I recently saw a sp I’ve visted at a day job as a bartender. Was embarrassing for us both as I was on a date. Anyone experienced this ? Just a weird interest in how you handled it ..
Seeing a sp you’ve visited at a day job
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I'd expect you to be professional about it, treat me like any bartender, and I would treat you like any guest. Nothing embarrassing then.
I live in Montreal and despite the beliefs it's not that of a big city. I run accross my clients all the time. I just ignore them because I don't want to create an unwanted situation.
I agree with the others be professional, treat her as what job she's at, don't mention anything about her other job and tip well. You wouldn't want her seeing you at your job in front of your co workers and be like "oh while Im here I wanted to confirm your appointment this week to get pegged by me and my 10 inch strapon"....unless she's coming to your job to do that :lol:
When first started hobby back in the day, I ran into an even more awkward situation but stayed professional. Ran into a SP who the earlier in the week rode the living daylights out of me, walked into my work place with a ring on her finger and the guy who was to be her husband to do a tour and possibly book their wedding ceremony there. I acted as we just met and conducted everything professionally like any other client. They never booked there, she said the decor and layout was too odd. Saw her a few weeks later. Her man was in school and she was supporting him. He never knew, she told him something else about the money. I have nothing but respect for that lady and hopes she's happily married.
When first started hobby back in the day, I ran into an even more awkward situation but stayed professional. Ran into a SP who the earlier in the week rode the living daylights out of me, walked into my work place with a ring on her finger and the guy who was to be her husband to do a tour and possibly book their wedding ceremony there. I acted as we just met and conducted everything professionally like any other client. They never booked there, she said the decor and layout was too odd. Saw her a few weeks later. Her man was in school and she was supporting him. He never knew, she told him something else about the money. I have nothing but respect for that lady and hopes she's happily married.
I think she just didn't want to have to pretend everytime she sees you off the clock
I went into a restaurant on commercial drive and saw a SP I’ve seen a few times with her friends, we both had that “oh no” look on our faces. Funny thing about it was the lady I was having dinner with was also a SP lol. I have seen a few others I usually don’t say anything unless they approach me first.
I've run into many SPs in restaurants and hot spots around town over the years. It's more likely to happen if you frequent certain establishments that is to their liking of course.
It's no big deal unless you make it a big deal. Be normal, act casual, and they will likely act the same with no incident no matter who you or they are with.
It's no big deal unless you make it a big deal. Be normal, act casual, and they will likely act the same with no incident no matter who you or they are with.
A regular that I see was checking in ahead of me at a hotel. I was there for a conference, she was there for, well, work. We exchanged smiles as she left the desk. I finished my check-in and she was still in the lobby. We met each other at the elevator and she asked me to help her with her luggage.
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