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Seeking Arrangements vs Secret Benefits

Hugh Jass

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I have used both sites. On Seeking Arrangements I have had to wade through a few scams involving women (or men) hiding behind fake but enticing profiles to get me to email them money to help them out with a "tragedy" but I also get a lot of legitimate and interesting results from messages sent to me through the site from women who actually exist and want to make arrangements. I have had several successful relationships through this site but do have to weed through a lot of crap sometimes to get them.

On Secret Benefits however you get on the site for free and are bombarded by messages but you cannot unlock them without buying credits which enable you to respond to a number of the messages on an unlimited basis related to how many credits you buy. However it appears after buying them that either the profiles on the site are bots, or apparently the messages are sent out without the woman's knowledge on an automatic basis to entice the user to buy credits from the site to open them. I did that and of the 8 women I messaged who had originally messaged and favorited me not one response in over a month. From my experience I would have to say that this site is a worthless site full of fake profiles and deceives not only the men but the women who use it in an attempt to line their own pockets by providing false and misleading information to its users.

Has anyone on here ever had any positive results from Secret Benefits or am I an outlier?
 

badbadboy

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It’s a similar experience for me.

I gave up on Secret Benefits partly for having so many bogus emails and the comments I read here that it’s merely a Bot site. I wonder if it’s legit at all.

I’ve had mostly positive experiences on SA though I did have someone asking right off the bat for etransfers.

I met SB #5 tonight from SA and she was smart, sexy and great in bed. The hairy cooch was a total surprise thinking all 20 somethings shaved it bare. I hadn’t seen a hairy one in a while so I had difficulty not showing my surprise.

Pro tip - be active towards the end of month when rent is due. It was fun cherry picking tonight with a number of babes online.
 

Hugh Jass

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May 11, 2015
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It’s a similar experience for me.

I gave up on Secret Benefits partly for having so many bogus emails and the comments I read here that it’s merely a Bot site. I wonder if it’s legit at all.

I’ve had mostly positive experiences on SA though I did have someone asking right off the bat for etransfers.

I met SB #5 tonight from SA and she was smart, sexy and great in bed. The hairy cooch was a total surprise thinking all 20 somethings shaved it bare. I hadn’t seen a hairy one in a while so I had difficulty not showing my surprise.

Pro tip - be active towards the end of month when rent is due. It was fun cherry picking tonight with a number of babes online.
That tip explains why my inbox has been hopping the last few days....never thought about that before (though I probably should have). If I act on all my solid contacts in the last couple of days my bank account is going to be severely depleted over the next few weeks.

Meanwhile my Secret Benefits account remains completely inert.
 

80watts

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Get married....

There are tax considerations, RSP contributions to make etc.

As long as you put work into it, don't cheat and bring home disease you will have a happy life....

After a long life the only problem is that if she dies, you will last less than 6 months....
 

Correct

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Get married....

There are tax considerations, RSP contributions to make etc.

As long as you put work into it, don't cheat and bring home disease you will have a happy life....

After a long life the only problem is that if she dies, you will last less than 6 months....
I think that you meant to post this in a different thread.
 

Kokoo

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Some SBs maybe amateurs but they're usually professional hustlers. They might also be SPs but the hustling kind. Being an SB is all about trying to hustle as much out of you as possible. At least with an SP there are hourly rates. With the SB/SD world there are no limits and if the SB is good she'll milk you for as long as she can. BEWARE the SB/SD world isn't that fun.
 

JimDandy

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Some SBs maybe amateurs but they're usually professional hustlers. They might also be SPs but the hustling kind. Being an SB is all about trying to hustle as much out of you as possible. At least with an SP there are hourly rates. With the SB/SD world there are no limits and if the SB is good she'll milk you for as long as she can. BEWARE the SB/SD world isn't that fun.
CBC's Passionate Eye is going to have an episode on SB/SD this weekend. I read a summary and it is pretty predictable.

JD
 
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