Self Conscious

[shedevil]

Do any SPs feel self conscious about any part of their body with a client?.

Sure we do. I am, and I am not afraid to admit it either. People DO have an unrealistic expectation of us (SP). Our entire business/livelihoods and well-being depends on our bodies, talk about pressure.

I feel self conscious about having what could be described as a smaller than normal dick. It has always bothered me. When I was younger, I was probably the last kid to get pubic hair so in gym class I always tried to keep my manhood concealed.

Today, I see guys in the gym in morning standing at the mirror stark naked in front of everyone while shaving and think, "Fuck I could never do that."

What I learned a very long time ago is that people love it or hate it. There is no in between. Some people only like real boobs, some don't care either way. Some men are put off by tattoo's and others really like it,etc..

I HAVE BEEN WRONG, of course.

What are you going to do? Nothing, continue to be yourself.
We are not meant to please every one, don't make yourself sick over it. I do this, and broadcast pictures of myself all over the place, but I don't swim, go to the beach, nor do I go to a public gym. (It's a bit of a germ thing too )

In the past, I'vew been with SPs who I know feel self conscious about a part of their body. For example, they'll keep a piece of clothing on around their mid-section to hide what they believe is a stomach that's too big. Women who get breast implants obviously felt self conscious about their breast size.

I'd be interested in hearing from both pooners and SPs.

I am sure that you have heard this before, but the percentage of people that fit the status quo would really only be about 10% of the population.

A lot of your feelings comes from the Media and how they portray what you should be like. Look at how people market their products?

Most girls at the age of 7 complain that they are fat, can you tell me why?

Same with breast implants. I have never had them, but I did watch a documentary once on why women get them. Mostly,( and I am not saying every one ...) women get them because they have very low self esteem.

My 2 cents,
SD

 

[n2supersymmetry]

Yeah I do get self-conscious mainly because I haven't been taking care of my body for a long while.
Baddish diet, long work hours, hate working out all contribute to my less than stellar appearance. I didn't give a crap before because it didn't really matter to me all that much.
Well that all changed when I started to see sp's. Yeah, I know I am paying in part for you sp's not to care but still, I feel kinda bad to let all hang out and you looking beautiful and fit.
So I find myself doing a little exercise everyday ... not much mind you ... a little free weights, situps and pushups ... better diet and eating less. Boy that made a huge difference, the old stomach shrank (still got some handles and a little belly but that's pretty hard to take off ), loss some weight, got some muscle definition and size.
I must say I am a lot more confident in general
So am still self-conscious ?... well a little because I am pretty shy but it's gotten a lot better
As to my dick size ... well I can't changed that size no matter what exercise I do (Yes I do exercise that sector ) so that gives me incentive to work on my "other" pleasuring skills (yeah, you can do more just thrust guys! ).
So it works out in the end .. it just depends on how you look at it and what you are willing to do.

 

[FuZzYknUckLeS]

... but I did watch a documentary once on why women get them. Mostly,( and I am not saying every one ...) women get them because they have very low self esteem.
..

men get them because it makes them feel like a woman. mostly. ( and I am not saying every one ...)

 

[necko]

I applaud anyone who is trying to take better care of themselves, me if I could stop eating late at night and quit drinking 3 doz beer a week, i know i'd lose some weight, but shit what does it matter if I don't care.

 

[n2supersymmetry]

I applaud anyone who is trying to take better care of themselves, me if I could stop eating late at night and quit drinking 3 doz beer a week, i know i'd lose some weight, but shit what does it matter if I don't care.

Don't you goddamn tempt me !

 

[necko]

Don't you goddamn tempt me !

This Prince of Darknesss dude I think I married his sister

 

[50 Mile Radius]

when at full mast its noticeably larger then the run of the mill dick.

Whatever you think there, Howie....

 

[50 Mile Radius]

every sex expert I've ever seen

So, just what have you seen a sex expert for?......I can see/hear the conversation ...probably went something like this:

Doc: So, HiFi, i mean Modwest.....I mean Gravitas.......besides the multiple personality disorder, what seems to be troubling you?

Gravitas: Well doc, I have this premature ejaculation problem...

Doc: Well, Gravitas, do you think it has anything to do with your desire to be the best, have the best, want the best......but knowing your truly...................


INADEQUATE????

 

[stryker]

Stryker ducks and goes in search of pop corn

 

[50 Mile Radius]

Stryker ducks

What, you're the only one that's allowed to stir shit????


(btw, 50's feeling a 'lil fiesty today)

(also btw, 50 fucking hates it when he refers to himself in the third person)

 

[vancouverman]

I'm ready for part 2

 

[vancouverman]

(also btw, 50 fucking hates it when he refers to himself in the third person)

I'm sure... she would be able to bring you back to ..... "normal"

 

[LonelyGhost]

What, you're the only one that's allowed to stir shit????

I thought you boys called it 'fudge packing'? I guess the inadequate among you are only able to ... stir shit?

 

[Annalise Lane]

When gentleman call and want to see me I ask them if they have seen my website. Now I'll admit my site doesn't show my whole body but it does give honest weight and looks. Most of the time they already know and don't care, it's the service their after NOT my model body.

Everyone see's ladies for different reasons ... none of which is to take them home to their Moms. They want someone who will treat them right, give them time and intimacy and gentle kisses. NOT someone who is going to sit there and make the gentleman do all the work. And from what I hear most of the time model type ladies do just that, now not all of them but the majority.

Health comes in different forms and I would rather my personality be healthy then any part of my body.

And lets not forget the robot gals who do the same thing over and over. The ones you can tell are not into it ... more often then not ... their the tiny gals with little or no interest in your pleasure.

In my experience being a bbw in this industry is .... Gentleman want to be lusted after - regardless of what they look like. They want to feel like a king for the short time you are with them. Personality goes a long way to giving this to the men that choose to be with us.

Our goal as ladies is to make you believe beyond a shadow of a doubt you are their bf for the time you are together. To give you your desired fantasy regardless of what it might be ( keeping to the menu of course ) Men's jobs when hiring a lady is to treat them with kindness. Who gives a flying fuck what either person looks like.

Be kind to one another !!

 

[Annalise Lane]

I don't provide FS, but if I would, I would probably prefer to be banged for a prolonged time by a small dick instead of a huge one

Don't worry, chances are those girls have seen dicks a lot smaller than yours

and I'm with massagelady on this one ...

I'd rather a gentleman beat up my sides instead of botteming out. Big cocks actually hurt without the right foreplay ... and most of the time they dont bother with fooling around.

Man -> hard cock -> incert -> cum -> done

It's a womans job to slow them down and enjoy the experience ... !!