams out there it's sadly up to us to improve our knowledge by researching who we want to spend time with.
Thank God!
This thread made me look up what linkedin is. I heard that name before, but didn't know what it was. Seems like a weird ass website.
