I have used both sites. On Seeking Arrangements I have had to wade through a few scams involving women (or men) hiding behind fake but enticing profiles to get me to email them money to help them out with a "tragedy" but I also get a lot of legitimate and interesting results from messages sent to me through the site from women who actually exist and want to make arrangements. I have had several successful relationships through this site but do have to weed through a lot of crap sometimes to get them.
On Secret Benefits however you get on the site for free and are bombarded by messages but you cannot unlock them without buying credits which enable you to respond to a number of the messages on an unlimited basis related to how many credits you buy. However it appears after buying them that either the profiles on the site are bots, or apparently the messages are sent out without the woman's knowledge on an automatic basis to entice the user to buy credits from the site to open them. I did that and of the 8 women I messaged who had originally messaged and favorited me not one response in over a month. From my experience I would have to say that this site is a worthless site full of fake profiles and deceives not only the men but the women who use it in an attempt to line their own pockets by providing false and misleading information to its users.
Has anyone on here ever had any positive results from Secret Benefits or am I an outlier?
On Secret Benefits however you get on the site for free and are bombarded by messages but you cannot unlock them without buying credits which enable you to respond to a number of the messages on an unlimited basis related to how many credits you buy. However it appears after buying them that either the profiles on the site are bots, or apparently the messages are sent out without the woman's knowledge on an automatic basis to entice the user to buy credits from the site to open them. I did that and of the 8 women I messaged who had originally messaged and favorited me not one response in over a month. From my experience I would have to say that this site is a worthless site full of fake profiles and deceives not only the men but the women who use it in an attempt to line their own pockets by providing false and misleading information to its users.
Has anyone on here ever had any positive results from Secret Benefits or am I an outlier?





