Searching for a new regular - independent, white in her 20s/30s

[toda1]

The regular I have been seeing 1.5hr once a week (sometimes once every two weeks) for more than a year recently turned batshit crazy. It started with the clock watching, to the last minute cancellation with the bullshit "I'm too tired" excuse, and now it is all drama with scheduling and rescheduling. I have never been married but it has turned into what I assume an unhappy marriage is like. Now, it is time for a divorce.

As the title suggests, I am looking for independent, white (preferably blonde) in her 20s/30s. I'm looking for 1.5hr session once every two weeks or once a week if my schedule allows. I know it will take some time to find the one that you click with so any recommendation is welcome. Price doesn't matter to me.

If anyone has any experience with this sort of longer arrangements with SP or even SB as I have never done it but is willing to try, please let me know. You can PM me.

Thank you all in advance!

 

[emacky]

Emma Cassels
https://twitter.com/emma_cassel?s=09

Katie Day
https://twitter.com/KatieDayXo?s=09

Unfortunately neither are blonde but they seem very reputable

 

[badbadboy]

The regular I have been seeing 1.5hr once a week (sometimes once every two weeks) for more than a year recently turned batshit crazy. It started with the clock watching, to the last minute cancellation with the bullshit "I'm too tired" excuse, and now it is all drama with scheduling and rescheduling. I have never been married but it has turned into what I assume an unhappy marriage is like. Now, it is time for a divorce.

As the title suggests, I am looking for independent, white (preferably blonde) in her 20s/30s. I'm looking for 1.5hr session once every two weeks or once a week if my schedule allows. I know it will take some time to find the one that you click with so any recommendation is welcome. Price doesn't matter to me.

If anyone has any experience with this sort of longer arrangements with SP or even SB as I have never done it but is willing to try, please let me know. You can PM me.

Thank you all in advance!

Maybe try having four regulars? I’ve had a ‘ small circle of friends ‘ in the past and cutting down the frequency of visits to one SP to every four to six weeks. Worked fairly well. Any time I’ve stayed with seeing one once Per week, it was fine for a while and turned to shit after 3 months. All the same issues of cancellations, rescheduling and unpleasantness is unacceptable

The old ‘familiarity breeds contempt’ adage was quite true IMO. Maybe that’s what has happened with your regular? If you saw her much less would the atmosphere improve or is it broken?

I wouldn’t jump into an exclusive arrangement for a while. Meet some new SP and if one seems right, give it a shot.

Jumping into the SB arena is not without its own set of issues. The cancellations, rescheduling and ghosting are the same.

 

[taster]

Maybe try having four regulars? I’ve had a ‘ small circle of friends ‘ in the past and cutting down the frequency of visits to one SP to every four to six weeks. Worked fairly well. Any time I’ve stayed with seeing one once Per week, it was fine for a while and turned to shit after 3 months. All the same issues of cancellations, rescheduling and unpleasantness is unacceptable

The old ‘familiarity breeds contempt’ adage was quite true IMO. Maybe that’s what has happened with your regular? If you saw her much less would the atmosphere improve or is it broken?

I wouldn’t jump into an exclusive arrangement for a while. Meet some new SP and if one seems right, give it a shot.

Jumping into the SB arena is not without its own set of issues. The cancellations, rescheduling and ghosting are the same.

Couldn't agree more....have multiple regulars to prevent dependence/obsession/boredom/entitlement

 

[toda1]

Maybe try having four regulars? I’ve had a ‘ small circle of friends ‘ in the past and cutting down the frequency of visits to one SP to every four to six weeks. Worked fairly well. Any time I’ve stayed with seeing one once Per week, it was fine for a while and turned to shit after 3 months. All the same issues of cancellations, rescheduling and unpleasantness is unacceptable

The old ‘familiarity breeds contempt’ adage was quite true IMO. Maybe that’s what has happened with your regular? If you saw her much less would the atmosphere improve or is it broken?

I wouldn’t jump into an exclusive arrangement for a while. Meet some new SP and if one seems right, give it a shot.

Jumping into the SB arena is not without its own set of issues. The cancellations, rescheduling and ghosting are the same.

Sounds like you have been through this before.

I think you are right. Everything started going to shit after she cancelled last minute giving me the "I'm too tired" excuse. I understand that emergencies can happen or that we can have an off day since we are all human. However, it was so painfully obvious that it was a bullshit excuse. I would have been ok with simple "I have an emergency. Can we reschedule?" You lose respect for that person after that.

I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt by trying to book a few days after that for our usual time but she tried to move the time earlier saying that she has to be somewhere after ("for another date"). After I told her I don't like to be rushed so let's just think of another day, she comes back saying she has pushed her plan so we can now have our usual time. By then, I told her I made other plans. After that, she became very cold. It's kind of fucked how she can do whatever she wants but I can't see other people. GFE turned into Unhappy Marriage Experience real fast.

Thank you for the advice. I will meet some new SPs until I can mentally recover from this one. Having four regulars sounds better than having only one

 

[chico604]

The regular I have been seeing 1.5hr once a week (sometimes once every two weeks) for more than a year recently turned batshit crazy. It started with the clock watching, to the last minute cancellation with the bullshit "I'm too tired" excuse, and now it is all drama with scheduling and rescheduling. I have never been married but it has turned into what I assume an unhappy marriage is like. Now, it is time for a divorce.

As the title suggests, I am looking for independent, white (preferably blonde) in her 20s/30s. I'm looking for 1.5hr session once every two weeks or once a week if my schedule allows. I know it will take some time to find the one that you click with so any recommendation is welcome. Price doesn't matter to me.

If anyone has any experience with this sort of longer arrangements with SP or even SB as I have never done it but is willing to try, please let me know. You can PM me.

Thank you all in advance!

Cami Parker, she an absolute gem

 

[hockeyfan42`]

The regular I have been seeing 1.5hr once a week (sometimes once every two weeks) for more than a year recently turned batshit crazy. It started with the clock watching, to the last minute cancellation with the bullshit "I'm too tired" excuse, and now it is all drama with scheduling and rescheduling. I have never been married but it has turned into what I assume an unhappy marriage is like. Now, it is time for a divorce.

As the title suggests, I am looking for independent, white (preferably blonde) in her 20s/30s. I'm looking for 1.5hr session once every two weeks or once a week if my schedule allows. I know it will take some time to find the one that you click with so any recommendation is welcome. Price doesn't matter to me.

If anyone has any experience with this sort of longer arrangements with SP or even SB as I have never done it but is willing to try, please let me know. You can PM me.

Thank you all in advance!

You honestly might want to try an SB, they tend to be younger hotter and less expensive than most SP's plus pretty much every girl in vancouver under the age of 25 is on seeking. It takes a little more time to find a good one(I would suggest doing a meet and greet with an SB) you also have to be careful with SBs because in my experience alot of them become very attached, clingy and will try to turn it into a real relationship but honestly based on you're post it kind of seems like you might want that , where as an SP is pretty much instant and guaranteed no strings attached. But for what you are describing and if you just want one regular rather than a variety of girls an SB might be a better choice

 

[staredecisis]

you kind of sound like a nightmare but you can always try me

So what did he do? I can't really see anything he did wrong but I'm open to another interpretation

 

[Hantingan]

Imo SB is More desperate for $$ when compared to sp. I prefer seeing sp than sb due to their attitude and One time spent 500 for 2 hrs, horrible lay. And conversation wasn't great. They keep asking for more and not reliable. However it could be different as there many kind of sb and sp. It really depends on the person and chemistry

 

[toda1]

Imo SB is More desperate for $$ when compared to sp. I prefer seeing sp than sb due to their attitude and One time spent 500 for 2 hrs, horrible lay. And conversation wasn't great. They keep asking for more and not reliable. However it could be different as there many kind of sb and sp. It really depends on the person and chemistry

That's why I'm hesitant about SB. From what I heard, price can be a moving scale with SB and you get ghosted if you don't keep handing out more dough. But with SP, especially high-end ones, you can expect a certain level of professionalism and service for a price set beforehand.

 

[RalphiEboy]

You honestly might want to try an SB, they tend to be younger hotter and less expensive than most SP's plus pretty much every girl in vancouver under the age of 25 is on seeking. It takes a little more time to find a good one(I would suggest doing a meet and greet with an SB) you also have to be careful with SBs because in my experience alot of them become very attached, clingy and will try to turn it into a real relationship but honestly based on you're post it kind of seems like you might want that , where as an SP is pretty much instant and guaranteed no strings attached. But for what you are describing and if you just want one regular rather than a variety of girls an SB might be a better choice

SBs: ✋

 

[hockeyfan42`]

That's why I'm hesitant about SB. From what I heard, price can be a moving scale with SB and you get ghosted if you don't keep handing out more dough. But with SP, especially high-end ones, you can expect a certain level of professionalism and service for a price set beforehand.

honestly I think if you want to go the SB route you're success might determine alot on how attractive you are and you're age, if you're young and decent looking it'll be alot cheaper than an SP and you'll find the type of girls (young, model looks, actually have personalities) that are rare in the SP world. But the SB route takes alot more time and effort for sure. I would atleast sign up for a SB site and see whats out there. But with an SP you know what you're getting and when you're experienced you rarely have a terrible experience.

 

[toda1]

...or maybe it's just the characterization of someone who who doesn't do exactly what and when he wants as 'batshit crazy'...

What else would you call:

After seeing each other once a week for more than a year, one day all of a sudden, she cancels last minute without real explanation/reason and without an apology
and also reschedules previous commitment times and then goes back to the original commitment times whenever she feels like it.

I didn’t disclose her name and I didn’t talk shit about her except to explain what happened for context (as in I want to find someone who is reliable and professional).

Like I said, I understand we are all human but there should always be what is acceptable behaviour and what is not.

Sir, this is a Wendy’s. If you have nothing useful to add, instead of painting me as the bad guy without knowing what happened, please stay in the Lounge area and stick to talking about politics like you do all day.

Essentially, all I wanted was recommendations for SPs who are reliable and remain professional long term.

 

[toda1]

How DARE she reschedule. How. Dare. She.

you’re not entitled to know why, you’re not entitled to know what’s going on in her life, you’re not entitled to her time or body EVER.

I’m reliable and remain professional. So are many of my friends. I can tell you that I’m pretty sure none of us want to see you at this point, after the kind of shit you’re saying 😆

I never said rescheduling was the problem. I understand shit happens and people need to reschedule. Just as it is unacceptable for clients to last minute cancel/don’t show up without apology/reason or reschedule constantly, shouldn’t it be the same for SPs too? So, it’s ok for SPs to waste clients’ time but not the other way around?

Jesus, with your mentality, I’m surprised there are guys who see you. I must respectfully say you are not my type so no loss there

 

[LLLurkJ2]

What else would you call:

After seeing each other once a week for more than a year, one day all of a sudden, she cancels last minute without real explanation/reason and without an apology
and also reschedules previous commitment times and then goes back to the original commitment times whenever she feels like it.

I didn’t disclose her name and I didn’t talk shit about her except to explain what happened for context (as in I want to find someone who is reliable and professional).

Like I said, I understand we are all human but there should always be what is acceptable behaviour and what is not.

Sir, this is a Wendy’s. If you have nothing useful to add, instead of painting me as the bad guy without knowing what happened, please stay in the Lounge area and stick to talking about politics like you do all day.

Essentially, all I wanted was recommendations for SPs who are reliable and remain professional long term.

This is a Wendy's? Sounds like you got the frosty.

If your version of 'explaining' the situation is to call someome batshit crazy and put 100% of the blame on them, then i guess we speak different languages. In my experience people who do this tend to be the guiltier party in the relationship, and not 'the victim' they portray themselves as.

 

[toda1]

It looks like my thread got hijacked by SJWs and simps.

I will no longer respond to this thread.

Thank you to all those who actually gave me recommendation/advice.

 

[gastownguy9999]

The regular I have been seeing 1.5hr once a week (sometimes once every two weeks) for more than a year recently turned batshit crazy. It started with the clock watching, to the last minute cancellation with the bullshit "I'm too tired" excuse, and now it is all drama with scheduling and rescheduling. I have never been married but it has turned into what I assume an unhappy marriage is like. Now, it is time for a divorce.

I feel your pain.
Have had a few experiences where a weekly regular, a SB, and monthly arrangements gone down similar way, I find it better ($ and frustration wise) to seek out SPs whenever I need.

Hope you find 1 or 3 SPs that you click with so that you don't become frustrated when life play its way into your schedule.

 

[Forum mod]

Once again, if you are just going to jump into a 411 thread to belittle people and hijack the thing, kindly SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP.